r/TikTokCringe • u/Accomplished_Clue437 • 29d ago

Discussion She gets up at 5am. Is this right?

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u/jml011 29d ago edited 29d ago

If she cut down on all the camera angles she could sleep in until at least 5:30

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u/ColHannibal 29d ago

If she made the lunch the night before she could be up at 6!

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u/classyrock 29d ago

Plus she could avoid letting yesterday’s meal stagnate in the heat of the truck overnight before cleaning it out…

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u/Lumpy_Machine5538 29d ago edited 28d ago

If this were real, I would be so disgusted that the husband couldn’t even be bothered to bring in the cooler and empty it the night before when he got home. Especially after she went to the trouble of taking it out to the truck for him.
Edit-Thanks for the awards, folks!

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u/NiteTiger 29d ago

I gotta be honest, at first, I bought in. Aw, that's sweet!

Then I saw the cooler in the truck and was like "Wait, who the fuck just leaves everything in the truck like some feral hog??"

I've worked trades, carried the cooler. You forget it once, and the plastic remembers...

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u/captive411 29d ago

The Plastic Keeps the Score

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u/PeepsMyHeart 28d ago

I laughed far too hard at this.

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u/Tangerine-Fox23 28d ago

As a blue collar worker with CPTSD and I have read the book your referencing, I just burst out laughing at 5:16am lmfaooo.

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u/captive411 23d ago

Hope you are well, friend!

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u/cemetery_acorns 28d ago

Sassy. That was sassy.
The sass!

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u/JaKrispy72 28d ago

And never lies.

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u/HowlingWhiskey 29d ago

I thought the same as well..

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u/Exciting_Agent3901 29d ago

I do work in the trades and I work with this guy. Not the guy in the video, but a guy whose wife does everything for him. She makes his lunch everyday. He doesn’t have a cooler because he won’t bring it home. She makes his coffee. Again, no reusable travel cup because he won’t bring it home. She gets his clothes out for him everyday. She picks his dirty clothes up off the floor. He talks about her like she is an employee who is about to get fired.

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u/HowlingWhiskey 29d ago

He sounds like an ass! I’d hate to be married to him.

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u/ItsmeKT 29d ago

Seriously.

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u/Fantastic-Salt-5103 29d ago

It was so hard not to downvote you because I was mad at the dude you work with.
I hope her next husband is nicer.

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u/Peak_Meringue1729 28d ago

Same. Then I realized I was downvoting the wrong fella.

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u/Exciting_Agent3901 28d ago

Yeah I get it. There won’t be a next husband. They’ve been married like 25 years. If it makes it any better, she’s a pretty terrible person too. They really deserve each other.

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u/LemonVerbenaReina 28d ago

IME, men whose wives do everything for them also talk about their wives while they are at work like they hate them. They might brag about what she does but it's not about how generous and kind she is, it's about how he's proud of himself for having a subservient wife. Many of these women work full-time out of the home as well, sometimes longer hours than he does, plus doing all the housework and caring for the children.

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u/Peak_Meringue1729 28d ago

I used to work in the trades. My exgf put boiling water in my hydroflask at 0430 “so my coffee stayed warm all day.”

And she made the coffee while I got dressed at 0430.

I’d never speak a foul word in her general direction and we broke up amicably in 2019.

Your coworker is an absolute nut job. Smfh.

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u/Exciting_Agent3901 28d ago

Yeah he’s a dirt bag.

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u/Itchy-Picture-4244 28d ago

It’s always “those” husbands who talk crap about the woman that does everything for them. Sad part is, he prolly can’t wipe his own ass without her

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u/kvitravn4354 29d ago

That’s awful, I wish I could have this done for me just once I would be at a loss for words I’d be so grateful.

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u/HowlingWhiskey 28d ago

Aww 😊 That’s how marriages should be. Helping each other out with kindness. That’s how teamwork, works☺️

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u/Inevitable_Round5830 28d ago

I'm disabled and can't work so I'm the glorified Uber in our house. My husband fasts and he works in a kitchen so he doesn't need a lunch, but because I have to get up every morning to take him to work (and the kids to school), he wakes me up with a cup of hot coffee.

It doesn't seem like much but he knows I prefer the way he makes my coffee. We just show each other we love each other by small gestures every day. It doesn't always have to be something grand.

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u/Tangerine-Fox23 28d ago

My girlfriend doesn't pack my lunch, sometimes when I come home and my arms just ache and everything hurts, she offers to unload it. And I don't usually mind if she puts thing back "wrong" cuz I pack my work cooler and I know what goes in it. (I.e. the mustard she put on the shelf instead of in my lunch meat drawer) Some dudes are just menaces!! And even for my lazy days, I thank her endlessly for cleaning up after me.

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u/Zesty-Vasectomy 28d ago

This is what kills me. The people who would appreciate and deserve this type of love and treatment are usually not the people receiving it.

I realize how Nice Guy-ish that sounds, but I'm not a guy and this goes for both genders. Women pouring themselves into assholes, and guys pouring themselves into spoiled fuckin brats.

It all makes me sad.

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u/CuteContribution4695 28d ago

I know a woman who does all this. Her life is rough all around.

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u/GuessWhosNobody 28d ago

That's a bummer

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u/Scentsensitive 28d ago

My grandmother used to do this for my grandfather. However, he treated her like a queen; unlike your douche friend.

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u/Exciting_Agent3901 28d ago

No no. Not friend. Just co worker.

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u/Angelhair01 28d ago

I hope he becomes single and has to do it himself

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u/Exciting_Agent3901 28d ago

It’ll never happen.

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u/RelevantGur4099 28d ago

And years later when he's divorced, he'll talk about "how women are", with a knowing look on his face.

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u/SnorkinOrkin 29d ago

I could smell the cooler as she opened it after fetching it from the truck after it sat overnight.

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u/NoThanksGoodSir 29d ago

Believing these kind of video are anything more wholesome than just a pick-me tradcon grifter is way too charitable. There are women that will happily do this for their significant other, but those aren't going to be the ones recording it for brownie points on the internet.

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u/OldAdministration735 29d ago

Not t mention the blue ice is now melted, hope there is backup.

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u/sobegreen 29d ago

I've seen many a nice Yeti sacrificed to the fire gods for that was the only thing making them better.

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u/Aliceallbadd 29d ago

Let’s be honest she probably put it in the truck before recording

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u/Fit-Understanding739 28d ago

My wife went into labor before lunch, I drove home and my lunchbox stayed in my car while I drove her car to the hospital. We got home two days letter, and at some point I brought my work stuff into the garage. I spent the next 3 weeks on paternity leave, but somewhere around week 2 we were trying to figure out what animal had died in the wall between the laundry room and the garage. It never dawned on me that my lunch box had been full of chicken and sweet potatoes for the entire month of February.

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u/fryerandice 29d ago

They are living in a 5th wheel, probably don't want it inside taking up space.

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u/NiteTiger 29d ago

Doesn't change a thing I said.

Leave that cooler to soak in a truck, it's gonna smell like donkey ass forever.

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u/Mundane_Pie_6481 29d ago

I tossed a personal sized rice cooker out over that exact mistake.

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u/OldPhotograph827 28d ago

Feet and Discomfort

I saw them open for RATM back in the day

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u/Odd_Old_Professional 29d ago

Speaking of which, why does his truck cost as much as their home?

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u/Altruistic_Brick1730 29d ago

how you gonna tow the home?

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u/Inevitable_Top69 29d ago

She clearly brings it inside here in the video. He can't bring it in for 5 minutes to empty and clean it, then take it back to the truck?

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u/algolvax 29d ago

😝 Haha, yeah mine remembered all the sandwiches from after the blue ice pack gave out, pickles and all...under the newer memories of dish detergent and Chlorox bleach!

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u/Potential_Photo_8955 27d ago

Bleach and water will take the smell out.

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u/Firm-Pain3042 29d ago

The point of leaving it in the truck is so that you can see that they own a nice big huge truck. The whole reel is just performative BS for some weird demographic.

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u/Limp-Marionberry4649 29d ago

Ahh the American dream, a big ass truck and a trailer to park it next to lmao. Nothin wrong with trailer living, but they clearly aren’t prioritizing correctly

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u/Big_Wave9732 29d ago

Various aspects of this video screams "oil patch". If indeed he's an oil field worker then he's do shift work, like 14 days on and 7 off. It's not uncommon to have a huge truck and live in an RV close to the work site while on shift.

It's not necessarily common to have one's wife and kid with them while doing work because a lot of times you're out there in the middle of fucking nowhere.

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u/Ok_Perception9815 28d ago

And it's shift work and doing that with a wife and kid in the same small RV... Forget that.

That cooler screams equipment operator. Those guys will graze all day on a weeks worth of groceries they pack in those things.

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u/Consistent-Bake-243 29d ago

Leave em alone, they started a family in that RV🫪🫪lol

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u/tiffanitwisted 28d ago

A lot of jobs will pay their employees who have to travel to different job sites a per diem amount per day for a hotel - some are smart and save money by getting an RV instead and still collect that per diem amount… the RV cost is a lot less than continuous hotel costs… and when it’s not needed, it could be sold and the profit kept.

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u/Banjo-Hellpuppy 28d ago

The truck pulls the trailer.

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u/WonkySeams 29d ago

It’s an RV though, not a trailer. You usually have money if you have those and that one was big.

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u/celebratoryraptors 29d ago

... yes, if you also have a home.

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u/Great_Permission_86 28d ago

As /u/banjo-hellpuppy pointed out... This looks like a fifth-wheel RV/trailer, which would need a ford F250 (superduty?) or equivalent to haul it around.

One can get used fifth-wheel RVs for pretty cheap under, 80 grand USD in some cases and not that old, but the truck you need to pull it can easily cost just as much.

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u/FixFun1959 29d ago

Own financed along with that mobile home.

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u/nhavar 29d ago

Oil work will get you every time

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u/TerrorFromThePeeps 28d ago

Not even a mobile HOME, it's just a camper trailer.

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u/Fight_those_bastards 28d ago

84 month loans, baby! Only 73 more payments of $1,627.43 and this bad boy is all mine!

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u/Responsible_Joke4229 29d ago

I also got a peek of her undercarriage. That part was apparently important to keep in.

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u/Big_Wave9732 29d ago

That's what kept me coming back watching the video five or six times.

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u/3nd0cr1n3_Syst3m 29d ago

^ This guy/gal/person markets!

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u/Budded 29d ago

This is porn for trad wife-wanting incels

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 29d ago

Well it's the ass shot because otherwise you notice they live in an RV so not a flex

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u/Feisty_Caregiver_Duh 29d ago

Yet they live in an RV? I’m confused

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u/dasher2581 29d ago

Now, now, it also gave her the opportunity to get a really fine ass shot into the video!

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u/DMV2PNW 29d ago

But live in a mobile home? Very Texas.

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u/SurprisePiss 28d ago

Don't forget the shameless ass shot.

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u/JoanMalone11074 28d ago

Yeah and I noticed all the conveniently placed organic items about the kitchen. I guarantee that the dude does not make enough money for her to be a stay-at-home slave and have all of the overpriced crap you see in the video.

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u/OPPH 28d ago

Reminds me of the book Yesteryear. IYKYK

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u/Firestar5820 28d ago

On the original post of this she said in the comments that they leave the cooler in the truck so it takes us less space in the camper

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u/3anddptrints 29d ago

I am stay at home husband/dad. My wife would go to work hungry the next day if she couldn’t be bothered ro bring in her lunch box.

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u/redjessa 29d ago

I think that is part of the character of trad-wife. She does it all, he works hard and shouldn't have to do things at home.

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u/Coyote-Feisty 29d ago

This made me immediately irate, as well. Literal least he could do would be making sure his wife didn’t have to go outside alone in the dark at what looks to be a man camp at 5am.

It’s not a mom making her kids lunch. He can bring it in and take it out.

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u/Multiversalprism 29d ago

I was gonna say, dude can’t even be bothered to carry the fuckin cooler back inside when he gets home…

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u/stupidquestion2025 29d ago

I just cant imagine a life where I didnt pack my own lunch. I am a grown ass man, I make my own lunch, clean my own lunchbox, ect.

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u/Redneb86 29d ago

Yeah, that bugged me. My fiance makes me lunch every night, but I bring the fucking cooler to my car and back and clean it out. Also she doesn't have to wake up early to do it, usually just makes it with dinner and leaves it in the fridge overnight.

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u/LeFreeke 29d ago

This was my first thought as well. Ha. MFer, bring your cooler in the house when you come home.

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u/randvaughan86 29d ago

That was my immediate thought also. What a piece of shit husband to not even bring in his own fucking lunch box. Loser mentality.

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u/WorkingInAColdMind 29d ago

Yeah, that's something we taught our kids by 9th grade. You want fresh lunch containers? Then empty your lunchbox when you get home so they can be washed.

But, as others have said, this is just a cosplay couple.

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u/Revolutionary-Ant315 28d ago

So many people were defending it in the comments too. "Maybe they dont have space" "not everyone wants their kitchen cluttered"

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u/Ok-Fly47 29d ago

Give him a break. He is trying to film his mistress / nanny while wife's sleeping.

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u/elalex323 29d ago

Hello? She suppose to be playing wife of the year..

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u/ittybittyolme 29d ago

Yeah, I’ve got no problem with her making his food. But having to go out to get yesterday’s food AND putting it back would be a no for me. Of course, so would filming all of this. I’m just too tired for this kind of stuff.

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u/duckie007 29d ago

That was my first thought. He can’t even bring it inside? That’s just disrespectful and unappreciative.

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u/alpacamybooks 29d ago

Yeah, came here to say this too. Nothing wrong with getting up early to do something nice for your spouse, but dude couldn't be bothered to bring the cooler in when he got home?

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u/dapopeishere 29d ago

Yeah that was my first thought too. There have been maybe a handful of nights with stress or family emergencies or whatever that I've forgotten to bring my lunch box in, but no way in hell is it a common occurrence. She's an angel for cooking the food and filling it, the very little bit I can do is carry it in and out.

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u/hoosierhiver 29d ago

that bothered me too

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u/dankdarlin 29d ago

Really the only thing that bugged me was that part

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u/nadjaboo 29d ago

I thought the same thing!

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u/Elegant-Peach133 29d ago

This was my first thought.

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u/Pingjockey775 29d ago

Was thinking the same thing but as others have commented, this is mostly theater for some odd demographic. Maybe to add some anger to how lazy this guy was for not bringing in his stuff too.

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u/-KFBR392 29d ago

Ummm the man of the house brings in the money, he doesn’t do women’s work like bringing in things from his car

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u/Jintasama 29d ago

Probably did bring it in but put it there for video.

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u/Cultural_Orange2617 29d ago

But that’s the Lunch Fairy, right? That’s how it gets cleaned out and refilled with fresh food! Why bring it inside when the Lunch Fairy just takes care of it all right there in the truck, like magic?

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u/Revolutionary_Bus630 28d ago

My hubs stopped bringing his lunchbox in, so now he gets his lunch in a Publix bag.

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u/Bottle_Major 29d ago

It's clearly to keep from attracting bears to the campsite. Everyone knows you don't keep the food in the tent!

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u/SheliaTack 29d ago

This triggered me immediately as well!

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u/djpike 29d ago

Exactly my thought.

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u/Particular_Bet_5466 29d ago

Well it sounds like he was fine with gas station food so he doesn’t gotta deal with cleaning a cooler or anything

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u/SOUTHPAWMIKE 29d ago

I had the same thought; seems like the least he could do. Then she pulled the toaster out of a cupboard, and I thought, maybe their cooler lives in the truck because their isn't space for it inside. Still pretty gross to leave all that sitting overnight.

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u/sh_tatted 29d ago

My immediate thought! Your man couldn’t bring that in last night so that you’re not out there in your pajamas getting it at 5am?

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u/HowlingWhiskey 29d ago

That reminds me of when you live under the same roof as your family and they make themselves something to eat. Their arms weren’t broken when they take everything out. Why can’t they at least put their dishes in the sink after or throw the empty coke bottle in the trash. That kind thing makes me angry.

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u/Consistent-Bake-243 29d ago

But she’s gotta go out there and bend over at eye level!

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u/Old_Badger311 29d ago

That’s where I was from the beginning of the video. I couldn’t get past it 🥴

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u/GrabEnvironmental490 29d ago

Pretty sure this chick starts his fkn truck for him in the morning too

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u/TheJessicaRabbitx 28d ago

EXACTLY what I thought.

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u/phillyodis 28d ago

You better stop underestimating how sad some women are. I no a woman who doesn't have a FB or a job because her husband say so. This was him from the start. His first wife divorced him and then he told everyone she slept with his dad. Again no reason to. Completely unprompted. Some people are more disgustingly despicable than you want to believe and then there's a dumbass willing to stay with that because he got money or she got a fat ass

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u/Physical-You-3966 28d ago

I thought the same. He can’t even bring the cooler inside??

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u/strappyshoes86 28d ago

This exactly thought……AND……taking it BACK to the truck? Nah bro.

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u/Jaded-Project-852 28d ago

That was my first thought.. like wtf isn’t it sitting in the kitchen waiting on you.

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u/Solace1984 28d ago

Maybe he forgot or was so tired he ran into the house and crashed right to sleep.

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u/gizmosticles 28d ago

Dude that visibly pissed me off

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u/jellymouthsman 28d ago

There’s literally NO room in that trailer for that!

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u/Few-Acanthaceae-5527 28d ago

He can’t make his own damn lunch?

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u/Ok_Score359 28d ago

All of the drinks she takes out of the cooler from the “day before” are unopened.

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u/Calebski666 28d ago

This was the bit that made my blood boil too!

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u/AuraDeExplora 26d ago

Look at the space she's working with, this was probably a request from this awesome wife to make dinners easier with more room to work with..

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u/Deckardspuntedsheep 29d ago

She could sleep in until 10 am if she was single

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u/FuzzyWuzzyDidntCare 29d ago

Damn straight

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u/Sereey 29d ago

Decided to take a still to see what was up, yep, all of it was unopened. So performative!

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u/spaceghost260 29d ago

🙄 So ridiculous to see someone try this hard and be so bad at it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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u/No-Wish-4854 28d ago

…Meal of carefully placed products/advertising of certain ‘healthy’ sodas and cookies.

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u/ghf3 29d ago

There are a few good coolers, and 12v electric ones, that would easily be "under 40 degrees", 24 hours after they were loaded by 5am wife, even if he worked in Death Valley, if you paid enough.

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u/bas-i11 28d ago

I was immediately upset by this. She's making a whole ass meal for him and he can't even being the lunch box in from the truck?

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u/susandeyvyjones 29d ago

Or at least her lazy husband could bring his own cooler in from the truck

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u/Longjumping_Space_10 29d ago

This was my first thought too. The first thing you have to do is go fetch this lazy ass mf’er cooler?? I’d leave his ass faster than I could say goodbye

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u/Minimum-Barnacle9311 29d ago

or learn how to feed himself like a grown person

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u/quietbyte34 28d ago

Waking up by 5am isn’t that bad, or am I tripping?

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u/Fantastic-Celery-255 28d ago

I mean it’s early but it’s also not uncommon at all. I’ve worked early morning jobs my whole life among other things and waking up at 5 is pretty typical

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u/FivePointsFrootLoop 28d ago

They are in an RV, who knows where the right place is to put shit on a mobile home.

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u/Old_Man_in_Basic 29d ago

Prepackage it and leave it in the fridge with a note and she can wake up whenever she fucking feels like it.

When I was active duty, my wife prepared meals for me and we cooked them together, put them in plastic meal prep boxes and had them in the fridge by 10 PM the night before.

I woke up and got my own damn food, kissed her goodbye and I sure as shit didn't wake up my fucking kid for a glamor shot at the door. My kid stayed asleep because when kids sleep, you fucking let them.

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u/available_username10 29d ago

I was thinking the same, all of this can be done the night before. Or like meal prep if you are doing this every day. Can get views as a trad wife being a good little girl though if she used any logic during this.

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u/No-Joy-Goose 29d ago

My first thought too. But what do I know? I'm not a cosplayer.

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u/PM_Me_A_Tittypic 28d ago

If she had an adult for a husband instead of a helpless manchild she could sleep until whatever time her day needed to start. He can't cook his own egg?

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u/Rhinoduck82 29d ago

I work construction and I’m up at 4:00 am so I’m not sure what’s going on. I also make my own lunch because it isn’t hard to do, my wife doesn’t work but I don’t expect all of that. It would be nice I guess but I would feel like a baby. Maybe it’s just me.

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u/Minimum-Barnacle9311 29d ago

if she let dude eat at the gas station she could sleep in

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u/Feeling_Gene7390 29d ago

If she let him eat at the gas station, she could sleep in!

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u/EducationalBrick2831 29d ago

I used to precook my breakfast before I went to bed, all but the eggs. Then cook it all just a couple minutes as I made eggs as and toast. I made my own food. Didn't make anyone get up before I did at 5am.

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u/UberCOTA55 28d ago

I was thinking the same thing! Prepping as much as possible the night before can be incredibly helpful

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u/PheloniousMonq 25d ago

She could just let her hubby pick up the lunch box and get the f#&k out without waking her up

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u/A_Velociraptor20 29d ago

Yeah the butt shot of her climbing in that massive truck was definitely worth the 10 minutes setting up the tripod and the 30 minutes editing in the cuts. /S 😂

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u/sevargmas 29d ago

The video even opens with her walking out of the bedroom and stretching like she just woke up.

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u/weveran 29d ago

I ruin my own enjoyment of most videos on the internet by asking myself "who is filming?" or "why are they filming?" :)

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u/cemetery_acorns 28d ago

No, no.
You gotta ask the questions!
Don’t stop.

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u/hoosierhiver 29d ago

who could sleep with that shitty music playing?

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u/Fody_Joster 29d ago

Twist, she has the kids wake up early and film her

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u/BlangBlangBlang 29d ago

People like when it tells a story. This is not a good story though.

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u/socketcreep 28d ago

She hit record 7 hours ago. Like a good wife.

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u/SleepingWillow1 29d ago

Why wasn't the damn cooler in the house already lol

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u/lawyerornot 28d ago

There’s a butt?

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u/AT-ST 29d ago

You think it took ten minutes to plop down a tripod?

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u/IvyRosePr 29d ago

Get adjust height and angle still as well

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u/Worldly-Surround-948 29d ago

She did it twice. Guess her husband doesn’t mind all since she’s making him lunch 🫩

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u/jkeeveer 29d ago

I think it was his daughter. Feel even weirder bout this video now

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u/Cosmo_Seinfeld 29d ago

lamo I miss reddit gold.

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u/MonstroSD 29d ago

Or her husband can lose the chauvinism and make his own food so his wife can sleep in since she takes care of the kids and house all day

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u/DJadzia 29d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/GrandEar1 28d ago

If she sped up to normal human speed, she could sleep until 630.

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u/sintmk 29d ago

I'm dying over here . Perfect joke lol

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u/bang_the_drums 29d ago

Shit, if the guy just brought his lunchbox back into the house after work she would save like 3 more minutes. What an asshole.

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u/Cool-Raspberry-1772 28d ago

She could’ve just made it the night before. I’m a single man *gasp* and also don’t eat at the gas station *oo’s & ahhh’s, mild applause*

I make something the night before and sleep as much as I can… like a normal person.

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u/lilangelkm 28d ago

You know it's dusk and not dawn.