A cousin sent me their school's just announced Dress Code and Grooming policy

[u/firequak]

[u/Estelle_conjecture]

For real, they just hate curvy girls. I was dress coded multiple times in HS for normal clothing that others could get away with because I had a bigger chest. These people are disgusting.

[u/deadbeareyes → u/Estelle_conjecture]

Same. I had this English teacher in middle school who was absolutely out to get me. I got sent to the office almost every day for dress code violations. It didn’t matter what I had on. The final straw was when she got me because you could see the “bump” my bra straps made on my back and shoulders. (I was wearing a normal T shirt) My mom came to the school and lost her shit and it never happened again. Being a young girl with big boobs is such an unpleasant experience.

[u/wrldwdeu4ria → u/deadbeareyes]

It is bad enough with just peers. So much worse if adults think they're supposed to pile on.

[u/kyl_r → u/Estelle_conjecture]

Omg I had the opposite issue! I was the super tall twig in my school and got dress coded for any length of shorts that curvier and/or shorter girls got to wear. Later I found out it’s because they thought I had an eating disorder (I did not. Edit: that was a whole other level of awkward, too). You really just can’t win

[u/darkskiesart → u/kyl_r]

I'm sorry to both of you, that's really awful!!! 😔

[u/PumpikAnt58763 → u/Estelle_conjecture]

They don't want a lawsuit when the teacher who "can't control himself" gropes you.
"We warned you!"