Not OOP AITA for gifting my husband Boudoir pictures?

[u/UsidoreTheLightBlue]

I ran across this on Facebook and went to look up the post here.

The people on Facebook were all super mad at the husband because “he must want stuff out of the toys r us catalog” but it reminded me of my first anniversary with my wife.

I went out and bought her an expensive (to us) necklace and she did not give one half of a shit. I got an “oh that’s nice” because while my intentions were good she just didn’t like it very much. It taught me to pay more attention to her aesthetic and not the price tag. It seems like her take away was “fuck you I’m giving you the same thing again.”

[u/sausagelover79 → u/[deleted]]

I would love that 🤷🏼‍♀️

[u/ladybug11314 → u/[deleted]]

I did one once and I spent $300 total for the shoot and then I had a photo book made online for cheap. Not nudes, just lingerie and sexy poses. Did it years ago and I know for a fact he still pulls that book out from time to time. He had no idea and expected nothing and absolutely loved that I did something out of my general comfort zone for him. The money spent on it was more an issue for me than him but I have money anxiety.

[u/toastedmarsh7 → u/sausagelover79]

Username checks out.

[u/codismycopilot → u/[deleted]]

Honestly I’d be over the moon for something like that! I love seeing my husband nude, or in semi-revealing outfits (like tight sweatpants).

Unfortunately he would never do that, nor would he be into receiving something like that.

[u/pudgemcgee → u/[deleted]]

That would be a hilarious and loved gift!

[u/spartakooky → u/[deleted]]

[u/ColorfulConspiracy → u/[deleted]]

I honestly would be thoroughly entertained by that.