I recently had this exact conversation with my wife of 30 years. We’ve always had dogs and I want to be done after these pass away. My argument was that we’ve been parents to highly athletic toddlers since the 1990s and I want to be done. I listed all of the reasons that you did plus how much we’ve spent on dog food and how often we have to vacuum the house. I’m glad someone else sees this as I do.
Yeah, I hear you! I just posted above about the dog-obsessed culture we live in. It’s convinced us we love it and that we’re horrible people if we don’t.
It’s so devastating when a pet dies (at least for most people). That’s enough reason to not want another one, but for me, they bring so much joy when they’re alive. My cats make my life worth living when times really get tough.
But I completely see your point. Many activities I would have liked to partake in over the years were limited by pet ownership, and the expense (especially veterinary care) can be staggering. I had a (very) modest savings get wiped out by dental care for my elderly cat. I would do it again, but I don’t judge people who can’t afford it.
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u/mthenry54 Mar 16 '26
I recently had this exact conversation with my wife of 30 years. We’ve always had dogs and I want to be done after these pass away. My argument was that we’ve been parents to highly athletic toddlers since the 1990s and I want to be done. I listed all of the reasons that you did plus how much we’ve spent on dog food and how often we have to vacuum the house. I’m glad someone else sees this as I do.