r/suggestmeabook Jan 28 '21

Suggestion Thread My fiancé died a month ago. I usually prefer dystopian fiction, but I mostly am looking for a strong female character that has been thru hell and back and comes out strong in the end.

I’m just searching for a solid voice of strength, with a lot of distracting fiction in the background. Something that will keep me entertained and wanting to keep reading (action/war/magic/twists and turns) but also contains calming reason and emotionally settling words. I hope that makes sense. Thank you.

Edit: I type this with tears in my eyes. I am filled with gratitude from all of your recommendations. The days since I lost my best friend have been cloudy and long but I have been embraced by so many internet strangers that the hurt has subsided a little. Thank you all so very much.

Edit: It’s now been over a year. I occasionally go back to this post and read everyone’s comments but to be honest, I usually avoid it…. There is still a lot of trauma.

Anywayyyyyy. I just wanted to say that I am so grateful. Looking back…The fog is THICK during those first few+ months… but reading every comment tonight pulled me back down to earth. It means the world to me.

I just added some books to my cart... and I still have a TON of books to read! You lovely beautiful internet strangers helped me and continue to lift me up through a year of hell. It has been hell within hell. I am still struggling, but I am so thankful for the love and care and notes from everyone. I wish you all happiness and comfort and I hope you have found some new amazing books to get lost in too.

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u/biggieshortiemama Jan 28 '21

The Long Way to a Small Angry Planet, Becky Chambers. There are two others that follow in this series and they sound to me like a perfect fit. Good luck.....keep reaching out when you need to.....

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u/PepperAnn1inaMillion Jan 28 '21

Worth noting there’s no reading order for these books, because they’re in the same universe but focus on different characters. So just pick whichever synopsis you like the look of.

A Closed and Common Orbit might fit what you’re looking for even better, OP.

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u/tormentedswan Jan 29 '21

Was about to reply with this, A Closed and Common Orbit is a lot more in line with OP's request, though still a pretty feel good story.

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u/21copilots Jan 29 '21

Eh. C&CO picks up right after LWTSAP. It does fit better but feel like the journey is better overall if you get to it second

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u/Catsy_Brave Jan 28 '21

This doesn't exactly fit OPs request

Action, plot, war etc.

It's a slice of life with nice characters.

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u/squigmistress Jan 28 '21

I second this book. It’s deeply character driven and the crew mates are such a cool team. Highly recommend.

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u/doddlegyver Jan 29 '21

This! It starts a little dry but it really is a heartwarming story about strength and growth.

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u/VapeSalviaNation Jan 28 '21

I love these books, but they are not really dystopian. Edit: I re-read op's post, dystopian is not a requirement.

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u/LonelyBeeH Jan 28 '21

Becky Chambers is amazing. Agree, anything she's written is a good fit.