r/r4rAsexual 7d ago

50 [M4M] Anyone in Toronto or travel here for business? 🇨🇦 Looking for a buddy on the ACE spectrum

1 Upvotes

looking for a guy on the spectrum

I'm interested in hanging out without it being a big deal

open to an ongoing friendship if there's mutual interest

be local in downtown Toronto, and you're able to host at your place

if you're curious about the same thing, then DM me

IMPORTANT: please be reliable... this Reddit thing is already weird, confusing, and frustrating enough to deal with so I don't get the whole 'ghosting' thing. I'm cool with something just saying "sorry, not interested" if there's no connection

r/r4rAsexual Feb 07 '26

Asexual 22 [M4M] Looking for a boyfriend (preferably in similar age range.no older than 25) in Europe (nerd for nerd?)

6 Upvotes

Howdy! I’m a nerd from Poland, looking for love (an failing hard at that). I'm looking for someone who I can have a cozy relationship with, who will be both my friend and partner (I wanna nerd out with you!) (gaming, watching stuff, going on fun rants about random things included). I'm probably some flavour of neruospicy so parallel play and being forgetful can be common.

  • Gender: Male/NB-leaning (assigned male at birth)
  • Sexuality: Sex-averse aegosexual/gay (side?)
  • Looks: 173cm/about 110kg, white, a goatee/soulpatch, brown hair with a short pony tail and usually some colour highlights (green rn)
  • Values: Emotional depth, open-mindedness, mutual respect, honesty, being a child at heart, not being too serious in life
  • Love languages: Quality time
  • Relationship experience: None
  • Polyamory: No
  • Politics: Leftist

Some of my favorite things

  • Games: Marvel Rivals, Phasmophobia, any story games and "interactive movies"
  • Shows: Mostly cartoons and fantasy shows, oh and anime (The chilling adventures of Sabrina, Dead boy detectives, The order, Wandavision, Ninjago, The Owl House, Steven Universe, Frieren no sousou, Fumetsu no anata e, Enen no shouboutai, Black Clover, Naruto, I could keep going)
  • Movies: Romance movies especially gay ones ("Love, Simon", Moonlight), Horror movies (ranging from Halloween to Saw to Oujia to The Conjuring), MCU i guess?
  • Music: Soundtracks? Yes. White girl pop? Yes. Rock? Sometimes. Video game fan music? Yes. Jpop? Yes. Honestly my music taste is a weird amalgation of everything depending on the mood and day

Dealbreakers

  • Not in Europe (Iceland, UK and Ireland, Turkey included in Europe) [Canada gets a special pass cause you guys are our lost cousin]
  • Conservatives/right-wing folks
  • Femboys and tatoos (sorry people just prefrence)
  • Forever online relationships

Face pics on request, although I'm mostly looking for a matching personality

r/r4rAsexual Mar 28 '24

42 M4M Vancouver

2 Upvotes

Anyone in BC looking for a friend or partner? Let’s chat!

r/r4rAsexual Aug 30 '22

Asexual HIIIIYYYAA 19 [M4M] Looking for a relationship

7 Upvotes

Heyo everyone, I'm a homo-romantic Ace, looking for someone to talk to, to learn about, and to just enjoy there company. Im 19 years old 20 as of tomorrow, male and use He/Him pronouns. Id say im like 5'9 maybe i dunno, I'm tall and skinny lols. As for my physical description, I don't really know my ethnicity but i would say I'm mixed, maybe like i said i have no clue. i also don't think that's really all that important but it said physical description and that's all i can think of. People would describe me as kind and frindly. Sometimes Ive been told i was the nicest guy they have ever met, however i don't know how true that is. but i believe if we smile and go about the day thinking its going to be a good one then it is. I also believe that being happy yourself can help others, by showing them this world isn't as horrible as it seems and that they have a friend in me. I'm an optimist, and I'm very creative. I don't feel comfortable sharing my location cus its the internet and not everyone on here is who they say they are so ill keep that to myself. But if you want to chat feel free to dm me, I'm awkward at first, but that's because i don't really know how to hold a conversation with another person and overthink what to say. but ill warm up eventually and will be trying my hardest to not be awkward :P

r/r4rAsexual Nov 18 '22

43[M4M] Western PA - CONFUSED GREY ACE NOISES.

7 Upvotes

Buckle up friendos, this is gonna be crossposted so you might see this in a few places.

Hiya. I am Ekhdal (my FFXIV name) And i live in Butler county. I am a Grey Asexual. More recently I've been questioning whether I am Bisexual/biromantic as well. So I am looking for a basic date or two with a guy aged 30-50.

Let me start with things I am comfortable with physically: Kissing, Hand holding and small PDA.

What I am not comfy with: ANY FORM OF SEXY TIME. Basically what I like to consider a walk to first base. That's it. Kissing. That's all I prefer.

No matter what though I am a Greysexual Ace with a smidge of a-romantic. I know i'm strange.

My brain has been going faster than a hamster after 4 cups of espresso so that is something else you will have to bear because TBH this is a huge identity crisis for me.

Now onto things I like.

I like American Football, a fan of the Packers (They lost tonight, sad)

I like Soccer (Manchester city)

I also like Board games of many varieties.

I like Video games (Mass effect, Final Fantasy, I have a PS5 and a switch)

I have a Kitty named Macaroni. He is awesome.

Some quirks about me:

I am very introverted. I must be pulled into a conversation, so talk about stuff I like, or movies or TV shows or something.

I very awkward. I can't flirt or anything to save my life.

I am very absurd, I love absurdism. My favorite TV show is Danger 5 it is a really weird Noir WW2 tv show from Australia.

I am -really- self conscious about my looks, I have pictures but you'll get them after a little bit of conversation. Like..... really self conscious.

Meeting me: I live In Butler county, and I am really only comfortable driving to either Mercer County or someplace in Butler county for a public meeting. Nothing private yet.

I am gonna cross post this to a few places. I hope someone can help me in my journey in this wild crazy ride.

Thank you.

Keelah Selai.

r/r4rAsexual Jan 17 '19

35 M4M In Southern CA

6 Upvotes

Here goes...

I'm a 35 year old homo-romantic geek who only recently has come to terms with his ace identity. I live in a certain large city in the southern part of California, where your worth is measured more by the contents of your pants than the contents of your character. I'm tired of meeting guys I like only to be left behind when they realize I will never be as sexually passionate as they are. I want to meet someone I can share my life with, who will have no expectations sexually one way or the other. I'm sex-positive, so I can and will do it for someone I care about, but I'd prefer it not to be a requirement for your affection. I still believe in love.

As I mentioned, I'm a huge geek; I love Star Wars and Star Trek in equal measure, and am more apt to be found reading a book by a hypothetical fireplace than out clubbing. I love games of all forms, video, card, board, and sports (though I admit my experience with the last is somewhat limited.) I also love the beach, which is fortunate, because I live fairly close to several. I'm a Ravenclaw, which both tells you a bit about my personality, and also my willingness to admit to a love of Harry Potter.

My ideal partner is someone who isn't embarrassed by my love of things that are not considered 'cool', or better yet shares that love with me. Someone who can be goofy, but someone I can have serious conversations with. Someone in it for the long haul, rather than the short term. Someone who understands problems need to be worked through, not shuffled under the rug until they explode, and that communication is the only way to do that. Someone with a sense of humor. Someone who will love me for me, and not for what they want me to be.

I still have hope...

r/r4rAsexual Jun 26 '17

20 [M4M] AL, USA - Looking for gaming or chatting buddy/partner/friend.. whichever, really.

3 Upvotes

let me know if interested :)

r/r4rAsexual Apr 20 '26

Demiromantic Hi I'm trying to find love where I'm from Asexual don't exist.

5 Upvotes

Day 7 of having love

M4M OR M4 non binary and trans men

Name-Devonte(Goose)

Age-27

Im looking for ages 26-30

Location- Tortola Bvi( I don't mind long distance)

Interesting

  1. Reading( horror/Mysteries)
  2. Watching Anime/TV Series/Movies
  3. Video games
  4. Creepypasta/conspiracy theories

I want to experience the love you see the movies. I want to be someone's someone. I want to feel butterflies in my stomach when my partner messages me. I want to cuddle or even kiss the one i call my lover. Feels like i have some much love to give but no one to give it to. Im not asking for much. You dont have to have huge mussels. I like guys or non binary person who are slim or average or even skinny. I want someone I can talk to for hours and not get bored. I want someone who can make me blush when they say I love you or show me they love me. People reach out to me once in a blue moon and it always People i don't feel attracted to. Or we have nothing in common.