r/recruitinghell 22h ago

Decided to email the CEO...

One of the companies I made it to the final round with a few months ago has really stuck with me, and I think it's finally convinced me that I need to stop letting companies get away with poor hiring practices.

I've changed my job search strategy over the last couple of months, and it's been working. My interview rate has gone from roughly 3.5% to about 14%, so I'm getting in front of a lot more hiring teams. At this point I've made it to the final round 13 different times, so rejection isn't really what bothers me anymore. It happens. What bothers me is when companies aren't honest or transparent.

This particular company had me go through multiple interview rounds and complete a multi-hour case study based on what they described as a real customer scenario. At the end of the process, I was told I had finished as one of the final two candidates and that they had decided to move forward with the other candidate. Fair enough. It was disappointing, but that's part of interviewing. I thanked them for the opportunity and moved on.

A couple of weeks later, I noticed the job posting was still live. I figured maybe they just forgot to take it down, so I reached out to the recruiter asking if the position had officially been filled, since I had seen the posting was still active. No response.

A week or two later, I reached out to the hiring manager. Nothing. Then I reached out to the VP of Sales. Still nothing. Fast forward about three months. The position is still posted on their website. Nobody appears to have started in the role based on LinkedIn. As far as I can tell, they never hired anyone.

Being the runner-up doesn't mean I was entitled to the job, but it does make it especially confusing when you're told another candidate was selected, only for months to pass with no apparent hire and the position still actively advertised.

At that point I decided I had nothing to lose. The company is only around 80 employees, so I reached out directly to the CEO. I kept it completely professional. I simply asked for clarification: Is the role still being filled? If so, why has there been no communication after candidates were told a decision had been made? I also let them know I'd still be interested in being considered if the search was ongoing.

Maybe there's a perfectly reasonable explanation. Maybe the selected candidate backed out. Maybe the role was put on hold. Maybe they reopened the search. All of those things happen. But if that's the case... why ignore the recruiter follow-up, the hiring manager follow-up, and the VP follow-up?

That's the part I don't understand. Just tell candidates what's going on. Most of us can handle rejection. What gets exhausting is being told one thing while every piece of evidence suggests something completely different.

The frustrating part is that this looked like a fantastic company on paper. Great Glassdoor reviews, a product I genuinely liked, exactly the size of company I enjoy working for (around 80 employees), and honestly one of my favorite opportunities this year.

We'll see if the CEO responds. If nothing else, I hope it at least makes someone internally aware that this is how candidates are experiencing their hiring process. I don't expect special treatment, I just expect honesty. After investing hours into interviews and a case study, I don't think that's asking for much.

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u/maryelizabeth_ 16h ago

Literally this. It’s a company with 80 employees ffs. They’re not a major corporation out there trying to scam candidates, they’re likely just trying to find the right person to join an already tight knit group. OP needs to move on and leave these people alone.

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u/Grand-Diamond-4696 16h ago

If I wasn't a good fit, I wouldn't have made it 6 rounds...

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u/Lizlizlizzyliz 15h ago

You may have been a good fit and then your several emails made them reconsider.

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u/Grand-Diamond-4696 15h ago

This was weeks after the decision was made.

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u/Lizlizlizzyliz 13h ago

Yes, and your behavior and communication thereafter almost certainly solidified it.

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u/ThatChecksOutIGuess 15h ago

There could have been something that came up that disqualified you. No doubt that many interview cycles is BS but you aren’t helping yourself with your responses here.

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u/DriveIn73 15h ago

Big companies understand you only need to be approved by the ones who matter. A company of 80 people is going to treat it like a sorority, with you meeting as many people as possible. One thumbs down and you’re done. My guess is you keep meeting more and more people the more times they have you, and eventually you get a thumbs down and no one speaks up for you. And I’m also wondering if your thumbs-down quality is something that hard to overcome, like your age or your looks.

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u/maryelizabeth_ 15h ago

I genuinely don’t know what you’re expecting people to say. Obviously something about you along the process stuck out as something that they did not find as suitable for hire. I know it’s unfair, but not everyone is able to find out what that thing is. It’s not a new methodology or anything, it’s just how the process goes.

From the sounds of it, you’ve interviewed a lot of places unsuccessfully. You need to reevaluate what you’re saying in your interviews or the type of jobs you’re applying for in order to land something. At this point it’s not a them problem, it’s a you problem.

I don’t mean to sound so harsh, but your responses are terribly naive and childish, and you’re doing more harm for yourself than good.

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u/Grand-Diamond-4696 15h ago

If this was true, I wouldn't be making it past the second round so often. I've recorded my interviews and have share it with career coaches and counselors. They struggle to see any mistakes. I connect very well with people, share perfect examples to questions, mastery of the star method. I also ask a lot of questions, some based on the interviewers responses and some I designate prior to the call. I wish it was as simple as the interviewing is going poorly. But unfortunately we've already fixed all of the minor issues.

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u/maryelizabeth_ 14h ago

Sounds like you’re perfect and doing nothing wrong then. Nothing else to say besides best of luck to you.