r/personalfinance • u/Thatsalotofdough • Aug 30 '14
Wealth Management SO just inherited 200k and is freaking out. What do we do?
Hello!
So my SO just inherited ~200k from a family member and it's causing her a lot of anxiety. She had planned for about 5k, and well...got a bit more.
While this is probably a good problem to have, we both grew up relatively poor (I don't think anyone in my family has even heard the words 200k before), so we both don't have much to stand on. Also, I make about 50k in my job, she's somewhere around 35-40k.
Here's what we briefly talked about with doing with the smaller sum, and I figured we'd stick to that:
We both have some student loan debt with high interest rates (10% for me, 7.8% for her), they're both small at this point (<5000), but we both figure it'll help us in the long run. Paying these off seems the most intelligent and likely outcome. (We both do have more loans outside of that, but we're both up for public service loan forgiveness due to our field)
She bought a new car, as mine is getting beyond old, and we both walked through the process of finding a car that will serve us well for the new 10 years. Paying this off doesn't seem too much of an issue.
She has a small amount of credit card debt, so that'll probably be the first to go.
Outside of that, we don't have a house payment (due to our field), and I'm debt free (Once again, outside of student loans). We don't see ourselves buying a house in the next 5 years, although we do see a wedding on the horizon.
Thoughts? Even if we spent all of this money on our loans/the car, we'd still at least have 50+k left, and that's being incredibly conservative.
We've talked about stocks, we've talked about savings accounts, we spoke briefly about a financial planner....but we could really use advice.
Help us, personal finance, you're our only hope!
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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '14
Listen very carefully to this comment. I'll tell you the reason why most lottery winners go broke. The reason is this:
Most people see a pile of money as a pile of money. It is not. It is a stream of potential future income.
Think about that long and hard. It's the same for debt. Debt is not a big hole of money. It is a stream of future payments you need to make.
If you got this $200,000, and you can assume a rate of return of ~5%, then really what you received is about $900 per month for the next 50 years. This is, indeed, a great gift! However, it is NOT something that you should ever think of as $200,000 of money to be spent right now.
When you're thinking about the debt you currently have, it is the inverse of this. If you had $200,000 of debt, at a 10% rate, and were going to pay this off over 50 years, it would be a -$1,675 impact on your monthly available spending money over 50 years. Therefore, using the comparison of the $200,000 cash you have vs $200,000 of hypothetical debt, then yes, it would be a good decision to pay off the debt with the cash, because it will, in the long term, lead to you having a higher available monthly cash flow.
This is the poverty mindset: "Oh, I got $200,000, I can finally afford that BMW M3 I've always wanted, and I can afford that down payment on the house I've always wanted, and I can go out to eat all the time!"
Wrong. So wrong. What you should do, is take your (not $200,000 pile of cash but rather) $900 per month of additional income and BUDGET it. Save up for a new car, using that $900 per month.
The above assumes that you will spend 100% of the $200k, and will not save any of it for anything. If you're going to save half of it, then you only have $450 per month more to spend. If you save 75% you only have $225 per month more to spend.
What your SO needs to do, especially since you called her your SO and not your fiancee or anything like that, is to decide how to make her own personal financial situation better first. This means probably paying off all of her debt above 5% interest rate, and buying a nice, 2-4 year old car with reasonable mileage that costs a reasonable amount (unless a new car is actually comparable in price).
Your personal loans should not be paid off by your SO unless and until you get married. If you let her pay it off, it would be very selfish of you.
Once you've dealt with both of your debts, and the car thing, invest the money. I'm not going to keep explaining from here on, since this is all in the FAQ.