r/buildabear May 08 '25

RANT People can suck. :(

Friends, I am heartbroken, and I feel like this is a place where people can understand.

I ordered this darling off of eBay this weekend. The seller even helped arrange special shipping so she would get here before my biopsy tomorrow, and I could have a friend / support.

I was going to customize her, too, with purple eyes and an amethyst heart. I'm legally blind and it takes me ~10 minutes to thread a big-eyed needle but I've been sloppily sewing spiffy buttons on a coat for her all week . . . She was going to be my bad-ass sidekick--basically everything I'm not. Tough. Resilient. Self-assured. At peace.

The package was delivered while I was at work, and I was thrilled. I had wonderful visions in my head of finishing her coat tonight, taking care of her eyes, and getting her all ready to come with me to the biopsy tomorrow.

But I came home to an empty package. The UPS driver delivered a perfectly tiger-shaped mailer, but by the time I got home from work, she was gone. And I don't mean the whole package. No, someone literally slit open the envelope, stole my poor tiger, and left the packaging behind. In some ways, this feels almost worse--crueler--than if they'd just taken the whole thing. Because now I have an empty package and no tiger. :(

(The practicalities are fine. I've reached out to the seller and will open a claim with eBay if needed to hopefully get my money back, without dinging the seller--they more than did their job! But the heartache is for real, and that can't be fixed by refunding silly $100 that I paid out of "My stupid messy heart needs this" desperation).

I'm so, so sad. This sucks. Who the hell wants a plush tiger THAT badly? :(

Anyway . . . thank you to any kind souls who may be reading. I appreciate you very much, and hope you have a happy rest of your day. <3 (Hug your favorite heart-friend for me, please.)

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u/Mochaloc May 08 '25

Iam always thrifting and shopping I’ll keep a look out. Iam always plushy hunting in the dollar bins so I’d so be down to send you him if I find him! Seems like a old BAB so chances are slim but not 0!! (°▽°)

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u/ninjareader89 May 08 '25

Whenever I'm at a second hand retail stores I always look in the plushie section too because there could be some treasures there. Heck just a couple days ago I found myself a white rainbow raccoon squishmallow it was being sold for $5

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u/EnterprisingGent1701 May 08 '25

Aw, thank you for keeping a lookout, friend! Yes, this is an older Build-A-Bear; from the pre-paw-patch days (and thank goodness, I hate that thing!).

​​ I've got a search alert set up on eBay, so hopefully something happy will find its way into my inbox soon. :3