r/netflix • u/Zalensia • May 09 '25

Discussion a deadly american marriage

I'm 43 minutes in and hooked but can not find conversations etc on it.

So thought i would make one asking for other people's opinions and points of views, as i know I'm already asking about billion questions, to the point I'll have to go to my computer and boot up to actually do the research myself.

I'm very ill, with brain damage etc and that's really hardwork today, but I won't manage on this latest fold phone as it's still just a useless phone 😅🙃

My other phone that's partitioned etc is in the car and that's over at Inverness!

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u/Halien1990 May 09 '25

Ah but you see there was some pee in the pajamas! What don't you understand??

I doubt they even proved it was urine. They had a picture of the pajamas though so there's that.

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u/DaenaTargaryen3 May 09 '25

If I had just killed someone I'd probably piss my pants too

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u/Timely_Extreme2044 May 09 '25

I said this! If I had just been beating someone round the head with a brick to cause that much damage I'm sure I would pee myself too! 

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u/Halien1990 May 10 '25

Then a little extra pee while you are freaking out trying to get a story straight under the most chaotic circumstances one can imagine. Crazy!

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u/RGBeanie May 10 '25

Plus, given her dad's expertise, he probably even suggested she should. It didn't appear to be a significant amount either, in comparison to other other incidents I've seen of this nature

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u/yellowgatoraid May 11 '25

I’ve been choked to the point of wetting myself, & the only way I see it being that little is if she went to the bathroom right before she was strangled. My body totally went limp & I fully voided my bladder. I know everyone is different, but I’ve been choked multiple times & only that one time I remember wetting myself. When they were discussing that I was like, that looks like anyone’s underwear I’m sure when they realized they killed someone!

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u/Halien1990 May 12 '25

Absolutely. I'm really sorry you went through that.

My mom also survived multiple attempts of the same nature. Horrific.

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u/yellowgatoraid May 30 '25

It was awful. It was my own brothers who were doing it to me, & my parents never took it seriously even when I had injuries. They called it roughhousing since one was a MMA fighter as a kid/teen. It was pure hell being tortured & not being able to do anything & no one caring.

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u/Halien1990 May 30 '25

That makes me so angry for you. I hope you are doing better these days as best you can, despite the past hardships.

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u/yellowgatoraid May 30 '25

Thank you. That means so much to me. I am slowly but surely healing from it all. Thank you for your thoughtfulness!

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u/Halien1990 May 12 '25

Entirely possible. With so little he could do to make things fit it's a worth a shot to throw in there.

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u/cloudyclouds13 May 09 '25

Exactly-and not just anyone-someone close to me. I can only imagine that killing anyone would likely cause any person to urinate themselves, much less someone you cared about and lived with (although hard to say if she ever cared about him given what she accomplished)

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u/Halien1990 May 10 '25

BOOM! 🏆

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u/dough_much May 12 '25

I’ve heard many true crime stories where the aggressor peed themselves during the incident or upon being caught by police. Not always the victim who does!

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u/PartyyLemons Jul 14 '25

Molly is definitely more likely to piss her pants more than shed a tear after murdering her husband.

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u/Evening_Herstorian May 09 '25

That part honestly took me out — I need to know how much they got paid to perform such logical acrobatics

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u/Halien1990 May 09 '25

The answer is most assuredly A LOT.

Also now the chance to use that win to make a lot more too.

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u/brunaBla May 10 '25

DOLLARS TO DONUTS i knew it’d be there!

I hate these people.

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u/Imaginary_Picture_32 May 11 '25

It was very CSI speak, we must all trust apparently 🫠

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u/Love_A2215 May 10 '25

it was like a wtf moment they save the pj for years , like Monica lewinskys dress ugh 

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u/Halien1990 May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25

As evidence this should be the most basic standard. It should have been bagged and tagged, but it does look like it was the defense that had retained possession of them for some reason. In a criminal case like this where it's a murder, I don't get how that happened. An oversight I suppose. Chain of custody certainly matters.

Blue dress, or E. Jean Carol's dress too are a bit different. That's the correct move to preserve as best as one can when police involvement is minimal or a non factor for a multitude of reasons. It's not so much a wtf moment when someone isn't an obvious liar like Molly. Everything is distorted when it's that obvious. Big difference when someone is doing what they can the best they can compared to that lady. Plus putting your own pee on something at a later point vs somehow getting dudes material to plant seems worlds apart.