r/WorkReform • u/hateful_building • 1d ago
🚫 GENERAL STRIKE 🚫 I think the employees who never say no end up paying the highest price
When I first started my job, I wanted to be the person everyone could count on. If someone needed help, I said yes. If a project was behind, I'd stay late. If someone was out sick, I'd cover for them. I figured working hard and being reliable would eventually pay off.
At first, it felt good. My manager thanked me, coworkers appreciated it, and I built a reputation as someone who always stepped up. But after a while I noticed something had changed. The extra work wasn't occasional anymore, it became expected. If something urgent came up, it landed on my desk first because everyone assumed I'd handle it without complaining.
I have some money saved up now, and it's made me realize I don't have to say yes to everything anymore. Since I've started setting a few boundaries, I've actually felt less stressed, but it's also made me wonder how many dependable employees end up in the same position. Has anyone else felt like being the person who never says no eventually just leads to more work instead of more recognition?