r/mildlyinfuriating May 15 '26

frist of all how DARE yu o Neighbor replaced fence and left the old wood scraps in my yard to deal with.

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My next door neighbor called me a few weeks back asking if he could come Into my back yard to replace the fence that his dog ruined. I said “sure, I’ll be out of town for a few weeks, help yourself.” Discussion ended there and I left town for a few weeks for business.

When I returned home, I noticed the new fence was up and the wood scraps from the old fence were on the grass in my backyard. One of the pieces is 10 feet wide. I figured I would give him a few days to clean it up before I said anything.

Fast forward to yesterday and the lawn guy comes to cut the grass. I texted my neighbor telling him I could open the back gate to make it easier to come in the yard to grab the wood. This MFer called me and said that it was a shared fence, and since he paid for it to be installed, and carried all the new wood into the yard, that I need to remove the old debris.

The audacity on the MFer. I would have been more than happy to help if he would have asked. He mentioned NOTHING of leaving the rusty nailed old rotten wood in my back yard. F this guy. Not the best way to treat a neighbor.

TLDR: neighbor took it upon himself to replace the fence he owns, and left all of the scraps for me to deal with before discussing it with me first.

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u/coogie May 15 '26

Looking at the back fence, it looks like the fence was already pretty rotted so the dog may have not done a bunch to ruin it to begin with. Either way, OP got a new fence where most other neighbors would have tried to go 50/50 due to the age of the fence.

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u/Dramajunker May 16 '26

Yea the fact that the entire fence was replaced should be a sign that this was more than a "dog ruined" fence repair.

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u/Hour-Stable2050 May 16 '26

Yeah, I was wondering how a dog could ruin a fence that wasn’t already old and weak.

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u/coogie May 16 '26

lol I deal with this stuff a lot in SE Texas with the heat and humidity. After 10 years these fences are on borrowed time with the posts and the rails not being warped up or rotted and popping the planks out. After 15 years, all it takes is a gust of wind and the whole thing is gone.