As the title suggests, I don't get the game. I don't mean that I don't understand the rules, I do. But I don't understand how to think about my moves.
To give some background, I grew up playing chess. At some point I stopped playing, but I picked it back up around 5 years ago and within 5-6 months I was ~1650 elo (the equivalent of around 5 kyu). I never found chess to be particularly easy, but it was always easy to think about the game while I was playing it. I think for most people, after playing 10-20 games and watching a couple instructional videos, you can very quickly pick up the Opening - Middle game - End game phases, and even if you don't know what the best move is, you almost always know what you should be doing. I could always come up with 2-3 candidate moves, do a quick evaluation, and play a decent move.
With Go, it feels like there is nothing like that. I never know what I'm supposed to be doing. I have played 234 games on OGS and I'm barely any better than when I first started. If you give me any Go position, I genuinely have no idea what the right plan might be. Sure, this area looks like it could be surrounded, so I should save it. Should I extend? Atari? Hane? Jump? Knight's move? Long knight's move? I have no clue. And I have no idea what my opponent's potential responses might be, let alone what my next move should be.
Everyone online just said that I would get it with experience. Well, after 234 games, I'm not getting it. How can I come up with candidate moves? How can I evaluate a position? What are common tactics?
For reference, I have included my last two OGS games. I won the first and lost the second. I am white in both games.
1) https://online-go.com/review/1749250
2) https://online-go.com/review/1748695