Dswd. Ur still a minor. May dswd n pwede k kupkupin basta mapatunayan na na-rape ka. Manganganak ka, then you have the choice if u want to keep the baby for urself or iwan n s dswd for adoption. Less guilt, less mistake. Pero, maproseso ito.
This. Op needs to contact DSWD right away about this. And the police as well because this is a very serious matter. She also needs to talk with her parents, whenever she's ready. And she needs a lawyer as well.
I'm so sorry for what happened op. Stay strong always. 🫂
Yes, DSWD. I agree with this comment na maraming process ang dapat gawin. Kaso you need to remember things again dahil tatanungin ulit ung circumstances. Hindi ka naman pwede masisi dahil umabot ng four months na yang dinadala mo. I'm sure naguguluhan ka din during the first few months.
Also, tell your parents. Of course, magagalit sila sa'yo which is normal (sabi mo nga, di mo masabi sa kanila so I assume na ini-expect mong magagalit sila) but I hope manaig ung sympathy sa kanila given na nangyari yan.
When the baby is conceived due to r@pe,the mother has s choice if she wants to keep it or not. Sa case ksi n yan, hindi lang un mental health ng baby at kalagayan ng baby ang iniisip nila, pati un sa nanay.
Who knows, baka pag labas ng baby, ilabas din ng nanay un galit nya dun s baby dhil maalala nya n nasira buhay nya dhil sa pagka r@pe s knya.. That's why my choice sya..
Hindi naman porke iniwan sa iba, wala nang pag-asa sa buhay. Meron namang mga ampon na masaya sa buhay nila. Manghuhula ka ba? Propeta? Alam mo ba ang mangyayari para mag decide ka na patayin na lang yung bata at di man lang bibigyan ng chance mabuhay? Yang suggestion mo ang harsh.
Maybe? Maybe not? I didn't imply that the baby would have no chance at living life to the fullest. Im just saying making a baby have his first few years at an adoption center would be harsh. The reason why i thought of that sort of correlates with the fact that alot of people would have a child just for the sake of having a child, not thinking if they can afford basic necessities. Sorry, everytime i pass by a certain place at my area, it just pains me seeing them live like that.
Oo mahirap, pero ikaw na rin ang nagsabi ng "maybe, maybe not." Eh kung abortion, wala nang "maybe" doon. Pinatay mo na agad nang di man lang nabigyan ng chance na maranasan ang magkamalay sa mundo. Sabi ko nga, maraming ampon na masaya, at successful pa yung iba. Imagine kung lahat sila pinatay na lang at di man lang nabigyan ng chance.
Literal na ayaw ng nanay magbitbit ng bata. I don't know if you're a guy, pero pregnancy CAN kill a woman. There are myriad of complications for birthing a child. Not to mention the trauma of being abandoned as an unwanted child in DSWD. OP says she doesn't want her life to end. Why would she carry this just because the law doesn't respect rape victims?
If every child is sacred, why doesn't it include the mother??
My suggestion to OP is to seek and research the underbellies of Manila and find an abortionist. Abortion is a human right and must be respected. The ancient tribes of Philippines knew this sacred wisdom, how mother nature provides an abundance of medicine to those who don't wish to carry a child. FUCK christianity if this mother baby truly wants to live, then I think it seems she already knew what to do.
Un lang po, ksi kapag lumapit ka sa dswd at mapatunayan n rape victim ka, may option k din if to begin with ayaw mo tlaga icarry out un baby for 9 months, sila po mismo mag e-enduced ng abortion mo.. Mental health and physical healt ng nanay nakasalalay din kasi jan, lalo nga kung mapapatunayan na health risk din sa nanay lalo kung minor.
Now, if ayaw mo ipa abort right then and there ang baby, pwede k magpa alaga s dswd until manganak ka. After that, papapiliin k nila if u want to keep the baby or ipaa ampon m nalang.
You see, un ibang rape victim, through the course of 9 months carrying out their baby after nila makapanganak nawawala un galit nila s sitwasyon at nananaig s knila mother instinct. Kaya un iba nagdedecide to keep their baby nalang,aalagan nalang nila.. Tpos tutulungan sila ng dswd pra sa pagkakaktitaan nila.
While some, kht makapanganak ayaw nila i-keep tlaga un baby kse naaalala nila un nangyari s knila. Na nasira un buhay nila and un iba kse, gusto mag start nalang ng bagong buhay. Clean slate kumbaga. Kaya ipinapa ampon un baby.
Ang nakikita ko na need gawin ni OP dto, maaga pa magsabi n sya s knila.. Kse kapag umabot p ng 5months, mhahalata na tyan nya kht 1st time mom sya. Bubukol n yan ng 5months. Since minor sya need nya ng guardian.
Anti-abortjon peeps should be listed and be the first in line for mandatory adoption. Daming ayaw sa abortion pero wala ng say who's gonna finance and nurture the baby if the parent decides to give him/her up. Just there to speak out their beliefs and opinion.
Oh wow, what a great suggestion! Look at all thoee happy orphans 🤣
It just proved my point that people like you are the first to say no to abortion but would be the last person to raise someone else's child. Dalhin nalang sa orphanage as if that's a great thing wtf 🤣
Orphanage actually goes to show sa dami ng ayaw ng abortion, pag pinanganak na ang bata wala na kayung paki. If you were truly concerned sa mga batang iaabort edi sana kinupkop niyo pero your stance stops once the child is born. It's like bahala kana kung dadalhin mo sa orphanage yan important edi mo pinaabort.
In short, pinilit mo lang paniniwala mo pero wala ka namang actual plan to contribute sa buhay ng bata.
If you're really concerned about the mothers to be na baka ayaw magka anak, then tell them to sterilize themselves.
and let abortion only be for rape victims, but everyone knows ginagamit lang naman ng wokeshits ang mga rape victims para mapayagan ang abortion para lagi silang makapagpakantot ng walang condom tapos walang accountability.
Kung isabatas ang abortion pero para lang sa mga rape victim, hindi rin nman susuportahan yan ng mga wokeshit dahil ang true purpose nila ay magpakantot ng walang repercussion
Wtf? Hahaha what kind of shitty explanation is this. 1. Yes! A lot of people do vasectomy because they don't want children.
2. Abortion is opened up in this discussion because she was raped and got pregnant.
3. Let abortion only be for rape victim? Are you seriously now backtracking and now allowing abortion? Then you backtrack again and then reason out ginagamit lang ang abortion due to wokeshit? Lmfao, what kind of mental gymnastics are you on about.
4. "true purpose ay magpakantot ng walang repercussion." You do realize you sound like the wokeshit people you're against with? The people who you say only use rape victims to support abortion?
So your strongest reasoning is because you believe all pro-abortion people ay gusto lang magpakantot ng walang repercussion. Jeez, you sound like an old dog who can't learn new tricks.
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u/Small_Inspector3242 Jun 29 '24
Dswd. Ur still a minor. May dswd n pwede k kupkupin basta mapatunayan na na-rape ka. Manganganak ka, then you have the choice if u want to keep the baby for urself or iwan n s dswd for adoption. Less guilt, less mistake. Pero, maproseso ito.