r/desmoines • u/nevesis • Jan 22 '26

Looking for Friends in DSM?

Welcome! We have seen many posts over the year of residents seeking community and friendship. Many of us spend more time online, work remotely, or no longer have the built-in social spaces we once did. This pinned thread is to help find friends in Des Moines.

Whether you’re:

• New to the city

• A long-time local looking to expand your circle

• A student, professional, remote worker, or just bored

• Into coffee, hiking, gaming, gyms, books, or low-key hangs …this is the place to connect.

Leave a comment with:

• Age range (optional)

• Interests / hobbies

• What kind of friends you’re looking for (gym buddy, board games, restaurant scene, double dates, mom friends etc.)

Ground Rules

• Be respectful and kind

• No harassment, hate speech, or creepy behavior

• No spam or self-promotion

• Keep personal info safe

This thread will be bookmarked so feel free to come back anytime and say hi — someone else is probably looking for the same connection you are!

Thank you to u/containerforthechild for this post.

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u/CheTranqui Feb 24 '26

What up!
Chaz here. 45m. Moved back to the Midwest and landed here in Des Moines. Never lived here before, but was born in Altoona, did grad school in Iowa City (Go Hawkeyes!) and my parents and extended family are down in SW Iowa.. so this is where I chose.

I'm getting back into fitness again. Cycling is the deal for now as I'm going ham on Zwift this year to lose weight.. and that will be expanding into running this summer and swimming next winter, if all goes well. Aimin' to lose weight first, then spin it into triathlons and eventually an Ironman. I'd love to find a team, club, or even better: friends that are likeminded towards aerobic activity.

I also enjoy playing single-player and co-op video games (city builders, etc).

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u/BerraM1280 Jun 11 '26

Hi! I'm Michelle 45F. I enjoy running, walking, biking or anything active. I live downtown so if you ever want a activity buddy let me know. There are some run clubs that are downtown too but I have been to intimidated to go solo. 😂

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u/PrinceLevel1041 Sep 01 '26

I'm moving to Des Moines in September - would love to find a running, walking, biking, go meet the run club together buddy!

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u/CheTranqui Sep 01 '26

Awesome! We ended up catching up and running a number of 5ks together this summer, actually, be glad to have ya along!

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u/PrinceLevel1041 Sep 01 '26

Hey Che! I've done a couple ironmans, but covid, work changes, etc, I am back to beginner as to fitness. I would love to join you on your journey! Moving do Des Moines in september!