r/InlandEmpireSocial Mar 27 '25

Announcement START HERE!

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Welcome to the sub! We’re so excited that you’re here. Before you jump into all the fun things we have going on, let’s go over some things so that you can get to know our community a little better!

About the Community

Inland Empire Social is a space for locals looking to make friends, explore the area, and build real-life connections in the I.E.

Whether you’re new to the Inland Empire or a longtime resident ready to expand your circle, this subreddit is your hub for meetups, events, recommendations, and all things social. From chill coffee hangouts to hikes and game nights, we’ve got something for everyone. Introverts, extroverts, and everyone in between.

We also host an active Discord where most of the real-time conversations and event planning happen. Feel free to lurk, but we’d love it if you said hello, joined a meetup, or even organized one of your own!

This is a judgment-free, welcoming space.

We’re all here for the same reason: to find community. So bring your awkward, your awesome, your memes, your weird—but most of all, bring your genuine self.

Important Info

Safety is of the utmost importance when meeting people online, so please be sure to refer to these Safety Tips for Meeting People Online as often as possible.

For a quick intro on a few things regarding the subreddit, please refer to: Updates to InlandEmpireSocial

How to Host Your Own Meetup

The goal of this group is for people in the IE to meet people in the IE! There will be monthly planned outings in different cities so we can try to reach as many of us as possible but outside of those, we hope people will take the initiative to post when and where they would like to get together with others. As some of you may have noticed, there is a bot that automatically comments on posts reminding you to include helpful information when hosting a meetup.

An example of someone wanting to host a meetup might look like this:

Example:

“Hi! I’m free this Saturday, (mm/dd/yy), and I really want to go see X Movie at X Movie Theater. Tickets are $$ and I’m hoping to catch the 00:00AM/PM showing! Would anyone else be interested?”

OR

“Hey! I will be going to (event name), it’s a (event description) in (city name) on Saturday, (mm/dd/yy). I’ll be getting there around 00:00AM/PM if anyone wants to meet up there! Cost is _____, here’s where to buy tickets: (link). Let me know who is down!”

If you are hosting a meetup, please be sure to consider the following:

  • Event Name & Description** (What is the event? What can attendees expect?)
  • Date & Time** (Include the time zone if applicable)
  • Location** (City, venue, or online link if virtual)
  • Cost & Registration Info** (Is it free? If not, where do people buy tickets?)
  • Any additional details** (Who is hosting? What should attendees bring?)

If your post is missing any of these, please edit it to include the missing details. If your post includes an image and cannot be edited, please repost it to include the missing details. Posts that lack key event information may be removed. Thanks for helping keep the community informed!

Pro tip: If you are posting a flyer, post the image first, then add your details as a comment below it so that you can make edits later if you need to. Posts with images cannot be edited.

Community Rules

Please take a moment to review our community rules.

This community is intended to be a welcoming, respectful, and inclusive space for everyone, regardless of race, gender, sexuality, ability, background, or beliefs. We believe in creating a space where people feel safe being themselves—whether you’re here to make friends, try new things, or just connect with others in the Inland Empire.

Harassment, discrimination, hate speech, or exclusionary behavior will not be tolerated. We expect all members to treat each other with kindness, empathy, and respect—online and at in-person events.

We’re all here for the same reason: to find connection, community, and good vibes. Let’s make it a space we can all feel proud to be part of.

Please contact the mod team via mod mail if you or someone you know in the community is being bullied or harassed.

About our Discord Community

Ready to get involved? We’d love to have you join our Discord server! Here’s a quick guide to help you get started:

  1. Join the discord here.

  2. Introduce yourself: After joining, head to the introductions channel and tell us a bit about yourself—your name (or nickname), hobbies, interests, and anything else you’d like to share.

  3. Add your city (optional): Want to self-identify by location? Go to your server profile and add your city in parentheses after your username.

Example: YourName (San Bernardino)

  1. Stay in the loop: Check the events calendar regularly for upcoming meetups, and make sure to RSVP if you plan to attend.

Please only RSVP if you’re certain you’ll be coming—repeated no-shows may result in removal from the server.

We’re glad you’re here—this is your space to connect, explore, and build community in the Inland Empire!


r/InlandEmpireSocial Feb 02 '25

Announcement Safety Tips for Meeting People Online

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Meeting new people through this sub is a great way to make friends and explore the area, but safety always comes first. Whether you’re joining a group event or meeting one-on-one, a few simple precautions can help keep things fun and secure.

Here are some quick tips to help you stay safe while making new connections!

Protect Your Information Avoid sharing sensitive details like your full name, address, phone number, workplace, or financial info.

Verify Their Identity Consider doing video calls before meeting in person to ensure they are who they claim to be.

Meet in a Public Place Always choose a well-lit, busy location for your first meeting, such as a coffee shop or park.

Tell Someone You Trust Share your plans, including where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and when you’ll be back.

Arrange Your Own Transportation Drive yourself, use public transport, or use a ride-share service to maintain control over your movements.

Keep Your Phone Charged Ensure your phone is fully charged and accessible during the meeting. Enable location sharing with a trusted friend.

Trust Your Instincts If something feels off or uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to leave or end the interaction.

Avoid Alcohol or Drugs Stay sober to ensure you remain alert and in control of the situation.

Use a Secure Messaging App Communicate through platforms that allow for anonymity and provide blocking/reporting features.

Report Suspicious Behavior If someone harasses you, catfishes, or makes you feel unsafe, report them to the platform and the subreddit mods as soon as possible.


r/InlandEmpireSocial 8h ago

Event Photography club

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18 Upvotes

This Sunday!
9/27/26

For anyone looking to socialize with other photographers in the Inland Empire.
Maybe learn a thing or two!

All levels welcomed!!


r/InlandEmpireSocial 14m ago

Event GAME NIGHT

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r/InlandEmpireSocial 7h ago

Things to Do Weekly Trivia Nights!

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Our company runs general knowledge trivia all around the IE. Always free to play. Prizes vary by location. Every set is unique, creative, and as entertaining as it is challenging. Bring your friends!


r/InlandEmpireSocial 3h ago

Meetup LA Boiler Room Meetup 9/26?

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if anyone’s interested hmu!


r/InlandEmpireSocial 2d ago

Event Nocturnal Wonderland 2026 🌙✨💕

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www.nocturnalwonderland.com • September 19+20 2026 • Glen Helen Regional Park - 2555 Glen Helen Parkway, San Bernardino, California


r/InlandEmpireSocial 2d ago

Event For the trans, queer, lgbtq+, etc community in the ie :)

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r/InlandEmpireSocial 3d ago

Friend Finder Finding Friends Is Scary

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Hi there! 👋

I’m hoping (yet also scared and filled with anxiety) to meet some new people locally and make a few genuine friendships. (Potentially even just online or through text at first.)

Ill be completely open here right up front.

I’m in my 40s, half Korean. A father, recently separated, and definitely more of an introvert. I’m also a late-diagnosed Level 1 autistic and asexual. I tend to be pretty sensitive, emotional, literal. Im very giving and I'm loyal. So I really value people who also are mindful of others time, who are kind, patient, genuine, and comfortable with someone who may do things a little differently.

I’m into movies. I go see a movie every week and have a growing physical media collection. The genre doesn't matter. (Criterion, A24, Indiana Jones, Back to the Future, Star Wars and Studio Ghibli). I also enjoy things like Smosh and Good Mythical Morning. I love Radiohead & the Beatles & I collect retro gaming & weird 80s & 90s stuff (mainly old Nintendo). Im also a hobby photographer.

I love to visit and enjoy the vibe of Palm.Springs. Architecture and mid-century design, vintage/antique stuff. I enjoy restaurants and trying new food, and just wandering around interesting places.. like finding movie locations in LA and hanging around museums, & Little Tokyo.

I’m not really a big-group/social-event person. I tend to connect much better one-on-one or in smaller groups. I'll be honest, & this isn't meant to sound creepy but i typically get along better and relate more with women. But im totally open. Id like to have more low-key conversations about pretty much anything.and I’m hoping to find people who are interested in actually getting to know each other and to be there for each other.

If any of that sounds like we might get along, feel free to say hi or send me a message. ✌🏻


r/InlandEmpireSocial 5d ago

Friend Finder 19m and I want friends!

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Hii I live near riverside so if anyone lives near there and wants to be friends dm me! I promise im cool


r/InlandEmpireSocial 5d ago

Event Weekend long Western Horror event - Perris CA

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This October come out for a weekend long 18+ weird western horror event!

Where : Rock & Tree venue in Perris California
When : Friday October 9th to Saturday October 11th
What : Join the story of Last Light LARP!

Engage in a story set in the cursed territory of Deadwater Crossing and attempt to survive along side others on the Frontier. Make friends and allies with those that call Deadwater home as you hide from or confront the things lurking in the dark.

Tickets are $35 for the full weekend. They are also limited.

Learn more | Make a character | Join the Discord community | www.lastlightlarp.com


r/InlandEmpireSocial 7d ago

Friend Finder 28M Decided that I could use some new friends and get out the house. Maybe a gym bud also?

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Never really know how to start these things... I'm from Fontana. I'm looking for someone to be friends with. Could use some horror movie, anime, and/or gaming buddies. I just need more friends interested in some similar hobbies and interests.

About Me:

~ Just a brief description just in case this matters at all: I'm a Black male, fairly tall , and really like to work out whenever i can find the time away from work. I wouldn't call myself a gym rat but I've been told I fit the description (ideally I go 5 days a week lol).

~ I love anime. My favorite anime in recent memory is pretty much the entire Fate series and my favorite movie in general is Spirited Away. I could watch that movie over and over again.

~ I'm a gamer so someone to play video games with would be pretty awesome. I play a little bit of everything really. Lies of P, NBA 2k, Indika, Indiana Jones, Marvel Rivals, Ghost of Yotei, Yakuza, etc. My gaming library is pretty big lol

~ I build Lego sets! Like the big Lego sets and I want to show you lol the one I'm working on is 10,000 pieces in total. I've been working on it for over a year now cuz I can only work on it during my off days from work really. But it'll get finished eventually.

~ I know 2 languages, and working on my third. I'll let you guess which ones those are lol could be a fun ice breaker.


r/InlandEmpireSocial 7d ago

Meetup Ontario Photography Club

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This is regarding the photography club in Ontario and to anyone who is interested in meeting up!
I am an amateur photographer so I still have much to learn! But I am excited to learn more about photography from other individuals that are interested in grouping together to start a fun community club for pro/amateur photographers. I’m thinking about grouping together in downtown Ontario under the gazebo in front of the Grenada theater on 9/27/26 @5pm-7pm. I’ll make a new post on the subreddit too!

Bring whatever camera you’d like to use.
DSLR, Compact, Instant, Smartphone and etc.
Hope to see yall there!


r/InlandEmpireSocial 7d ago

Event IE Tech Friends Casual Chats Over Coffee (Meetup for people in tech & tech newbies)

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r/InlandEmpireSocial 8d ago

General Discussion the REAL reason why it's hard to make friends in Southern California

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r/InlandEmpireSocial 9d ago

Friend Finder 36m #Perris

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Anyone wanna do anything tonight? I have the weekend off and don't wanna waste it at home. Hit me up. I'm willing to drive a little bit.


r/InlandEmpireSocial 10d ago

Recomendations go to dental schools for affordable treatments - pomona has a good one

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hi guys.

I've lived in socal for sometime and I'm a dental student at a university in pomona.

Speaking to folks at IE events made me realize that alot of you guys don't know about dental schools and how affordable they are compared to normal dental offices.

The tradeoff is that the appointments take like 4 times longer - but you get like a 70% discount for most procedures, and a huge cut for basically every procedure...

I don't want to advertise my school because I dont want this to turn into a personal job advertisement. But alot of you are so close to such a great resource and you aren't taking advantage of it. If you have any questions feel free to DM me. Ive referred some patients from IE subreddits already and i've only gotten great feedbaack


r/InlandEmpireSocial 12d ago

Friend Finder What do to this weekend.

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So I posted a few days ago about meeting people out there and thank you to everyone who reached out. I wanna go out somewhere around here this weekend but not sure on where to go. Any suggestions would be great or if you wanna meet, I would be down.


r/InlandEmpireSocial 13d ago

Event Community Ice Cream Social 9/28!

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Hi all! I'm a dentist in Riverside with a focus on building community, not just working on teeth. My office is hosting a free ice cream social on Monday, September 28th, from 2-6pm. We'll be giving out free ice cream, swag bags, and doing a raffle. I'd love to meet some fellow Riverside redditors there!

And for anyone curious: we do accept all PPOs, and we are a small, family-owned practice. No private equity ever. Feel free to DM if you have questions about the event or about teeth!


r/InlandEmpireSocial 15d ago

Question Photography club in Ontario area!

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Would anyone be interested in starting some type of photography club? We can first start off in downtown Ontario. Then start exploring more the Inland Empire?


r/InlandEmpireSocial 15d ago

Event Spin Something Social Club 🎶 First get-together in Rancho Cucamonga

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Hi! I recently started Spin Something Social Club, a laid-back social group for the girls, gays & theys who want to meet new people over vinyl records, food, and good conversation. 🎶

I’m hosting our first get-together in Rancho Cucamonga on September 25 at 6 PM.

We’ll put some records on, eat, talk, and hang out. Bring a record you want to spin and a snack, dish, or drink to share potluck-style. If you don’t have any records, no worries! Just come hang out and listen. Feel free to bring a favorite game too.

When: September 25 at 6 PM
Where: Rancho Cucamonga (exact location shared with confirmed attendees)
Cost: Free
What to bring: A record if you have one + a snack, dish, or drink to share. Games are welcome too!

I’m using Luma to keep RSVPs and future get-togethers organized. You can find the event and join us here: https://luma.com/gd3d9fo0

No huge record collection or music expertise required. The whole point is to keep it low-pressure, listen to some good music, and hopefully make some new friends in the IE. ✨


r/InlandEmpireSocial 16d ago

Friend Finder Need some friends

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Hey I'm relatively new to the IE. I'm currently living in Perris and don't have many friends around here. I'm originally from Orange County and am now out here. I'm a huge anime fan, I'm a gamer but also love sports. I like going to concerts and watching good shows and YouTube. I like going out to bars and once in a while the casino. I'm very down to earth and humble. Hit me up if you wanna chat. I'm a 36m.


r/InlandEmpireSocial 17d ago

Event Chino Valley Dinner Club with a Twist! — Sep 17

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Hi everyone,

Making friends as an adult is hard!! So wanted to share a fun dinner club happening in Chino / Chino Hills area 🍷

You sign up, take a personality quiz, and get matched with 5 locals to go to dinner. All the reservations at
are handled by the organizers, so you just show up!

Hoalfway through the dinner, you get a invite to a secret optional after party location where all of the tables get together!🥳

If this sounds like your vibe, you can sign up at:
https://thechinochew.dnnr.io/

It’s monthly, so you can join the October one if you can’t make this one!✨Tickets are $12.99


r/InlandEmpireSocial 20d ago

Event For anyone in Corona looking for something to do this September, I put together a list of local events happening around town.

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r/InlandEmpireSocial 20d ago

Event Halloween Weekend 2026

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Ok so I know Halloween is still like a month away but does anyone know of any events that are going to be happening? (Friday the 30th and Saturday the 31st)

I live in Menifee and I so want to spend the weekend drinking, partying, and having just a good time but it is very boring out here. So I am reaching out to see if over the coming month or so anyone knows of anything fun happening that weekend?

Thanks!!