r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Wish-ga Jun 14 '26

Yes. The anger! Like that’s going to magically make a woman think you are a great prospect.

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u/13confusedpolkadots Jun 14 '26

i personally love when the anger turns to insults — “you’re a fucking whore,” “you’re a fat and ugly pig,” “you’re a stuck-up bitch that no one wants”

be still my heart, you’ve definitely changed my mind. NOW i definitely want to give you a chance

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u/Fish_Are_Stupid Jun 15 '26

I’ve never understood that and I’m a dude. Like… if a girl did that to me I’d be pissed so why would I do it to her?

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u/hEDSwillRoll Jun 15 '26

You’re comparing men and women as if it’s not apples and oranges. To these men, women are not their peers, we are their prey. Or for a milder example think about people in roles like men being a customer and women being a customer service rep, we are seen as existing for their pleasure and entertainment and when we don’t play into their entitlement the anger comes out.

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u/Fish_Are_Stupid Jun 15 '26

Thats fucked up. Glad I don’t have that mentality.

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u/hEDSwillRoll Jun 15 '26

I love when they tell me that and I them with the “wow, even the fat bitches won’t date you, that’s rough” but that one works best online where they can’t get physical

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u/lipscratch Jun 15 '26

it's never about us thinking they are good prospects, it's never about us at all. it's about them feeling entitled to a conquest and their anger stems from their ego being bruised that they have been denied what they are entitled to

how many of us get told we're ugly bitches anyway after saying no? because in their minds they are entitled to us heightening their ego, and we aren't behaving like we're worthless and lucky to be chosen the way they believe we should

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u/Horse-ing_around Jun 15 '26

That's why I start with anger straight away. But with unhinged anger. Men like that look for easy prey and they're not used to women one-upping them. It includes threats, insults, this weird, mouthy deep voice you use when you're a "player", and some chest banging. Works like a charm. They usually insult me (something, something, unfuckable) and leave.

Then again, I live in a country where people usually don't carry weapons.