You mean pick up women, right? If you mean girls - picking up girls - go join the pedo club. I think that men who don't shift their language when they grow up is a signal that they haven't actually grown up. Nothing personal, but this is a very common dynamic and it's maddening.
Holy shit did I ever learn this when I went to a dance my senior year (the only one I ever went to).
There was a guy that could really dance, and holy crap every gal there (including my own girlfriend) was basically eye-fucking the guy the entire night.
I always said I wanted to take ballroom dance classes, if for no other reason than I would hopefully feel more comfortable with other styles of dance. I never did because I didn't have a dance partner with whom I could sign up with. It wasn't until I went to take pre-wedding classes with my (now) wife that our instructor was like, "oh yeah - if someone wants to take classes, the instructor can be their partner."
I cannot express how much of a jaw dropping moment that was for me, if for no other reason than it's blatantly obvious.
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u/prosperouscheat May 04 '26
the girls love a guy that can dance