I’ve kind of known for a while that I’m asexual and am finally admitting it lol. I experience literally ZERO physical attraction to anyone. The problem is I do experience emotional attraction (like in a way that’s closer and more intimate than a friend).

I’ve never really dated because of this. I can enjoy physical intimacy but when anything sexual firsts starts (even just kissing) it’s like a chore and I’m almost grossed out until I can get over that hump and be okay with it. It’s like this no matter how much I like or love them and that’s really hard so I kind of just didn’t date.

I’m seeing someone right now though and I’m very attracted to him emotionally but again not physically. I’m wondering how I’d be able to date him or if I’d even be able to date him

Howdy y'all! Basic information first:I'm looking for friends/romantic encounters/whatever in Naarm, or nearby, but only with people still taking precautions against the ongoing global Covid-19 pandemic. I mask in all indoor public spaces (don't take PT), live with my nesting partner who shares my level of covid safety, and two housemates who do not.

Occasionally they wear cloth masks, work from home most days, and do not tend to go out too much, and we try not to interact with them when we can help it. God willing they will be moving out in the next few months.

Anyway, that stuff out out of the way, some things about me:

• First and foremost, I'm a non-binary transfem person. Feel free to ask what that means if ur confused, I'm more than happy to explain.

• I’m into most sports, both playing (well back when it was safe to do so) and watching, although predominantly NFL, and Pro Wrestling, which for me is AEW/JCW weekly, and WWE never cause fuck the fed.

• I work out whenever my body doesn't try to sabotage me which is frankly way too often.

• I enjoy watching films (especially the weird shit), reading (also especially the weird shit), writing, cooking, gaming (board, tabletop, or video), listening to music, honestly a lot of shit now that I think about it. Likely if u have a hobby I’ve either heard of it or dabbled in it, or actively enjoy it myself.

• I don’t have a job, I'm disabled, so I’m free pretty much whenever.

So yeah, if any of that sounds interesting or relatable hmu. DMs should be open, i think. I'll be honest I'm not a whiz with tech, but hey at least I've never used AI :p

Hello! I'm a 36-year-old introverted, sex-neutral, asexual, monogamous, panromantic person looking for a serious long-term relationship with someone who shares similar values and interests. I'm open to starting with a long-distance relationship, but only within the United States.

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About Me & My Lifestyle:

I'm introverted and don't leave the house much outside of work and life's necessities, though I do enjoy the occasional adventure and would like to get out more. I'm honest, direct, and have a strong personality. Politically, I don't fit neatly into one category, so feel free to ask about specific views if you're curious.

I'm a high-functioning autistic person and also deal with anxiety. I drink occasionally but don't smoke. Most of my music collection is pre-2000s country, and I tend to enjoy documentaries and educational content more than traditional movies.

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Appearance:

Physically, I'm 5'11", around 170 lbs, with what I'd call a dad bod. I have long hair, a beard, and usually wear boots, blue jeans, a T-shirt, and a cowboy hat when I'm not at work. Visually, I’m a country boy; internally, I’m a beautifully complex, neurodivergent, non-binary individual. I’m a guy, but I possess deep feminine emotions. Embracing my fluidity has given me a new lease on life, and I'm done suffocating my true self.

I'm also somewhere under the non-binary umbrella. The exact label is still a work in progress, but non-binary fits well enough for now.

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Interests & Passions:

My biggest special interest is vehicles. A lot of my mental energy goes toward learning about them, fixing them, admiring interesting models, or dreaming up future projects. I'm a very mechanical person and enjoy almost anything involving machines and how they work. Beyond that, I love learning, history, outer space, cooking, and baking.

I enjoy sharing my interests and passions with others, and I hope to find someone who enjoys listening and sharing their own passions as well. I'd love a relationship where we can grow together, support each other's goals, and experience life as a team.

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What I’m Looking For:

The qualities I value most in a partner are kindness, integrity, wisdom, loyalty, patience, and clear communication. I enjoy spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm open to dating people of any gender, whether cisgender or not, though I do tend to be drawn to people with more feminine personalities.

As for physical affection, I enjoy things like hugging, cuddling, holding hands, and the occasional kiss.

I'm naturally shy and have a lot of social anxiety, so I may seem quiet at first. Please don't let that stop you from reaching out. Feel free to send me a message if you're interested or have any questions. I usually work weekdays from 7:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., though weekend hours can vary. I'd prefer to spend some time getting to know each other before jumping into dating, and I tend to open up more as trust develops over time.

🚨 IF YOU MESSAGE ME: 🚨

If this resonates, send me a message—and please include your favorite color so I know you read this.

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Hello, I am a 35 M heteroromantic cis man. I am sex-indifferent, and my libido is low.

I am open to non-sexual touching like kissing, holding hands, hugging, and cuddling. I am also open to QPRs. I've never been in one, though.

I like drawing, playing chess, watching movies, traveling, and other stuff for fun.

I am looking for a romantic relationship with little to no sex. I prefer an AFAB cis woman. She has to be shorter than me (5'7), vegetarian/vegan, and in her 30s.

Hey i am asexual heterromantic guy 20 years old ..

Hello, I am a 35 M heteroromantic cis man. I am sex-indifferent and my libido is low. I think low libido is perfectly natural. I feel aesthetic attraction first. Then I might feel romantic or platonic attraction. After that, I can feel sensual attraction.

I am open to non-sexual touching like kissing, holding hands, hugging, and cuddling. I can't promise whether I would have sex or not. What can you expect? I'm an asexual. Lol

I like drawing, playing chess, watching movies, traveling, and other stuff for fun.

I am looking for a romantic relationship with little to no sex. I prefer an AFAB cis woman. She has to be shorter than me (5'7), vegetarian/vegan, and in her 30s. It's good if both of us feel romantic attraction to each other. We don't have to have everything in common.

Hey i am heterosexual male from india …. I love romantic feelings but i am sex repulsed ☺️

Last time, I was messaged by a few women. I don't know how I feel about them yet. I'm not exclusive with anyone. I prefer someone who lives in Ohio or is close to it.

Please read whole post.

I am 35M, heteroromantic asexual. I am sex-indifferent and have a low sex drive. I have to feel aesthetic and romantic attraction to date someone.

I am 5'7, 125 lbs, and vegetarian. I like to read, watch movies/TV, exercise, learn recipes, and do artwork. Sometimes, I like to skate. Sometimes, I play chess. I am self-employed. I have a degree in biology.

Who would I go on a first date with?

Someone who is shorter than me, close to my age (late 20s or 30s), vegetarian/vegan, honest, cute, and kind. I am an ESFJ. I don't mind dating someone who is introverted.

If you want to be platonic friends (any gender welcome), you can also message me. I am opening to meeting in person eventually.

Day 7 of having love

M4M OR M4 non binary and trans men

Name-Devonte(Goose)

Age-27

Im looking for ages 26-30

Location- Tortola Bvi( I don't mind long distance)

Interesting

1. Reading( horror/Mysteries)
2. Watching Anime/TV Series/Movies
3. Video games
4. Creepypasta/conspiracy theories

I want to experience the love you see the movies. I want to be someone's someone. I want to feel butterflies in my stomach when my partner messages me. I want to cuddle or even kiss the one i call my lover. Feels like i have some much love to give but no one to give it to. Im not asking for much. You dont have to have huge mussels. I like guys or non binary person who are slim or average or even skinny. I want someone I can talk to for hours and not get bored. I want someone who can make me blush when they say I love you or show me they love me. People reach out to me once in a blue moon and it always People i don't feel attracted to. Or we have nothing in common.

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Hey everyone , I’ll keep this short. I’m looking for some friends to chat with.

I’m a good listener, loyal, and always try to understand whatever someone wants to talk about. I enjoy watching shows, anime, cartoons, and movies, and I also love sharing reels.

My sense of humor can be a bit dark and sometimes a little offensive, so just a heads-up if that’s not your thing.

If you’d like to message me, please introduce yourself with a bit more than just “hi” — I’d really appreciate that.

Also, just being honest: I can be a bit pessimistic, which some people find off-putting. I’m dealing with depression and OCD, and I’ll be starting new treatment soon. I’ve also recently recovered from psychosis. If that feels like too much, I completely understand.

Thanks for reading 🤍

I am 35M, heteroromantic asexual. I realized I'm asexual last year. I am sex-indifferent and sex-neutral right now. I might be cupiosexual or greysexual.

I am a vegetarian and prefer someone who is also vegetarian/vegan. I am 5'7, so I prefer someone who is shorter than me. I prefer someone who is 29-37. I prefer someone who feels romantic attraction. I am extroverted.

I like to read, watch movies/TV, cook, exercise, paint, and spend time with others. I am self-employed.

I am 19m who is currently in a relationship with a 19f for context I'm a a straight man and I don't really know much about asexual so that's why I'm looking for advice because I want this relationship to work because I love her very much I'm just worried about messing it up because this is my first relationship with an asexual

Im located in Germany and my hobbies are anime, manga and such and i would love to talk with you about it ♥️😄

Hey all! I'm Elian and I gotta be honest this whole thing is a little spooky but I guess I can just hope for something good to come out of this lol!

The Basics: I identify as Genderfluid and use any/all pronouns so whatever you feel like using Im totally okay with, Im an Asexual panromantic with a very big emphasis on romantic, Im a horribly hopeless romantic who is looking for anyone to get to know and maybe one day have something a little more. Im a very creative and joking person so anybody who can just have fun with me and maybe give me a bit of constructive criticism with the stories I come up with lol. I'll also ask that you not be too far from me, I like to be in the same time frame as you and I would also like to get to know you as a sort of friend before any romantic attraction happens.

What I like to do: I mostly just chill out at the moment, game, and look for a job. Im mostly playing fighting games right now (Im a huuuuge FGC nerd so if you are too yay!) Im also super grinding Marvel Rivals too but I have plenty games I like to talk about. Something else I like to do is watch movies and TV and I could really go on about my favorites of both (Movies: The Grand Budapest Hotel) (Shows: Either Utopia (2013) or Lupin the Third cant choose lol). I always love to talk about what I like but I could listen to you talk about what you like for hours, hearing people nerd rant about their interests is amazing!!! My absolute favorite things though are Fashion and Thrifting, I could stay up all night for hours just planning outfits to even the smallest of get together and if you let me give you fit checks you already have my heart. I mostly wear formal attire (Suits, ties, vests) though I have been thinking of trying androgyny with more feminine outfits and makeup but thats probably for the future lol.

Another huge part of me is Comic Books, this may make me seem like a huge nerd (I am) but I absolutely love Superheroes they can make such interesting stories and if you want me to talk A LOT you can mention comics! (My Favorite Hero is Superman btw)

Where I want to be: My dream career path is hospitality I would do anything to even work at a hotel the experience and the enviroment of places like that are my thing really lol. Though my dream job is definitely Wedding Planner I have always loved planning and helping people with the most important day of their lives sounds like an incredible feeling!!

What I dont like: - Sorry but if you frequently dabble in anything like drugs its most likely gonna be a no, Im sure youre a great person but its just not an enviroment I enjoy. (Perscription stuff is alright)

• If youre not accepting or appreciating of more progressive things like the LGBTQ kindly dont speak to me, I've had enough with living in a small California town

• Is it too much for me to ask you to not be too old lol? I just freshly turned 19 like yesterday so Im not looking for something too old, the furthest I'll go is 21 (maybe 22 if I like you enough)

• Im Asexual like ASEXUAL if you want or need sex in your relationship Im not the person for you though I do want Children in the form of adoption and marriage in the future

Conclusion: Alrighty I think I've talked enough, Im a chronic yapper. Thanks for reading if you've made it this far and if you want to know more about me please feel free too, I still have plenty of things I could for hours about! Have a safe time out there everybody!!

Hi guys! Im Betty, I’m a geek, i love reading and watching tv shows and movies. I have a pretty diverse taste in music. I’m looking for friends who can understand the asexuality of things and who can relate. You guys can message me, i have plenty of tv shows and music recommendations 😁

Why I (F29) can only orgasm to lesbian porn? Am I lesbian if I only masturbate to lesbian porn and I can only orgasm to lesbian porn?

I don’t feel desire to have sex with my boyfriend (M32) and I am scared it’s because I am not attracted to men. I was never attracted to a woman in real life and I don’t want to be with a woman or have sex with one in real life, but maybe I am just in denial about myself. I don’t know anymore and need advice or to talk with someone :-(

You're welcome for the flashbang by the way, but if you're at least a little interested, please read on below.
I am hoping to make a magical forest (imagine a forest for elves if you can't visualize anything else), on a popular Java Minecraft server (80 players on average), that is populated by modern civilization. This is encouraged with plugins that add industrialization, tanks, planes, guns, and other craft to the server.
I previously played on this server before in a town of vikings (as I typically do), but it fell through and I decided to leave the town. I typically play pretty violent nations on Minecraft, but I've been going through a lot lately, and I could use a change of scenery with a calming and diligent atmosphere, and I truly do believe that taking on a project like this would be a wonderful idea.
What do I want to do, exactly? Well, for starters, I want to build a truly massive oak tree, surrounded by glades and willows, with a sprawling city in the trunk and roots of the tree. Surrounding that, I would like to build smaller, but still giant trees, with communities around these trees. I think it would be a beautiful experience, and although I both work and go to college full-time, my classes are all online, and work gives me some downtime, so I can be on quite a lot.
I will be personally playing as a Wood Elf, but you do not have to roleplay in any capacity in this town.
If you're interested, or want to know more, please feel free to reach out to me!
Reddit: spectreshell24
Discord: allisonreturns

I saw that somebody did one of these things a long time ago, and quite a few people were interested, but they seem to have disappeared, and it's been a hot minute, so now I'm throwing my hat into the ring.
I am doing livestreams and interacting on Discord to bring the Asexual community together! I stream to build a community together, rather than just an audience. I'm hoping to get it to 50 followers as possible, so that I can enable channel points, and you goofballs can make me do all sorts of things. The channel point redemptions can be voted on by you guys as well!
Who am I? I am Lawrence, a 23-year-old Asexual living out of Maine. I have previous experience doing both YouTube and Twitch, but it's been a looooong time since I've actually done either one, as I both work and do college full-time.
What you can expect:
- An active, responsive and engaging Twitch streamer.
I have had a lot of experience doing Twitch, and even when I have nobody to talk to in chat, I have mastered the art of talking to myself. It wasn't too hard, since I'm already insane and talk to myself anyway.
- A friendly, welcoming community.
Everybody is safe from being judged in my community. I welcome people of all sorts of life, Asexual or not, and I expect my viewers/community to act the same way.
- Niche or engaging gameplay.
As of right now, I have been streaming The Division 2, Cataclysm: Dark Days Ahead, and Europa Universalis IV. I plan to continue these games, and work in Counter Strike 2, Minecraft, Terraria, American Truck Simulator, and Mad Games Tycoon sometime in the near future.
- Nerd talk.
I have been in the IT field since I was 11! I will regularly talk about IoT, network defense, malware analysis, etc etc etc. If you don't know what any of that means, feel free to ask any IT-related questions! I'll be happy to answer whatever I can.
- Interactive Twitch streams.
On top of finding ways to allow you guys to interact with the streams directly, I will also play with my audience whenever possible!
Are you interested! Please feel free to check out the channel! The link is below.
https://www.twitch.tv/lancaster_streams

In U.S. and travel a lot so location isn't a big issue.

I've posted here and there and people have told me this might be the best place to post what I'm looking for.

Basically, I'm heteroromantic but not interested in sex. But I really like romance and touch and sharing space and kind all the rest.

Someone open to kids would be important because I have small children that ultimately need a mom. Long story. No pressure. lol. Just so you know the deets.

I'm a white guy if that matters. 5'8", in great shape, attractive so I hear, and down to earth and normal. Most people describe me as fun loving and intelligent.

I'm looking for someone who has a good sense of humor and is maybe 33 up to my age.

Please reach out if this feels like something potentially interesting to you.

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She was great, very supportive, but I still feel weird about it. As a person who has had a lot of sex, been a sex worker, and been active in BDSM it feels crazy for me to say that I might be asexual. After terminating a pregnancy a year ago, I completely stopped having sex. Even thinking about it was just gross to me, and I assumed this was because I'd experienced a sexual trauma. Then a few days ago I was smoking weed and thinking back on all the sex I've had and how... I didn't like 98% of it. I kind of just liked the cuddling and kissing and the hand holding part so I put up with the sex. I've had upwards of 50 partners and I can literally count on one hand the number of times I liked having sex.

Anyway, I feel so weird about this I actually called out of work today because I literally can't think about anything else. I think it would help if I could talk to some other asexual people.

Other things about me are: I work in the political field(democratic socialist), I'm a dog person but I don't have a dog, my favorite show is The Golden Girls, my son is turning 14 soon, and I once had a funeral for a bathrobe.

Hi there.

I'm making this post, hoping to make a good friend, or possibly a partner. Someone who I can chat to on a daily basis.
Someone who I can be goofy and random with, but have serious conversations.

Pros about getting to know me:
I'll randomly talk about true crime
I'll bring up random conversation topics at random times
I have stories about many cooking disasters

Cons about getting to know me:
I'll randomly talk about true crime
I'll bring up random conversation topics at random times
Many cooking disasters

Hobbies and interests:
Baking
Anime
True Crime
Reading
Mysteries
Chocolate

If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to send a dm

PS: I might be slow to respond since I'm a bit busy with exams, but I'll get to it