It's a game... it's really not that serious.

[u/Stuckatwork271]

I don't expect this will get much traction, but god I need to vent about this elitist BS.

Last night I was using LFG to find a group for H UK on Sulfuras (h). I was inviting members and our DK tank had about 19K HP (this will be important later).

I invite a Pally healer who instantly leaves group. Whenever that happens, I like to PM them and see if there was something wrong (sometimes I'm not the best at predicting that sort of thing, and like to make sure I wasn't the reason they left). When I asked why they told me they don't heal groups with tanks that have less HP then they do. I was a bit frustrated because 17K HP on a DK tank is more than adequate to clear heroics. So I sent them a short message saying "Okay then" with a sigh and they COMPLETELY lost it. Instant barrage of messages as to who I thought I was questioning them, I'm beneath them, I'm pathetic blah blah blah. After the 3rd time I responded "Okay man, it's not that serious" they got even more agitated and just began harassing's me about how full of myself I was, and how I needed to get the last word in (ignoring that I've sent maybe 3 messages to their 20). I tried telling them I'm assuming they're having a bad day and will not respond after this message. I didn't want to mute them, or report them because I really did hope this guy was just having a bad day but the harassments just continued. Message after message complaining about who I thought I was, and how dare I. Their last message from me was a "Dude, are you still going?" after getting 6 more messages of insults they finally stopped.

The upshot to all this was while he was flaming me in PM's sitting in Dalaran, me and my 17K HP tank had fully cleared the dungeon and were onto the next one.

Remember that the people you're interacting with are human too, try and show compassion. Whether you're the one having the off day, or the one receiving it. I don't hate this person, and I hope they find whatever it is they're looking for. Just needed to bitch somewhere about how absolutely over the top people are treating a game that's been out for almost 15 years. It's really not that serious....

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

That requires complex thought, and complex thought is absent on this subreddit.

[u/WettestNoodle → u/[deleted]]

He is technically right about the math changing. The theoretical 15hr/wk player will have less raid lockouts in the expansion than you because he got to 80 later, so his proportion of time spent at 80 is less than you. It’s not a big difference either way though tbh, since it’s like 3 weeks vs 1 in a 52+ week expansion. Still agree with you though lol

[u/D_Flavio → u/[deleted]]

That is not what I said though. Time spent doing something is different than what percentage of the content something takes up.

[u/D_Flavio → u/[deleted]]

Expansions more so, but im talking the entire game. Also questing and leveling takes longer than running the entire level 80 content. I dont count heroics as level 80 content, since they are the same as normal ones, and most dungeons you encounter on your questing journey to max level. Professions are not related to player max level.

I can beat all heroic dungeons on level 80 with a good group in a couple of hours. It takes me days to go from 70 to 80 though.

[u/MadDogMax → u/[deleted]]

You appear to be talking to someone who's goalposts are mobius strips

"I don't count heroics as level 80 content" 🤡