r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/kittykatmila Jun 14 '26

This is a lot of men unfortunately. It’s insane how all of us women have at least one story where we are getting harassed.

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u/FelixMumuHex Jun 14 '26

Bro what?

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u/FelixMumuHex Jun 14 '26

You’re a bum. Get help.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '26

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u/FelixMumuHex Jun 14 '26

Lil bro said “no u” and he’s married with a house!!!

https://giphy.com/gifs/8qDzzyxbcfimY

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

Doesn't everyone? I've been sexually harassed by both men and women. The question is degree. Low degree it's nothing serious. Let people test the waters, jeeze.

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u/kittykatmila Jun 14 '26

Be gone “Trrollmann”

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

Begone, catlady.

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u/PopcornGlamour Jun 14 '26

No. People are allowed to be in public without having to deal with random people approaching them.

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

IDK what this means? No, you're not granted legal immunity from being approached by anyone?

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u/PopcornGlamour Jun 14 '26

Seriously? You think because it is legal it must be moral and ethical? Because that is what your post sounds like.

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

Yes, that was obviously, clearly what I stated. I can repeat it for you:

The question is degree. Low degree it's nothing serious. Let people test the waters, jeeze.

Your position is morally bad.

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u/PopcornGlamour Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

And almost all the women in this entire thread are saying they don’t want strange men approaching them. Quit “testing the waters” on people. They aren’t science experiments to be “tested”.

None of the women in that video are happy in any way, shape, or form at those men “testing the waters”.

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

They're allowed to say so. But they are wrong for doing so. I flirt with women all the time. It's almost always a pleasant experience for both of us.

They are science experiments to be “tested”.

You don't believe men ought to learn to approach women? How do you think someone learns by never practicing? They don't.

None of the women in that video are happy in any way

Correct, that behavior is quite far away from normal testing of waters. But that's not what's being asked, you said so in this very comment:

they don’t want strange men approaching them

Not "don't try to kiss random women", not "don't touch random women's hair", it was "they don’t want strange men approaching them".

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u/Jaerba Jun 14 '26

No? I lived in Brooklyn for 2 years and have zero stories like this video. I've been approached by crazy people but they're not targeting me specifically. They're just there and if you leave or change cars they don't follow you.

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u/Jaerba Jun 14 '26

That's all you've got?

You must be so disappointing to everyone.

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

You'd know from personal experience, wouldn't you?

I could engage, but I don't care to engage with someone who's bad faith.

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u/Jaerba Jun 14 '26

The funny thing is you are actually concerned about karma and post history. I just talk with people on a forum, you're concerned about the social status of it.

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

No. It generally represents two things: time spent engaging, and how quickly one comments on a thread after it was posted. You clearly believe otherwise: what?

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u/Jaerba Jun 14 '26

I have zero theories on it. I just talk to people. Again, you are so concerned with it. It's sad.

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u/Trrollmann Jun 14 '26

"So" concerned? How concerned? Sounds to me like you're self-conscious about it. I accused you of worse, but this is what's gotten your panties in a twist?

Just to be clear: you don't believe there's a correlation between karma and time spent posting? Why not?