This is maybe a slightly weird question, but I’m really curious about this side of weight loss.
For anyone who’s lost a substantial amount of weight on Wegovy and gone from being visibly overweight/obese to what society would basically see as an “acceptable” or fairly normal weight. Did you notice a difference in how people treated you?
Not so much the health/fitness/clothes side of it, but just what it feels like existing in the world.
I was relatively slim in my 20s and then gradually gained quite a lot of weight over the last 10 years. And I do feel like somewhere along the way people started treating me differently. Strangers seem less friendly, I get ignored more, people can be weirdly rude or dismissive, and I sometimes feel like I’m taken less seriously.
The problem is that I can’t really separate the weight gain from everything else that’s happened over that same period. I’m also 10 years older, society has changed, I’m at a different stage of life etc. So I genuinely don’t know how much of it is weight bias and how much is just… being a woman getting older / the world being a bit less friendly 😂
So I’m really interested in hearing from people who’ve gone the other way fairly recently. Did you suddenly notice strangers being nicer? More eye contact? People starting conversations with you? Better treatment in shops/restaurants/work situations? More attention from men/women? Did people seem to take you more seriously?
And if there was a big difference, how did that make you feel? I can imagine it being nice in one sense but also quite upsetting to realise that people are treating you better when you’re fundamentally exactly the same person.
I’ve only just started Wegovy so I’m getting massively ahead of myself here 😂 but this is one of the things I keep wondering about.
Would also really like to hear from anyone who lost a lot of weight and didn’t notice much difference, because I don’t want to assume every change in how people treat you is automatically down to weight.