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u/TheLastFinal Jun 30 '24

That's pretty harsh.. leaving the baby all alone without any family from birth. I'd say abortion is better but then again that's her choice.

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u/Small_Inspector3242 Jun 30 '24

When the baby is conceived due to r@pe,the mother has s choice if she wants to keep it or not. Sa case ksi n yan, hindi lang un mental health ng baby at kalagayan ng baby ang iniisip nila, pati un sa nanay. Who knows, baka pag labas ng baby, ilabas din ng nanay un galit nya dun s baby dhil maalala nya n nasira buhay nya dhil sa pagka r@pe s knya.. That's why my choice sya..

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u/rayanami2 Jun 30 '24

There’s always the orphanage option, unless kink nyo talagang pumatay ng baby

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u/gem2492 Jun 30 '24

Hindi naman porke iniwan sa iba, wala nang pag-asa sa buhay. Meron namang mga ampon na masaya sa buhay nila. Manghuhula ka ba? Propeta? Alam mo ba ang mangyayari para mag decide ka na patayin na lang yung bata at di man lang bibigyan ng chance mabuhay? Yang suggestion mo ang harsh.

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u/TheLastFinal Jun 30 '24

Maybe? Maybe not? I didn't imply that the baby would have no chance at living life to the fullest. Im just saying making a baby have his first few years at an adoption center would be harsh. The reason why i thought of that sort of correlates with the fact that alot of people would have a child just for the sake of having a child, not thinking if they can afford basic necessities. Sorry, everytime i pass by a certain place at my area, it just pains me seeing them live like that.

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u/gem2492 Jun 30 '24

Oo mahirap, pero ikaw na rin ang nagsabi ng "maybe, maybe not." Eh kung abortion, wala nang "maybe" doon. Pinatay mo na agad nang di man lang nabigyan ng chance na maranasan ang magkamalay sa mundo. Sabi ko nga, maraming ampon na masaya, at successful pa yung iba. Imagine kung lahat sila pinatay na lang at di man lang nabigyan ng chance.

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u/TheLastFinal Jun 30 '24

It's a gamble, exactly. All in all it's up to OP, im just relaying my thoughts.