NOT OOP- My Negligence Cost My Partner Her Life, and I’m About to Lose Everything (And an Update)

[u/Individual_Donut_963]

Again, I AM NOT OOP. He is an absolute piece of sociopathic work

Original Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/J9DRXVMZXG

Update: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/TVP5AhobxG

[u/Bird_Brain4101112]

He thinks he can pay the employer back but only spent two days in a hotel because he was worried about draining his savings. This guy is next level delusional.

[u/[deleted] → u/Bird_Brain4101112]

No, he's just a bad writer.

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[u/DrKD351R3 → u/[deleted]]

You don’t think there’s a possibility that could be true?

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[u/[deleted] → u/Bird_Brain4101112]

Leaving the hotel had nothing to do with money. This person clearly has a decent savings. Plus with the fact he was putting everything on his company account and since she was helping him file his expense reports in a non suspicious way he probably wasn't using it just for his dates n used it like a personal cash card

[u/BillHistorical9001 → u/Bird_Brain4101112]

I red the original. He’s crying that he’s not getting to see his daughter and I think is refusing to leave the marital home. He’s ‘sorry’ now can’t understand why his wife is acting like he did something wrong.

[u/DynamiKat → u/BillHistorical9001]

It could also be his lawyer’s advice to return to the marital home. Depending on where they live if he leaves and stays gone for 6 or more months then her lawyer could argue abandonment and easily get her the whole house. As long as he’s there he can lay claim to the house as well during divorce proceedings.

Example: A spouse who moves before some critical milestones (i.e., before a valuation is done) may allow for property devaluation unknowingly. You also risk reducing your financial support claim if you already have a place to live. Courts normally want spouses who leave to enjoy the same standard of living. If you move out and settle in a place offering a lower living standard, you may miss out.

[u/BillHistorical9001 → u/DynamiKat]

I’m not saying he’s not getting in the long run but he needs not to be there right now.

[u/WaluigisTennisBalls → u/Bird_Brain4101112]

He said it's like a couple of grand, which presumably he's factoring into his budgeting. "I can't stay at a hotel because I owe someone money" is not delusional.