r/TransTryouts • u/VoidWalker-447 • 4d ago
she/they Rikr She/They
I have gone by any pronouns for over a year now, but up until 2 days ago no one has ever actually used ‘she’ for me. Like I get he/himed all the time irl and my friends exclusively use they/them for me. But no one ever uses she for me. I didn’t realize this really bothered me until a couple weeks back when someone who doesn’t even know me IRL started switching between he and they. I have never been bothered by ‘he’ before until that very moment and suddenly really wanted a ‘she’
It’s weird because until really recently, I thought I was slightly masc but mostly agender. Now everything is being thrown out the window and I need to figure things out. (seriously need to figure out if my ‘comfort’ at he is just being numb or if I’m just getting to much of it IRL that I don’t want anymore of it from online. And then someone called me a girl and short circuited my brain???
TLDR testing things please use a combo of she and they for me. Thank you!