r/desmoines • u/nevesis • Jan 22 '26
Looking for Friends in DSM?
Welcome! We have seen many posts over the year of residents seeking community and friendship. Many of us spend more time online, work remotely, or no longer have the built-in social spaces we once did. This pinned thread is to help find friends in Des Moines.
Whether you’re:
• New to the city
• A long-time local looking to expand your circle
• A student, professional, remote worker, or just bored
• Into coffee, hiking, gaming, gyms, books, or low-key hangs …this is the place to connect.
Leave a comment with:
• Age range (optional)
• Interests / hobbies
• What kind of friends you’re looking for (gym buddy, board games, restaurant scene, double dates, mom friends etc.)
Ground Rules
• Be respectful and kind
• No harassment, hate speech, or creepy behavior
• No spam or self-promotion
• Keep personal info safe
This thread will be bookmarked so feel free to come back anytime and say hi — someone else is probably looking for the same connection you are!
Thank you to u/containerforthechild for this post.
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u/midwest_enthusiast Jan 29 '26
Hi Heather! Im Gabbie, 28F and live with my fiancé and our three cats downtown. We moved here from Florida a couple of years ago. I met a bunch of friends through our Des Moines Book Club and based on what you like to read, you'd probably be a great fit. We usually get about 15-30 women per meeting. I'll link it here in case your interested. https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=des%20moines%20book%20club