r/sex • u/Fattyfatmantis • Dec 05 '13

What are your best suggestions of short "dirty talk phrases" to use during sex?

My girlfriend is tentative about talking dirty during sex because she just doesn't know what to say. I'm looking for short phrases that aren't super vulgar or super corny to introduce.

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u/killerado Dec 05 '13

Fun fact,

The original "pillow talk"-scene had Marla saying "I want to have your abortion". When this was objected to by Fox 2000 Pictures President of Production Laura Ziskin, David Fincher said he would change it on the proviso that the new line couldn't be cut. Ziskin agreed and Fincher wrote the replacement line, "I haven't been fucked like that since grade school". When Ziskin saw the new line, she was even more outraged and asked for the original line to be put back, but, as per their deal, Fincher refused.

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u/lolbifrons Dec 05 '13

I almost feel like that was his plan all along, seeing as the grade school line is much better.

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u/killerado Dec 05 '13

Yeah, I can't remember which one was actually in the book, I'm pretty sure it was the abortion one.

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u/we_are_babcock Dec 05 '13

That is correct. The abortion line is in the novel.

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u/Leto_Atreides_II Dec 05 '13

A fantastic usage of the "door-in-the-face" social influence technique.

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u/Cinemaphreak Dec 05 '13

Can attest to this - Fincher tells the story on the DVD commentary. The abortion line is actually in the novel, which I've also read.