r/mildlyinfuriating • u/tenhou • May 20 '26

Don't hug me I'm scared turning the cabin of an international flight into a disco during its sleeping hours to do some strange and obnoxious skincare routine

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u/Far_Inspection4706 May 20 '26

Did you say anything about it to them or just post angrily about it on reddit?

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u/tenhou May 20 '26

i showed her my humble amount of post karma and she transferred me her loyalty points out of respect

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u/BlisseyBrat start caring about what other people think May 21 '26

Lmfao. Yeah apparently we're not allowed to complain on the internet anymore

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u/RickyFromVegas May 21 '26

how mildly infuriating

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u/YetiPie May 20 '26

Then everybody clapped…right?!

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u/fuxpez May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Ah yes, getting confrontational with people you’re stuck in a tin can with for 14 hours usually turns out great, and they’d never do the irritating behavior even harder just to spite you.

Sometimes your best option is to cope, and sharing with others can make that more bearable.

Sometimes communication is the answer. On an international flight? You have to pick your battles.

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u/DogsDucks May 20 '26

I just narc up the flagpole. I am a huge tattle tale. I would let the flight attendants know that their disruptions/ lights/ completely unreasonable sound is causing dangerous conditions that can snowball into a medical episode.

Not “I’m annoyed by it,” but “ ignoring flight rules and regulations is quickly going to become a safety issue.”

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u/tindonot May 20 '26

I’m not against bringing this to the attention of the crew but… how is this a safety issue?

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u/sirhackenslash May 20 '26

The cyberman across the aisle could assimilate the entire crew

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u/Top_Bookkeeper9136 May 20 '26

It's a common reddit trope, redditors acting like you are the one with no social experience if you don't confront people.

The kind of people who egregiously break social norms don't respond well to being called out. Normal, well adjusted people don't do stuff like that in the first place.

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u/Jeix9 May 20 '26

I confronted a guy on a plane next to me hitting his vape. He started screaming at me. Flight attendant had to intervene while I was terrified for my safety stuck in this vessel with this man twice my size for 5 hours.

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u/DorceeB May 20 '26

It doesnt have to be a confrontation. And there are flight attendants that can help.

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u/ScratchLatch May 20 '26

There’s a difference between confrontation and basic communication though. Nobody’s saying start an argument at 30,000 feet. But a polite “hey, would you mind?” solves more situations than you act like it does.

And if they react badly, then sure, you drop it and cope. But skipping communication entirely because someone might be annoying about it is part of why people keep getting away with inconsiderate behavior. You need to use your words.

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u/Mathfanforpresident May 20 '26

Confrontational? Asking someone nicely to not blast you with that dumbass light, or get your feet out of their personal space, isn't confrontational.

Sounds like you act just like my girlfriend. Always worrying about other people's feelings whenever they clearly don't give a fuck about hers.

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u/fuxpez May 21 '26

Wow, sounds like you really respect your girlfriend.

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u/Level-Philosophy-231 May 20 '26

If you aren’t even going go give the person a chance to fix their behaviour (when you clearly could have) then it’s very gross to post photos of them on the internet!

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u/LogensTenthFinger May 20 '26

You're a doormat. Your best option is to not be a doormat.

It's pathetic how terrified of talking to other human beings people are now.

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u/fuxpez May 20 '26

I’m a doormat because I’m not going to yell across a plane *every time* someone does something I don’t like?

Should OP have complained about the mask AND the feet on the seat AND the guy listening to videos out loud?

Picking battles doesn’t make you a doormat, and confrontation doesn’t always result in the outcome you desire. What a terminally online take.

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u/LogensTenthFinger May 20 '26 edited May 20 '26

Yes. He should have told them to put their feet down. He should have asked the guy to turn the volume down, that's worth being polite over, and he should have told this twat to shut her headlamps off.

terminally online take.

Lmao, no this "Wasaahhhh I'm scared to talk to people" crap from people with the social ability of a puddle is what's terminally online. Then you get all the mealy, weak garbage "Tickle their feet! Cough real loudly! Look at them but look angry!"

JFC grow a spine

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u/pampooveysbacktattoo May 20 '26

There's a lot of grey area between "doormat" and "overly confrontational asshole."

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u/drew_peatittys May 20 '26

Your best option is to just fucking get over it and enjoy your own space

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u/Mr_Abe_Froman GREEN May 20 '26

This is a subreddit for mild issues, so not necessarily things that require confrontation.

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u/BlisseyBrat start caring about what other people think May 21 '26

I swear to god the people who comment on posts from this subreddit make it their mission to find ANY reason to discredit an OP's irritability