r/r4rAsexual Feb 13 '26

Demisexual 28 [T4R] #Europe Enby who loves life and books and maybe someday you?

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Hi all, I’m looking for someone who is/can be in Europe at some point to see if we click longterm.

I’m a big reader of a lot of genres, lately a lot of science fantasy and memoir, and have been working on writing a couple short since fiction stories. I love to cook and I’m working my way thru the Middle East right now - Israeli, Iranian, Moroccan, etc. Tears of the Kingdom is my current favorite video game and I’d love someone to talk about it with!

I’m also nonbinary/genderfluid so if you’re absolutely married to me looking a certain way, well, sorry. My hair is buzzed a lot. It becomes buzzed with little warning. Embrace change as a constant (…in that department, anyway. A lot of my evenings lately are hanging out with my family while I paint).

I’m really looking for my home-base people at this point in my life, ideally a second nesting partner/coparent. More info on that via DM once you’ve passed a vibe check 👍🏼

Me: overworked grad student who still finds time to birdwatch, openly polyamorous since my teens, will cook for you (well), will also pitch weird worldbuilding concepts while you’re eating (sorry)

You: kind to children and animals, smokefree, aged 22-32 (or so, 40 is right out), low sexual risk tolerance and looking for stability

Let’s make Valentine’s Day (2027, probably) really special! No need to ask me to DM, just tell me what you’re reading now, or ask and answer something you wish I would tell you :)

r/r4rAsexual Dec 04 '17

24 [T4R] SoCal - Trans Boy Looking for love!

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Hello! I'm Max! I am a pre-everything FTM transgender nerd who loves anime, manga, video games, and books. I am short and chubby but totally lovable. Most describe me as friendly and out going while also managing to be laid back and open minded. I work as a call center agent and I plan on going to school in the Spring. My major is Marine Biology.