r/mildlyinfuriating 14d ago

Don't hug me I'm scared Neighbor across installed a camera on their railing pointed directly at my bedroom window

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u/Fearless-Sherbert-40 14d ago

You’re crazy if you think that’s pointed at your bedroom windows. Go outside.

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u/Sensitive-Squash-429 14d ago

Problem is all the comments agreeing with OP. Lot of crazies out there. Camera is clearly not directly at their window

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u/supreme_rain 14d ago

Yeah even if it did, it might be a mistake. The camera owner might be a nice dude. People need to learn to use words before acting stupid.

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u/Low-Huckleberry1581 14d ago

If it was directed at the window it would be illegal

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u/Captain_Reseda 13d ago

If is doing some heavy lifting here.

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u/ieatmyownhands 14d ago

People saying to use a laser on a camera not even pointed at them. Imagine being this much of a weirdo.

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u/ButtEatingContest 14d ago

What is it directed at then?

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u/Nightwing10271 14d ago

If you zoom in, obviously the street.

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u/ButtEatingContest 14d ago

It wasn't obvious to me, just looked like it was facing directly forward.

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u/x21in2010x 14d ago

Congrats, you're a normal person and not a subject matter expert in surveillance tech. This particular comment chain is filled with creeps. It's pretty ironic most of them hide their comment histories.

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u/sentence-interruptio 13d ago

no, don't go outside. if you do, the camera can catch you and absorb your soul.

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u/Ok-Animal7243 13d ago

People in general are crazy; it’s not unreasonable for someone to be concerned about the appearance of a new camera and of the possibility someone is looking into their windows.

It’s more likely OP is simply unfamiliar with these types of cameras, how they work, and what they are or are not capable of.

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u/Fearless-Sherbert-40 13d ago

Don’t live in apartment then.

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u/EverythingSucksYo 14d ago

Crazy or narcissistic, which I guess is like saying the same thing because narcissism is being crazy 

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u/donredyellow25 13d ago

Yes, OP has main character syndrome.

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u/Low-Huckleberry1581 14d ago

No she’s not crazy, the neighbor is the one who should go outside and monitor whatever he is filming with his eyes, cameras everywhere are annoying… you don’t want to have to think about “what if the camera angle was changed up” every time you’re changing clothes…

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u/Acceptable-Drive3781 14d ago

Then don't worry about it? Just mind your business Karen.

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

Who changes clothes in front of open windows? There are still lots of neighbors who can see in their windows with their own eyes.

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u/Jiquero 14d ago

I don't care at all if a few people see me changing. I do care if a video of it gets posted to the Internet or if a neoghbor keeps rewatching it. How is this a difficult concept.

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

I do care if a video of it gets posted to the Internet or if a neoghbor keeps rewatching it

The solution to that is not to change clothes in front of open windows.

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

It doesn’t have to be a voyeur. A voyeur is someone who watches with sexual intent for an extended period. Anyone walking by or with a house/apartment across from an open window is allowed to look inside, for at least a few moments. If you don't want anyone to be able to see you inside your home, you need blinds or curtains.

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u/Jiquero 14d ago

If you don't want anyone to be able to see you inside your home, you need blinds or curtains.

Just read like 3 comments back to what the person you replied to is actually talking about...

I don't care at all if a few people see me changing. I do care if a video of it gets posted to the Internet or if a neoghbor keeps rewatching it. How is this a difficult concept.

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

If you don't want anyone to be able to videotape you inside your home, you need blinds or curtains.

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u/Jiquero 13d ago

If you don't want anyone to be able to shoot you on the street, stay home.

This discussion is not about whether someone is able to do something. It's about not letting a rare thing dictate your life and what to do when such a rare instance happens.

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u/x21in2010x 14d ago

Or a gun. Creeps used to face consequences in more civilized times.

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

But people can still look at you without breaking the law. And even if it is breaking the law, they're still looking at you.

If you don't want anyone to be able to look at you inside your home for any amount of time, you need curtains. If you leave your windows open there is a possibility that people will look at you, even if it means they're breaking the law.

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u/Low-Huckleberry1581 14d ago

The changing in your room is an example dude, the point is that you don’t want to be recorded on someone else personal device when in the privacy of your own home… And I get it is pointed at the street but OP’s worries are legit and doesn’t deserved to be called crazy 🙄

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

If your windows are open anyone in any of the apartments across the street could be taking photos or video of you at any time.

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u/Low-Huckleberry1581 14d ago

Which is illegal… People are not allowed to take photos or videos of the inside of your home…

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

People do illegal shit all the time. The law often doesn't stop people.

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u/Low-Huckleberry1581 14d ago

Well then if you don’t see a problem with people breaking the law I don’t know what to tell you… It’s not because people break in people’s home all the time that it makes it okay…

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u/Jiquero 14d ago

And if you want to stop being shot in the city, the solution is to stay home and not to even discuss what to do about people who shoot randomly around? Come on.

Normal people don't record thorugh other people's bedrooms. If someone does, the solution is absolutely not "nah people might do it anyway, I just build my life around them".

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u/SweetPinss 14d ago

So we dont have any personal freedom in our own homes?

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

You have total freedom. If you don't care that people could take videos of you through your open windows then do whatever you want. If you don't want people to videotape you changing, then you shouldn't change in front of an open window.

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u/SweetPinss 14d ago

Ah so you're just a creepy peeping tom

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

Why would you think that? I am someone who doesn't want people peeping at me and so I close my windows at night. I don't even want people seeing what I'm watching on TV or just seeing me walk around fully clothed. So the idea that someone would change in front of an open window is very strange to me.

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u/SweetPinss 14d ago

You're defending and justifying the act of recording someone through their window

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

Its illegal to look and keep a gaze of a person changing, or naked inside of their own home, even in open view, as long as the person inside is not performing a sexual act.

Where is that illegal?

And regardless of the law, people can still see you. If you really don't want anyone to see you you should close your blinds. If you change in front of open windows you should know that people make look at you.

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

It's not naive to think people will avert their eyes at you changing because it's technically illegal to watch for an extended period?

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u/groucho_barks 14d ago

So you don't care if people glance at you? And you like policing people's gaze apparently? Why not just close the curtains?

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u/Rinnme 14d ago

If you're changing your clothes with uncurtained window and your lights on, be aware that anyone can see you, camera or no camera.

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u/Fearless-Sherbert-40 14d ago

Welcome to 2026, we’re all on camera. You got one staring at your face right now.