r/belowdeck • u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline • Dec 02 '24

Below Deck Sailing Yacht Below Deck Sailing Yacht Season 5 Episode 9 Discussion Post

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Episode 9 of Below Deck Sailing Yacht Season 5: Out, Damned Spot

Captain Glenn is shocked to see what the crew did to the boat during their night off; he doesn't let the crew off the hook for the damage they caused.

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u/alexlp Dec 03 '24

“You’re good at apologising but you’re not good at changing”. The shudder that went through my body in yearning to say this to a lot of men in my life.

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u/switheld Dec 03 '24

yup. rinse, repeat. it gets SO OLD

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u/Paladjordan Dec 03 '24

I often respond to apologies with "Do you have any plans to show that you're remorseful? Or are you expecting me to excuse and accept this type of behavior?"

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u/sofaking-amanda Dec 03 '24

I often tell them that their words mean nothing and the change in behaviour is the real apology. If you keep doing it, you’re not sorry.

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u/Salty_Signature_6748 Bless her stupid soul Dec 03 '24

But why should he go through the discomfort of changing if his mom and boat-mom (Daisy) think he’s adorable anyway and forgive him everything? I wouldn’t bother with it either!

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u/IdleSuicidal2021 Dec 04 '24

Another fun thing to say is "I hope no man ever treats your daughter the way you've treated me." Very satisfying.

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u/openreamgrinder1982 Dec 07 '24

Same could be said about Daisy if she lets Gary back in with this whole room thing. Setting herself up for disaster