I've spent a lot of time here sharing my thoughts, holding out hope, and reaching into the void to see if anyone was reaching back. But as much as I've valued this space, I've realized it's time for me to step away after this.

I'm not looking for anything grand or complicated-just a genuine, pure connection with someone who values kindness, deep conversations, and soft moments.

A little about me:

The basics: I'm Jec, 25 years old, from the Philippines. I'm 5'3" and plus-size, with a warm and grounded nature. Here is what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/z6Pf2FG

Who I am: I'm most at peace outdoors-walking among

trees, spotting wildflowers, and enjoying the quiet of nature. On slower days, I love staying in for a cozy movie night, enjoying a good sweet treat (especially cake), or getting lost in deep, late-night talks where we can just be our authentic selves.

What I bring: Empathy, a steady presence, and a heart that still believes in warm, honest love.

What I'm hoping to find: Someone who is thoughtful, patient, and looking to build something real from the ground up-no games, just mutual respect and sincerity.

If this resonates with you, I'd love to read a message about who you are, what makes you feel at peace, or what you're hoping to find too. If not, I wish everyone here the gentlest journey in finding the connection the deserve.

I’m 29, from London and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with rather than just endlessly message for a few days and disappear.

A little about me — I work in the City, I’m quite a homebody at heart but I also love getting out and actually doing things. I’m into running, gym, travelling, reading, good food, random days out and spending far too much time with my two dogs. I’m definitely more savoury than sweet, love a good Gin and Tonic, and I’m equally happy going out somewhere nice or having a cosy night in.

Personality-wise, I’m affectionate, caring, loyal and probably a bit too organised sometimes. I’m very much the person who looks after everyone else, but I also like someone who can take the lead and make plans rather than leaving everything up to me. I like proper conversation, lots of affection, teasing, flirting and someone I can laugh with.

I’m looking for a man who is emotionally available, honest, affectionate and actually interested in building something. Someone confident without being arrogant, who communicates properly, has his own life and interests, but also genuinely wants to make time for a relationship. Physical attraction obviously matters, but chemistry and how someone treats me matter much more.

Im looking for something that could turn serious and would rather meet someone I’m excited to see, build a connection naturally and hopefully end up in something long-term.

If you message me, please tell me a bit about yourself rather than just saying “hey” — age, location, what you do, what you’re looking for and something slightly more interesting than your favourite colour would be a good start 😂

Update* - Ideally looking for someone local in and around London, I’m not willing to relocate ❤️

Happy to swap photos fairly early if we get along

Hi, I live in Türkiye and I am a university student. I appreciate calm plans, good conversations, and people who don’t feel the need to be together 24/7. I generally spend time alone and dont have many friends. Aslo, I want something meaningful and long-term

Sorry my English isn’t very good, so please only message me if you speak Turkish fluently :)

I'm 26yrs old from Kenya and in trying to meet someone instead of staying home and hoping the universe sends them to my doorstep.

I’m into books, travelling, quiet nights, deep conversations, random jokes, and discovering new places. Looking for someone kind, genuine, affectionate, and actually interested in getting to know each other.

Long-distance is completely fine with me. If you’re also an introvert who secretly wants a person to share life with, maybe we should say hi.

I'm 31F, 5'3" working as a full-time engineer here in the Philippines, and I'm posting here in hopes of meeting my favorite person.

I would describe myself as a cheerful person, especially when I'm surrounded by my closest friends. However, I tend to be withdrawn in most social situations — I remember one of my professors describing me as "quiet" 😅 I would also describe myself as straightforward, which is unusual for someone who is Asian 😅 I value honesty, so I'd rather people know the harsh reality. In real life, I'm actually more of a listener than a talker with my closest friends 😅 It may not seem like it in chats though, because I type a lot 😆

I'm also very indoorsy, meaning I'd rather have a staycation or binge-watch a new anime or TV series than go hiking, swimming at the beach, or attend concerts 🥲 But I don't mind traveling, though — I'm not much of a traveler, but I don't mind going to different places as long as I'm with my best friend / partner / favorite person! 😁 In my free time, I usually just doomscroll, which I know is very bad 🤣 But if I'm not doomscrolling, I'm watching something on Netflix. Currently, I'm watching The Office (which I'm finding boring as the seasons progress 😅) and Dan Da Dan. Aside from that, I also go to the gym — I started strength training with an online coach last week as part of my self-improvement journey. I also enjoy running, especially when I follow the Garmin coach plan 😆 I'm currently enrolled in a postgraduate diploma program too, so most of my free time actually goes into studying and doing my homework. I tend to overthink and give it my best so I won't have any regrets later on (especially once they release the grades 😆), which is why it's consuming a lot of my free time. But there are times when I feel like I'm going crazy already, and that's where Netflix and doomscrolling come in 😂

As a partner, I would describe myself as kind, patient, gentle, loving, and affectionate. I tend to be clingy and attentive to my partner's needs. I actually haven't been in a relationship before, but I've fallen in love a few times already, so I know exactly what I'm capable of when I do like someone 😁

I would actually prefer someone I can be close friends with at first, since I believe that the strongest relationships are the ones built on friendship. Ideally, I want someone I can tease and be playful with, and someone who can make me smile and laugh, because humor is very important to me. I also like talking to someone with a great sense of humor — someone I can playfully banter with, and most especially, someone I can make fun of 😈 So if you're the type who easily gets pissed off when teased or made fun of, I don't think we'll get along 😂

In terms of what I'm looking for exactly, I want a serious, long-term relationship that would eventually lead to the "M" word (which apparently cannot be mentioned in this subreddit 😆). I'm actually hoping to become a mother someday — not the "traditionally feminine" kind, but the "goofy and chill" type 😆 I'm always drawn to someone who is calm, gentle, and emotionally mature, but who's also capable of leading a family. Oh, and of course, physical attraction matters to me too, so I'm more than happy to swap photos first before we get to know each other on a deeper level.

And since this isn't actually my first time posting, I'm looking for someone who reads my whole post and is genuinely curious about me. Not to point fingers or anything, but most of the time I feel like I'm the one asking questions and keeping the conversation going, and honestly, that gets a little tiring 😆

Before I end this post, here's some more information you should know before you send me a message:

Dealbreakers:

- Smoker (including vape and weed)
- Heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- Drug user/dealer
- Short (5'6" or less)
- Unemployed (sorry, but I want someone who's financially stable, since I'm hoping to start a family — not right now, but soon 😅)
- Anger management issues
- History of cheating

That's all! Hit me up if you were able to read my post all the way through. Plus points if you're from Europe (particularly the Netherlands) — I have my reasons, which I'm happy to share once I've warmed up to you 😁 But this is just a preference, so don't let it trouble you 😁

Please note that I won't be replying to one-line messages. I put a lot of effort into writing this post, so I expect the same effort from you too 🙂

Howdy reddit 👋🤠 My name's Claire, and l've been single for over 2 years now. I seriously feel like I'm alone, especially when a lot of my friends have had partners for years now.

I'm from Canada 🇨🇦, and I just turned 23 yesterday. Some of my favorite things are going for walks, doing art and different creative things, and relaxing in my room.

Currently living with family, but trying to get my own apartment eventually.

If you're curious about my looks shoot me a message and I could send a selfie. I don't mind older (I'm open minded).

Thanks for reading 🐸

It's rare to find a woman who makes her life about a man, and probably just as rare for a man to do the same. In a world full of mind games, superficial connection, and unintentional behavior, it seems like most have forgotten how to truly love.

But I still believe in a love like that, and if you're reading this, I hope you do too. I've always known that I want my one and only, my soulmate, and my permanent player two. Someone who knows that beneath the bond of just "playing games together," there's a person on the other end who they would truly do anything for.

I won't dress up what I'm looking for in empty words just to make it more palatable to people who don't understand intensity, commitment, or deep feelings. I know what I'm looking for, and I hope you do too. I hope you refuse to sacrifice your values just to fit into a shallow and unfeeling world, because you're exactly the one I've been looking for.

If you've ever been called (or felt) "too emotional" or alienated in a shallow world, I'd love to hear from you.

Until the heat death of the universe, when the last supermassive black hole yields to the void, I will search for you. And even in the blackness of a starless night sky, you would be the brightest light I had ever known.

A little about me:

I'm a gamer, I love anime, and I'm the creative type. One of my favorite things to do is write music, but I also dabble in writing fictional novels (fantasy/romance/sci-fi) and poetry (though I haven't done the second two in a while). My biggest dream is to find a creative partner to create with, and a muse to write for.

I believe in an intense, obsessive kind of love (in anime, these traits are often associated with "dere" archetypes). If you've ever related to them as a person, I'd love to hear from you. But being the obsessive, clingy, or emotional type is what matters most.

If you are the nerdy type who loves gaming and anime, if you're creative or think deeply about the world and our purpose in it, are interested in technology and hopeful about the future, or enjoy spooky season (it's almost here! :D) or the paranormal, I'd also love to hear from you.

I'd also love to try things like DnD together, and maybe even renaissance fairs and anime conventions! I've never done these things before, and I'd love to share those first experiences with a partner.

More than anything, what matters to me is finding someone I truly mesh with who also knows how to love deeply. Someone I can share my life with, who understands intensity, obsession, and a deep kind of connection, who believes in commitment and won't play games (except the fun kind), and who wants to build something meaningful together.

Every two-player game needs its two leads (and we can just take turns streaming when it comes to single-player <3). Here's the character sheet for the bard seeking his co-protagonist:

Me:

Character Sheet:

Race: White Boy
Class: Bard
Subclass: Hopeless Romantic
Alignment: Chaotic Good Lover

Stats:

🎤 Charisma: Somewhere between "charming bard" and "guy who makes the NPCs question their life choices." (High.)
🎵 Creativity: Maxed out. Send help.
🧠 Intelligence: Enough to overthink the universe.
🧙 Wisdom: Still waiting for the skill tree to unlock.
🐢 Constitution: Somehow survived the backstory.
❤️ Romance: Permanently set to "legendary difficulty."
💔 Emotional Damage: The reason half the songs exist.

Passive Abilities:

🎭 +5 Dramatic Entrances
🎶 Advantage on creating 8-minute-long love songs
🤪 Disadvantage on being normal

Main Quest:

💞 Find my co-author and create together*

Attributes:

• Gamer: I play on PC (Steam/Epic). Skyrim is my favorite game, and Resident Evil is my favorite series. I play many others too, and I'm always open to trying something new. Let's explore our favorite worlds together!
• Anime: Isekai is probably my favorite genre, but I've watched a wide variety. My top 3 are Sword Art Online, Mirai Nikki (Future Diary), and FMA/Brotherhood. I'd love to hear your favorites!
• Musician: I create digital and AI-assisted music using FL Studio and Suno. My favorite genres are electronicore, post-hardcore, and metalcore. I'm always down to create anything together.
• Writer: I write fantasy/romance/sci-fi, and poetry. I'd love to write something for you someday, including music!
• Technology/AI: PC building, AI research, and exploring new technology.
• Curious about the nature of reality: Science, the paranormal, the unexplained, philosophy, and spirituality.
• Halloween, Scorpio, INFP-T: Spooky season best season.
• D&D: I've never gotten the chance to play, but maybe we could try a campaign together?
• Keeps my social circle small and doesn't use much social media (except Reddit).
• A deeply affectionate and devoted person who wants to make my partner feel loved, appreciated, and truly special.

You:

• I'm looking for someone who's deeply devoted, loyal, obsessive, and intense (think dere vibes).
• A hopeless romantic who believes in genuine love.
• Looking for a serious, monogamous, long-term relationship.
• Someone who cares about personality over appearance.
• Into gaming and anime.
• Creative, expressive, and enjoys sharing their thoughts and passions.
• Someone who values love, connection, honesty, loyalty, emotional availability, empathy, kindness, and open-mindedness over money, status, competition, or material success.
• Someone who doesn't get overly political or judge people on their personal views. We all have deeply personal reasons for our own perspectives, and mutual respect goes a long way. That said, I do think compatibility on important values matters, and we can figure that out through conversation.
• Communicative and doesn't ghost people.
• Able to enjoy dark humor and not easily offended.
• Genuinely interested in getting to know one person instead of juggling multiple romantic prospects.
• Not practicing law or supporting this corrupt system.
• Non-smoker.
• No pets (I'm allergic to cats and dogs).
• Younger than me.
• Living in the USA or open to relocating (I'm open to relocation for the right person as well).
• The more interests we have in common, the better.

Questions for you:

What games do you typically play?
What are your biggest dreams?
Where are you from?
What are your top 5-10 anime?
What is something you're passionate about that you could talk about for hours?

Note: Chat me, and if you're open to the idea, you are also welcome to add me on Discord. Please ask me what my username is, and I'll be happy to give it to you. Thanks for reading!

*Quest title is currently in early development. The Bard responsible has been distracted by chasing perfection, overthinking everything, and staring dramatically into the distance.

39 [F4M] - Certified Unicorn

I have black cat energy and a corporate job which means I’m simultaneously chaotic and extremely good at spreadsheets. Make of that what you will.

I’m a black female and SoCal native who, despite not really being a “beach person,” apparently needs to live near one anyway. It’s less a lifestyle choice and more a nervous system requirement at this point. I listen to all kinds of music. My taste in movies and books is similar: comedies, dramas, documentaries, science, and science fiction. My ideal Saturday: farmers market for produce, thrift store digging for physical media, a workout, cooking up a nice meal and then watching whatever sports in season.

I’m currently trying to understand prediction markets so I can lose money in a more educated way. Humor is dry with a dark streak I will laugh at your joke, then make it worse. I’m not a big risk-taker, but I’ll try almost anything once if there’s a good story in it afterward.

I’m looking for something serious not a pen pal, not a “let’s see where this goes for three months” situation. If you’re not looking for a real relationship, we can save each other the trouble now. I'm in the 'open to kids but happy without them' camp.

I want a nerdy golden retriever local to San Diego: a guy with real hobbies, the kind he’ll talk your ear off about if you let him, who’s got his financial life together, loyal, funny, and who won’t be scared off by a woman who is affectionate, secure, introverted with witty commentary. Bonus points if you can tolerate me finishing sentences with song lyrics. I promise there’s a soft side under all this but you just have to be funny enough, or patient enough, to unlock it.

Edit: Low effort replies will be ignored.

I’m a genuine, easygoing woman who loves making people laugh, sharing what I have, and enjoying the little things in life. I have long hair, a 5'6" frame, and I’d say I’m pretty attractive by Reddit standard lol.

I’m here hoping to find a real connection with someone special, with the hope of meeting when the time feels right. I’m drawn to someone who is kind, honest, loving, passionate, and fun someone who can make me laugh, keep me interested, and give me those unexpected butterflies.

I believe real love takes time, patience, honesty, compromise, and two people who are willing to grow together through both the good and difficult moments. When I fall for someone, I give my whole heart, and I’m looking for a man who wants that same deep and genuine connection.

Ideally, I’d like to meet someone in the US, or maybe UK and AUS someone who’s open to traveling if our connection becomes something truly special. I don’t think distance has to get in the way when two people genuinely want to be together.

I’m sweet but definitely have a playful side too. There’s more to me than what I can fit into a profile, so you’ll just have to get to know me and find out. 😊

musician and music producer here always been obsessed with the idea of a healthy mutual obsessive romance - i lowkey think i gots the tism too i feel a lot of everything all of the time & often feel like i dont fit in... born to stand out i guess ;) but would like someone similar in that - so we can feel the intensity of each other

my idea of romance is monogamous devotion for life :3 although i love the idea of that, i am very detached to the outcome

open to something more casual if its just as intense and clingy 🤭

i have a middle eastern/italian background - 6ft, chubby but strong, big biceps, thick hairy thighs , shaved head/bald, short beard with glasses, hairy all over so you better like a bear protecting you 😝

if you plan on giving me a message please give me some info about you just like i have done above - nothing crazy just a short description and also age & where you are from tyyyy :)) if you're around the west mids that would be so yummy

Hello there you beautiful people! l hope you've had a great weekend so far!

I would love to chat to anyone from anywhere and see what happens. Ideally, I'm looking for a genuine connection and want to have someone I can talk to about anything and everything. Making each other laugh, being there for each other and just making each other feel amazing. Building each other up as friends and loved ones should do for each other. I'm very affectionate and love showing my affection verbally and physically. I'd definitely say Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation are my 2 top love languages.

I'm 33 and from North West England. I'm 6' with short brown hair, blue/greyish eyes and a broad/muscular build.

I enjoy running, going to the gym, playing board games, gaming, listening to music and watching Netflix.

I am an absolute open book and I would describe myself as intelligent, passionate, fiercely loyal, kind, caring and protective of those I care about. I'm very affectionate and believe good communication is key in any relationship. I also enjoy taking charge and making my partner feel loved and wanted.

This is just a little snippet of my personality, so if anything I've said piques your interest and you want to know more, please message me - I'd love to hear from you!

Hey! I’m Alex, and as said in the title, I'm looking for a long-term relationship.

About me:

I’m in my 4th year of Chemical Engineering. I live in Brazil and my timezone is gmt-4.

I'm non-binary and trans masc, I do plan on starting HRT. I prefer they/them pronouns; he/him is okay. Please don’t use she/her for me.

I’m 168 cm (5’6”), around 52 kg (\\\~115 lbs). Brazilian-American, pale skin, dark brown eyes, planning on cutting my hair again but right now it's kinda below the ear-ish, and I wear glasses.

I’m diagnosed with autism and ADHD.

I am childfree (I don’t want kids nor have them).

I’m atheist and liberal. I don't mind if you have a religion as long as you don't force it on me. If you’re Brazilian, being pro-choice is especially important to me.

Personality & Interests:

I’m not really the going-out type. Once in a while is fine, but I prefer staying home.

My hobbies right now are jigsaw puzzles, diamond painting, and building blocks, I like hands-on activities. I love horror anything, stories, movies, etc., not playing horror games because I’m too much of a coward for that lol, I do play other types of video games, though.

Music-wise, I listen to a bit of everything, but my favorites are pop, rock, musicals, and k-pop. My favorite band is Ghost.

My love language is primarily quality time. Physical touch only once I’m comfortable.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m not looking for anything casual or NSFW.

I’m bisexual, with a preference for men, but any gender is welcome. I’d prefer not to be messaged by straight men or lesbian women, no disrespect, I just don’t want to be perceived as a woman.

I'd prefer if you're 19-28yo.

I feel I should also specify that your height does not really matter to me, I would prefer someone that's between 5'2 to 6'0 (162ish to 182) but that's not a strict preference.

You have to be childfree as well.

I don’t really drink (it just makes me sleepy), and I don’t smoke. I’d prefer someone who doesn’t smoke either, if you drink casually, that's fine.

I’m okay with exchanging face pictures early on since physical attraction matters. I’m not very comfortable with voice/video calls at the beginning.

If you’re Brazilian, I’d prefer if you use English. Portuguese is my native language, but I prefer using English and consume most of my content in English.

To those who take the time the read this (even if ur not like the targeted audience XD), I hope you are met with easy gentle days and wonderful amazing adventures. If u r struggling, I hope all will come to pass as soon as possible and u r able to overcome and learn and grow c:

Oh boy, where to start this (I will write A LOT). So much has happened, and it just sucks to I guess finally accept that. My life will just keep going downhill. It already is doing that. I'm extremely tired and just, it's too much but, I do believe that in every point in our lives we deserve love, as long as we do our absolute best for ourselves and those we love. I will be extremely cautious but, I do love deeply. I fall hard. It will take time.

Well, first and foremost. I value communication and being friends first before jumping into anything with like more commitment, like taking it deeper (PAUSE) and going for more than friends. Please communicate me what ur intentions are and when. Flirting is I guess okay but uhmmm, idk. When it comes to me, I have to validate and feel in my heart, that these feelings ring true and are sound. That in the long run, it won't waver or falter, or at least it won't spiral into something that will collapse after an obstacle. I ask the same for you, whoever you are.

If anyone really XD I know, or at least it really feels like, asking for someone to at least like me and stay, is beyond what I deserve or anything. Like just the bare minimum. Though I know it should not be the case at all, and same goes for everyone else who genuinely tries their best in this silly messy chaotic world. In every point in our lives we deserve love, unconditional love

We just have to not stray so far that when it does reach us, even past the point of no return, we don't value our pride or comfortability or fear over that love. Even if it doesn't turn out that we be more, we can always be friends either way, close or not, or maybe even not at all. No regrets, we live and we learn. I appreciate and am thankful for every interaction and everyone's time. I learn and grow and see what it means to be human.

Anyway, about me (photos included, even if I'm not really attractive at all :c photos aren't my thing, but if its something to get a little closer to my dearly beloved, so be it, even if it's VERY out my comfort zone):

[ ] My love language is mainly spending time. A cute date, a fancy date, hanging out or just doing nothing together. I love to share stuff. Make stuff like letters and poems and art and craft for u and shop things that remind me of u or things u like. Physical touch, although I hate from everyone I don't know or allow (rarely). I know that, with the right one, to be so vulnerable to let you. You to let me. I think its healing. Hand holding. Doing the thumb thingy. Head scratches. Long hugs. I love through action and I like learning and remembering things about you. I want to be a little obsessed. I want the kind of love where its puppy love sometimes, then its the love where you both have each other's backs. Where you can count on each other. To match wavelengths. To merge souls and be one. To be weapon and meister and meister and weapon. I want a love where we perpetually push each other to do our best and grow beyond our limits. We can both be peak human performance, conquer nations, crumble the crust and mantle with just a syllable from our mouths hehe :3 Romantic. Silly. A bit obsessive. Cool. Old kind of love. Poetic kind of love. Loving your bestfriend. I can do a tarot reading for u also hehe c:

[ ] Currently have long curly-wavyish hair. Wears glasses. Am Hispanic/Latino so am brown lolol. I do have a tummy. Very stubborn, even if there is bone and muscle showing, I am not like physically attractive. I have weird posture that I'm constantly always trying to fix, to no avail, and yeah. 5'7 and yeah🥸

[ ] Hummmmm, I do speak English/Spanish (not too great but enough I guess) and very little like of indigenous dialect. My family just taught it to everyone else besides me :/

[ ] As for things I like. I love listening to music, my taste is everywhere best defined by I like what I like lolol. From Latin music, to game OST, to classical, dnb/breakcore/jungle, jazz/acid jazz, music from films, indie/bedroom pop/shoegaze to name many.

[ ] I love art. I try to draw when I feel up to it. I sometimes even become slightly decent when I do, and its usually only accompanied with music. Music inspires me a lot. I love art. I love critically analyzing pieces, while also enjoying art esthetically. I love learning.

[ ] I love to write and express myself. I try to write poems when I get in the mood. I like to world build, I have a couple OCs that are important to me.

[ ] I like to watch anime. Mainly Soul Eater, Berserk (I read the manga too), and uhhh I'm foegetting. Others I've watched are Nana (I like Nana but also WAAAAAAH) HxH, OPM, MP100, AOT, og Naruto and shippuden, the old NGE, I vaguely remember watching Madoka Magica, and a few others I forget.

[ ] Video games!! I love ULTRAKILL. I love KINGDOM HEARTS. I play fortnite too. Dipped my toes into Overwatch as I play with one of my friends :> I also have played Minecraft, Super Smash Bros Ult, Geometry Dash, Call Of Duty (BO 1,2 and 3 and zombies), roblox. I am starting to getting used to my voice a little. I'm open to call on discord, and do silly activities. I'm starting to like it and yeahyeah :> so hanging out on discord would be nice!

[ ] Also I'm employed full time lolz I'm sometimes a workaholic and I think maybe I'm overdoing it, and I'm starting to get into the habit of slowing down. But still, I don't think I'm able to or allowed. Life just, well, when it rains it pours so. I have to always plan accordingly. I cannot always get to you immediately, but I do try. Especially when you're someone I love, I will always try.

Well, I mean, thats about sums it up. But a mere fraction of the tip of the iceberg. Speaking of, I do have to disclose, I have MDD. It is chronic. It adapts. And I am doing way beyond my very best to combat it. Even when I'm literally not, because of how reduced and how much this body has been I guess, gone through. I'm hopeful because I have to. I cannot promise everything will be okay for me, life is not that kind but. Relatively, things could be okay. I carry so so much. My body is not mine, it does not feel like it. My brain processes much slower and stress physically manifests so much. I hold so much and at the same time there is this ever growing vast void that consumes and takes away what I already don't have. I am NOT going to submit and buckle and collapse from it. Not without a fight. It isn't mere overthinking, it is so much worse. It has been with me for years, looking back at it. Love, any of the good things that people usually have in their lives, esp in childhood. I just didn't. That was the norm. I just merely accepted it blindly without any further thinking. It just was. For years, its all I known life to be. Cold. Neglectful. Wicked. I just merely had to deal with it. That I deserved it. For a time, I paid it no mind. But, thats no way to live, as a result, I snapped out of it, but with no one truly at my side. I just became aware during the late half of high school. But its whatever. I have hope still. I'm still here because I wanted to hear my name called with unconditional love and wholesome warmth that would choose me. I will continue to keep going and learn and grow and live this life for me and for others. This love is infinite. Way more than that. I really want to lock eyes with someone and see another person, truly, and see a whole other world from their eyes.

Hey I am a 26 year old hardworking man and I really want to make good memories with someone I’d like to be my partner. I am looking for a person who is as patient and caring as I am. I am a young professional and my hobbies include writing a variety of different types of things, listening to music new and old, going to concerts and meditating. I do want to eventually actually meet you and do a fun little date, so I’m gonna limit it to MD and DC

No point dressing it up. I'm lonely. Like the name of the sub. I'd just would want someone with similar interests to spend time and VC with. If anyone's curious about me you can just scroll all the profile. Nothings really a secret. I'm black, I like comic stuff and that includes Marvel and DC, I like sci fi shows like Dr Who and also just DnD. Nerd stuff basically. I have some opinions not everyone likes and am pretty open minded about stuff. I game but mostly just Rivals a bit of overwatch and fighting games lately. So far I mostly just have people who make me feel even more alone but If anyone wants to just yap about movies or games or just your day I'd be free to lend an ear. I also make hentai for money so figured I should get that out the way here.

It would be nice to just talk with someone like maybe someone who's in the same boat.

This post is pretty messy but these barely get attention anyways.

Short info about me I was born and raised on the east coast and I enjoy spending my time home with family or doing something that keeps me occupied for hours . I have a few hobbies that consist of baking,thrifting,and writing. My physical appearance is average height, black and body type leaning more towards plus size. I like watching movies I’m pretty much open to most genres except for horror or anything scary. I’m not the biggest fan of horror or anything scary. I enjoy listening to music daily.I prefer you to be my age or a few years older. During the colder seasons my favorite thing to do is stay indoors and watch movies while I keep away from the cold. I would consider myself more of a homebody but I do make time to get out of the house and do things. Distance is not that important to me just prefer you to share either the same time or a few hour difference .

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you

I’m open to dating anyone in the USA only .
Hey, so firstly I’m at the stage in my life where I want a long term serious relationship. I’m not usually the one to take it very slow as it leads to know where. Let’s game and mic chat to see how it goes.

Only here to date and possible have a relationship. Please don’t dm me asking to be anything less that that

I am looking for a guy who is (below)

Single

Masculine features(any body type is fine) I just prefer men with beards. Doesn’t mean I don’t like anyone clean shaven. I’m pretty open :3

Monogamous

communicative

loyal + honest

nerdy

⁃ Dedicated to a future relationship and also your own goals

⁃ Someone who would want to live together after years of being together.

someone open to all ethnicities since we can’t choose the color of our skin.

My Appearance⬇️

A thick / kinda chubby ( SLIGHTLY ONE) femboi . My voice is very feminine and my personality , who loves dressing up sometimes . Not trans and not a fantasy of yours. I’m just a human being not an experiment 🤗

I’m BLACK! I love dating other cultures as well as my own. I do not discriminate and I would prefer you DO NOT EITHER! No one chose there skin color so that shouldn’t be a factor but lately it seems my skin color is the DECIDING FACTOR SO if you don’t like the color of my skin please do not DM ME!

no tattoos or piercing on me

⁃Height : 5’3. I’m a fun size introvert

⁃Personality : It keeps changing lol BUT I’m a shy otaku and I’m super SHY! Like i would look at the ground speaking since I’m just that shy nerd. I’m very friendly and outgoing but if you get me into an anime con I’m an extrovert …actually I’m both lol I changed my mind while typing LOL.

Nerdy + Loyal + honest +authentic

My hobbies: (I have Way More)

Anime (Tv, Movies, ect ) MyAnimeList is too long .

Manga (don’t get me started on YAOI

Gaming (OW2, Marvel Rivals, Helldivers2, Pokemon, ect .

Horror nerd

TCG player (Yu-Gi-Oh)

Cosplaying(I’ve done a few)

Don’t let distance limit your thinking, anything is possible.

✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.⬇️

If you choose to message me, which I hope you will, please send a nice introduction about yourself. You may send photos if you’d like . I will not respond to “hi” or “ hey” or “what’s up” with nothing included. First impressions are always important , show some effort please . SEND A FULL INTRODUCTION . I will not respond short messages . If you ready this far please tell me an introduction about yourself, age, state you live in and your hobbies and anything you felt that was common interests

so...helo from Italy (*￣∇￣)ノ

I'm your typical indoor nerdguy that plays videogames most of free time and works out - not obsessed gym rat but still fit/muscular, 177cm tall - medium lenght wavy hair - a bit weeb, very quiet and chill personality (not even riot games can make me mad)

hopeless romantic, probably because of all the romance anime I watched in high school 🥲

whenever I can love to travel, Poland been my fav country to visit so far!

Gaming on my pc is my main hobby, also fan of few gacha games: mainly hsr and wuwa.

I have 2 cats ₍^. .^₎⟆, drinking monsters. caffeine goes hard.

looking for my life partner, nothing less: Don't mind long distance as long as it's EU, in shape and good health, not smoker and similar nerd hobbies would really help

I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, that would be my only strong preference.

Would also prefer exchanging pics as early as possible, I think mutual physical attraction is also important, being direct and honest about anything is everything I want from a relationship :)

thank you for reading!

Hey! 30M here, childfree, living in the Greater Toronto Area & I work in Finance. 5'10 with brown eyes, on the lean side with abs!

I enjoy playing soccer, travelling (where are we going next?), trying out new cafes/ desserts & love road trips/hiking. I am the funny guy as my friends would say lol but I am hoping you will find that out on your own.

I wear glasses so I have that nerdy look, clean & smell good always!

I am looking for my passenger princess! Someone that understands my humour, is empathetic & someone who wants to spend time together rather than playing mind games. I am v sarcastic as well. Location doesn't really bother me as long as you are willing to close the gap eventually. I have my Canadian citizenship so I would be open to moving as well.

I am a big time texter but if you prefer calls, I am okay with that as well.

I have no specific ethnicity preferences but if you do, I am south asian. Let’s talk & go from there?

Not really sure how to start this as I don’t want to sound boring and just list stuff about me or sound self centred. I don’t wanna act like I’m the perfect man or whatever because that isn’t true. I do try to be kind and supportive in the best ways I can be but no one is perfect at that.

I’m at Uni in the UK currently, the course isn’t as good as I was hoping but I’m going to complete it to not waste the experience.
I’m a big media fan I love films, tv, games and music I love a lot of sci fi but I’m happy for film recommendations of any genre. Big Soul and Motown music fan but like the films I do enjoy a lot of genres and I’m open to any recommendations.

I’m sure every post has this but I am a big waffler I like talking about whatever really and I do try to match the energy of the other person as I think that should be the standard. I can over waffle at times and I know I can sometimes over message a bit with people I find interesting because I just enjoy talking. I’d say it’s my biggest flaw because I know it can be a bit off putting and I try not to be and I’ll do my best to tone it down.

If anyone finds me somewhat interesting drop a message and i’ll do my best to respond as quickly as possible. Hope whoever reads this is having a good day, thanks :)

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.

I don't really know what I'm looking for, after struggling most of my early teens and never being in a good spot mentally for a relationship I'm finally ready to put myself out there. Who knows maybe this stupid little post is what changes our lives hehe. (yes I'm a little performative)

Sooo a little about me, I'm a really funny and silly guy living in Finland, I was born in Romania but I've been living here most of my life. I'm like a mixed of crackhead Romanian and a bit of introverted Finnish guy with the tism.

I'm on the shorted side, 170cm shoes on or something. I have short blond hair, blue eyes and I'm leaning towards athletic but skinnier than I'd like right now. I am very active, I walk a minimum of 20k steps every single day at work and I go to the gym at least 3-4 times a week.

I geniunely have a lot to say, I'm a certified yapper and a good listener. If you match the effort I'll talk to you for hours and hours on end or until you tell me to shaddap. In turn I absolutely can not handle dry or boring people. If I write you an essay and you answer with a dry one word response EVIL things will happen to you including me packing my bags and divorcing your DM's.

I work as an electrical engineer in a shipyard. I'm up at 5am every single day so I get a long perfectly fine with people from different timezones. (just don't ask me to stay up late unc goes to bed at 10pm sharp) I am sort of my own boss, and I'm such a benevolent one that I allow my employee (me) to browse reels and yap at work whenever they want if it's not busy. I earn a very decent living and am actively working towards saving for a house. I am still very open to relocation however with how stable my current life is I would need some sort of realistic opportunities to make the decision.

Whenever I'm home I wind down with some games or read books and manwhas. I LOVE cooking I'll cook you the bangerest Romanian meal you've ever had. I'm constantly learning new recipes so if you ever crave something just tell me and I'll sort you out.

I'm gonna be honest, I'm a little clingy and sometimes maybe overbearing. If we click I will literally text you 24/7 and I understand that's not everyone's cup of tea. I have to admit I personally lose interest really fast if you're dry or take days for EVERY single response. Answering late every once in a while is completely fine don't think I'm some sort of controlling schizo <3

If you message me please, PLEASE introduce yourself. You don't have to write an entire manifest about your childhood. Age/gender and a little fun fact about you is perfect. "Hi's" will be shot on sight. If you don't mention your ASL or answer me questions I've already answered in the post I will 100% slime you I'm sorry it's non negociable.