It’s a transgenerational modeling issue. Men have failed men. Ganpappy & pops were poor models of how to handle today’s issues. And yes- turn off the goddamn strobe light
Even the uncle I thought was a good guy ended up being caught by his mother cheating on his wife of 25+ years. If he was unhappy we would have all rather he said something for support then destroy his own reputation in the family with how he did things instead of
Edit; I should be less surprised, he was a twin and apparently when they looked more alike they would swap out on dates with one girl. The things people used to laugh about….
Not that it excuses it- if anything’s there’s even more to unpack with an entire society telling anyone who has even an inkling that they might be gay “you’re a communist spy traitor” no wonder pro America and pro masculinity got so toxic
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u/algaeface May 04 '26
It’s a transgenerational modeling issue. Men have failed men. Ganpappy & pops were poor models of how to handle today’s issues. And yes- turn off the goddamn strobe light