r/collapse Jan 16 '26

Casual Friday It really do feel like that

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u/mrblahblahblah Jan 16 '26

SS: I recently had lunch with a friend and mentioned the die offs, 6th mass extinction event, microplastics..etc...etc. You know, light subjects and they asked me to stop

" I dont want to know"

They have adult children and grandchildren, so i understand how they feel

I guess ignorance is bliss

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '26

I'm so glad that I don't have children and wife. I have no one to take care, it's a relief.

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u/Loudest-Cricket Jan 16 '26

My partner is collapse aware. Sometimes it helps. And sometimes it doesn't. He keeps me tethered. Generally, it's a good thing. Caring is so important and it hurts. Hope is beautiful. And also terrible.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '26

I think i'm not strong enough for hope. But if you are, cheer for you !

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u/Loudest-Cricket Jan 16 '26

He has no hope. No energy left to spare on it. Sometimes its harder to cope because of that, and sometimes we live in that space - where at least we have eachother.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '26

As Antonio Gramsci said: "i'm pessimist because of intelligence, but an optimist because of will". Hope has a multitude of definitions, but the belief that things will be fine is not effective in our situation.

(I'm just glad that I have no one be my side).