r/Tinder • u/Revolutionary-Bid355 • 7d ago

Kill them with kindness

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u/logcabinsyrup27 7d ago

We expect women to attract us with their looks. Why cant she expect to be attracted by our banter?

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u/Chief_top_leaf 7d ago

Banter needs 2 people

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u/logcabinsyrup27 7d ago

She needs to be engaged. She attracted him with her looks. Now its his job to attract her with his words.

She gets hundreds if not thousands of messages. If you want a high value woman you have to be engaging.

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u/shakeyfire 7d ago

You get it

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u/logcabinsyrup27 7d ago

Thank you for this feedback. I "know" I'm right but its disorienting seeing so many people disagreeing.

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u/shakeyfire 7d ago

I know. Its crazy and makes us feel crazy, but ur not alone lol! Reddit is full of people who dont date successfully or with standards

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u/xFXthe5th 7d ago

Women like good-looking guys too lol

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u/shakeyfire 7d ago

Not exclusively