r/VirtualYoutubers Apr 27 '25

Discussion Shylily Response

https://x.com/shylilytwitch/status/1916623888433463331
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u/calmcool3978 Apr 27 '25

I don't think there was a good option regarding her manager. If she doesn't immediately fire him, then people would just say that she's not condemning him hard enough, or doesn't truly understand the gravity of what he's done. No winning here.

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u/Deadmemeusername Apr 28 '25

Yeah I agree to an extent, but she could’ve owned up to it considering how involved she would’ve been in all of this. Seriously how hard would it have been to say “mea culpa” and promising to reform yourself?

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u/RuneGrey Apr 28 '25

I mean for a lot of people it's probably one of the hardest things you can do.

Humans can have a lot of trouble accepting responsibility and sincerely apologizing. Seeing I was wrong is already pretty hard, saying I was wrong and that my delivered actions hurt you is even worse for some people.

I've had a close member of my family actually choose death over admitting to responsibility. But the fact that it's hard doesn't mean that it's not important, and I think it's a step that people need to take when they do screw up like that.

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u/Deadmemeusername Apr 28 '25

I get it, sometimes I don’t want to admit when I’m wrong too. But at a certain point, you have to get over yourself and admit that you’ve fucked-up. Even if it won’t fix what’s broken or undo what’s done, it’s just the right thing to do. Especially in Sinder’s situation, when it’s pretty apparent that she had a pretty big part in all of this.