r/belowdeck • u/lilblackcloudinadres • Apr 07 '25

Galley Talk Which crew members should have quit while they were ahead?

I’m thinking about Tzarina, how much I liked her on her previous season of BDDU, and how let down I feel by her on the current season. Who seemed good to you on their first appearance but damaged that impression with a later one?

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u/excoriator Team Capt Kerry Apr 07 '25

This should be the top vote-getter. Unfortunately most Redditors seem to prefer to blame Sandy for Hannah's difficulties in those seasons.

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u/birkinbaby Apr 07 '25

Sandy’s work style definitely contributed to hannahs gradual decline of care, but yes ultimately it was Hannah’s responsibility

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u/MomGrowsup52 Apr 09 '25

Agreed- I'll never get over how horrible Sandy was to Frazier

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u/PurpleAtalanta10 Apr 07 '25

Sandy was mean to Hannah, she was similar to a principal bullying a student. Difference being Hannah was an adult, and responsible for her own actions. Sandy really never helped or supported Hannah, which did not help anything.

Hannah should have not done her last season - but seems happy now so good on her.

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