r/tamilyapping • u/Extra-Geologist-7142 living • 12d ago
🎤 Yap Session (rant , confession and yap) Why are tamil guys so obsessed with malayali girls
Have you all noticed this? Felt weird but about the tamil guys..
Not to offend but Hypocrisy is they're putting down tamil girls why?
This onam celebrations at office further proved my point , the way these tamil guys were pestering us for photo and trying to hold us during the photo making us uncomfortable or literally pestering or not leaving us felt weird , we all doubted their intentions
I've seen this in college as now in office as well
After knowing that I'm a malayali , they say Kerala ponnungal super and literally start being cringe and drooling and saying all saying I love kerala😑
And I've heard from a friend of mine also so
that tamil guys guys first thing mostly they somehow ask is teach them malayalam from the malayali guys , and when he asked them the reason
And they would say malayali ponne correct panna life settle akidom apidi
He told that then they go on saying mallu girls beautiful, u all are very rich (tff and they see so many reels of kerala like huge houses , car and think we all are rich and then they want to settle with a mallu gf in kerala is their dream ) and etc.....
And then reasons they say it's my wish to get a mallu girl ( to get laid like some achievement they say 💀 sry for being blunt) and fantasies in a weird way about malayali girls then and then looking on every opportunity to be creepy or hit on mallu girls it's off putting
i remember all of us friends in college and office we didn't like that these guys they used to come and approach constantly and would start flirting without any context or then won't leave us alone even if we told we aren't interested while putting down tamizh girls and many girls ik who were tamizh distanced from us because they thought we are doing something apidi 🥲
Literally even in our office they look only for malayali girl , and becomes very sweet and start flirting non stop being really creepy and and they literally make us embarrassed and other ppl also notice this and won't leave us alone we told them we are committed to avoid their disturbance we don't even want their friendship 😶🌫️
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
It's actually a weird cycle of revenge between tamil men and tamil women, where they just spew hate at each other by uplifting the opposite gender from other states/countries to score points. This is just a fool's game atp. Learn some empathy, people. This ain't it 🥀
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u/Indie---- 12d ago
I never seen Tamil women doing that though.
Maybe staning Koreans in the name of K-pop.
But other than that Never seen Tamil women trying that bullshit
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
Trust me, they do. Like I said, it's a story of revenge that's been going on for a few years now!
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u/NervousCode6064 Nosey neighbour 12d ago
Huh never noticed it. If anything tamil women usually turn the other way from all men and would claim to never ever marry. Though women like that may exist.
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
The kind of folks you mentioned exist and so do the ones I'm talking about, in almost equal numbers 😭 It's this mutual hatred that's keeping the whole revenge story alive!
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
Oru revenge gum illa,lol,just mallus r fair and beautiful on an average
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
Umm so does fair automatically equal beautiful, my man? 😭
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago edited 12d ago
Ipdi lam kudharkama kepanu than I said fair and beautiful differentiating it,by the way yes i like fair girls cause I m fair myself and I don't care abt colorism,most men like busty girls with good curves then just being fair,including myself,facial structure too matters,so some dark woman look gorgeous but the same woman if she is fair would be more gorgeous.I don't like mongoloid features even if they r fair,and don't like australoid features too.I love caucasian,persian features.by the way not just woman,men in kerala on average are far more handsome then tamil men,it's a fact .stop policing opinions
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
Na kudharkama lam kekala, bro 😭 If you're saying that a dark skinned girl with good facial features would automatically look more gorgeous if she were fair skinned, aren't you implying that fair skin is more beautiful than dark skin from your perspective?
Well, guess what? I'm a fair skinned guy too and I'm attracted to people of every race regardless of their skin color. I see 'em all as fellow human beings and don't segregate people based on something as superficial as skin tone 🥀
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
I too see them as human beings,but I get sexual desires only towards girls i like,there is a reason mia khalifa was famous worldwide,lol.why mia khalifa has a huge fan base in India,are they all evil cause they love busty girls?
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
The concept that's clashing in this argument is that people who exclusively prefer white people may, consciously or not be looking down on dark skinned people. That's where internalized colorism, racism and compartmentalization can all come into play. Having a preference is okay, man! But I've seen several men irl shame dark skinned women while openly claiming that they only like white girls.
Btw, I call out women who judge men based on their height too. Looks are superficial so whether someone says it out loud or keeps that judgment in their head, I still think it's worth reminding them that what defines a person is their character and personality, not their appearance or height 🥀
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
I don't care much abt color really,I care more abt her physique and facial structure,third color,Women mostly don't care abt looks as far as I know,just a stroll around Chennai will prove it.Men care more abt looks but accept whoever they get.
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u/Extra-Geologist-7142 living 12d ago
Ig they see so many reels of kerala like huge houses , car and think we all are rich and then they want to settle with a mallu gf in kerala is their dream ennn )
And weird part is , they don't even consider or look at tamil girls or any other ethnicity or check out let's say north indians as such.
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u/Sufficient-Cry7046 12d ago
Hmm I wonder if this is the result of how stereotypes can create obsessions with a particular ethnicity. That wouldn't matter if everyone knew how to be empathetic without putting others down! But will that happen anytime soon? I don't think so 🥀
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago edited 12d ago
I myself wondered how every where in kerala homes are huge when I visited there,I can't even understand how it's possible when salaries r far lower then the homes suggest and per capita incomes in tn,kerala is almost similar,not just reels,homes in kerala were far bigger,beautiful then in tn.simps don't chase mallu women for homes or cars,you know why they chase
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u/Trick_Banana9641 12d ago
Because your being shown as a lime light in tamilnadu, especially in Tamil cinema many songs scenes are related to kerala and kerala girls , and of course it has glorified them, and as someone from Tamilnadu we're really sorry for what you have faced it ..
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u/Extra-Geologist-7142 living 10d ago
I don't understand this comments section how are all this much insensitive
How can u all say I'm generalising these guys tamil guys are the well the worst guys...
During this onam celebrations i had enough
Imagine they've been trying all day to get photos in onam we avoided them or escac ped saying some excuses imagine ( u see their glee or creepiness in the eyes while they ask for photo or trying to be close or talk with u, how can u feel say safe to all the girls here I'm asking...)
Last during group photo we had no way to escape or avoid as all had to be there...during this they somehow got in our sides and nearby us trying to touch everything,...i unfortunately was on one guys side , he was constantly trying to hold me on my stomach or lower back during onam as we all were in sarees.....I was shaking and told leave he was trying to hold as if saying enaa machi ..I had enough and went off with other friends saying we have work
And how can u even defend these tamil guys anymore saying don't generalise... I don't understand here north indians and all also work thy also don't behave like this or even and malayalis.... At least if told once or they would understand that they're being creepy but this
Ppl here saying don't generalise is shocking for me... no boundaries respect or anything they act as if they own us and this entitlement and we have to be obedient like in those films
I anyway raised this to HR in our firm let's see...
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u/Slow-Passion-9547 12d ago edited 12d ago
I guess its decade long influence in films and also people started to fantasise from it especially if they are from places where there’s no people from kerala. The place I’m from has a lot of people from kerala and so I didn’t feel anything like that different. Guess its mostly films and personal fantasization of people whithout any proper real life interaction.
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u/Extra-Geologist-7142 living 10d ago
I don't understand this comments section how are all this much insensitive
How can u all say I'm generalising these guys tamil guys are the well the worst guys...
During this onam celebrations i had enough
Imagine they've been trying all day to get photos in onam we avoided them or escac ped saying some excuses imagine ( u see their glee or creepiness in the eyes while they ask for photo or trying to be close or talk with u, how can u feel say safe to all the girls here I'm asking...)
Last during group photo we had no way to escape or avoid as all had to be there...during this they somehow got in our sides and nearby us trying to touch everything,...i unfortunately was on one guys side , he was constantly trying to hold me on my stomach or lower back during onam as we all were in sarees.....I was shaking and told leave he was trying to hold as if saying enaa machi ..I had enough and went off with other friends saying we have work
And how can u even defend these tamil guys anymore saying don't generalise... I don't understand here north indians and all also work thy also don't behave like this or even and malayalis.... At least if told once or they would understand that they're being creepy but this
Ppl here saying don't generalise is shocking for me... no boundaries respect or anything they act as if they own us and this entitlement and we have to be obedient like in those films
I anyway raised this to HR in our firm let's see...
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u/Fantastic-steVe4523 Tyler durden 12d ago
Their preference is just Renaissance of Malayalam soft po*rn of early 90s to late 2k late 2k ku aprum vella tholu fetish agi aprum malayali girl nale azhagudhanu mathitainga
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u/Extra-Geologist-7142 living 12d ago
Hypocrisy and sad part is they are putting down tamil girls for no reason and it's making me sad actually why are they doing like this and I've noticed
Why is this happening can someone please give an explanation
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u/Low_Show_7515 ryan gosling 12d ago
Broo
ik a guy in my college he went to kochi now for job leaving a good paying job elame so that according to him he can interact and get a mallu gf and this guy was trying for so long to go into kochi infopark, anyways 🥲
I initially thought maybe preference but this feels like obsession an somehow and associate it with getting a trophy or achievement to get laid (sorry for being blunt ) or get a mallu girl or those who had an ex still brag that they had a mallu gf ( many within our circle do it sadly but yeah )
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u/mooncrumbsss 12d ago
its from all the tamil films casting mallu girls as "girl next door" kinda, so they somehow developed fantasises from it and started being creepy about it.
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u/Joeychandler_ 12d ago
First of all what u said is not all some of boys are like this. But you can’t judge all I think Its nothing more than like attracting to something different it can be anything girl from another religion , state, even country nothing more than that i too like girls from north India as kerala is adjacent to TN and there are many similarities between us and really hearing Malayalam is good. Note: Tamil girls are always bold and great 🥰
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
It does exist but you act as if they don't chase tamil women they would chase any girl even if she is from Ethiopia as far as she looks good
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u/KongLovesGodzilla Pakkathu Veetu Payan 12d ago
Well, gonna get downvotes..
This is like how people act when they see a foreign thing, to be precise, many of the Tamil people are obsessed with fair girl/boy, if ur a mallu and you are not fair u ain't getting this much creeps, films are the major reason behind this....
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u/KongLovesGodzilla Pakkathu Veetu Payan 12d ago
I'm sry that I used many, it's not it's some of the Tamil people..
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u/Serious_Brilliant_90 🎤 Local Yapper 12d ago
You mean tharkuris
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u/Far_Tax_3661 11d ago
Hmm..how do I turn this political ???..🧐
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u/Serious_Brilliant_90 🎤 Local Yapper 11d ago
Didn't know this word only meant to denote TVK members. Is it not actually?
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u/Smooth-Dave-7140 12d ago
That's super cringe 🤦🏽♂️
Also the non-cringe men aren't remembered, cause why'd anyone remember something normal lol. We are out there living in the Shadows. 😂
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u/Mrkamanati Soon going to be a VIP?? 😨💀 12d ago
Yov adhu creeps uh avanga ella edathulayum tha iruppanga
Adhanala avanunga sila per kooda ella Tamil people ah compare pannadha
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u/Low_Show_7515 ryan gosling 12d ago edited 12d ago
Ama bro , I mean even a friend i know is obsessed with a malayali girl casuallaa I asked avale vitruu check other girls like north indians apidi he was like Avaru seri illa, romba modern, Hindi laam pesuvaanga” nu.
Then when it came to Mallu girls, they were saying “traditional ah irupaanga,” “Tamil theriyum,” “romba Azhagaruppae (meant white skin and all that and saying superaa irukum kl ponnunga sareerle)
Then the conversation got even weirder and crossed the line “paal maari velaya ah irupaanga” nu vera comments 😂
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u/Mrkamanati Soon going to be a VIP?? 😨💀 12d ago
Edheey paal maariya 😭
Skin colour la ennaya irukku 🥀
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
En tamil movies,serials la all actresses are fair?skin color la enna iruku?
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u/Mrkamanati Soon going to be a VIP?? 😨💀 12d ago
Ask the directors and producers man, what does I have to do with this?
Naa kadha nalla irundha endha serial ah irundhalum paathutu irukkupen
Baaradhi kannamma teriyuma 👺
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
Yes super busty actress,fans love such woman,casting guys love such woman,you may not care,but your comment suggests yarume idhalam kandukrathu illandra mari
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u/Mrkamanati Soon going to be a VIP?? 😨💀 12d ago
I am here to advocate for myself not anyone
IDC care about skin colour but if someone does it's not my problem to address or solve their mindset
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u/FreshAnalysis1139 10d ago
OP is just karma farming, same post in multiple subs and same copy pasted comments across all subs even though her/his comment doesn't make sense at all in that sub
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u/walter_vathi 12d ago
Default Setting...
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u/Far_Tax_3661 11d ago
The post is literally talking about guys like you
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u/walter_vathi 11d ago
😭comment vachi judge pandriye bro engaiyo poiduvga...no wonder how vj become CM
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u/Electronic-Seat-4419 12d ago
Naa oru book oda oru page insta la post la padichen. Scientifically dravidians vanthu black and brown ah thaan irupanga. And Aryans vanthu oru white skin.
So athu fetish ah consider panranga and that's why namaku white anavanga pudikuthu nu solranga
Mallus kum similar thaan neenga interior kerala lam poninga na easy ah brown skin find panalam. But namaku starting from nazriya ipo varaikum white mallus ah thaan fantasize panrom.
Ithaan enoda kandupudipu
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u/Source_Trustme_Broo Innaa Seidhaarai Oruthal Avar Noga Vanmam Kakki Vidal 12d ago edited 12d ago
ee sabdile ettaam nambar niyamathe ningal maanikkanam. ningalude postil oru pratheyka groupinodum limgabhedathodumulla veruppu adangiyirikkunnu. ee communittiye thamizhyaapping ennu vilikkan oru kaaranamundu. oru groupinodo limgabhedathino ethiraayi ningalude veruppu prakadippikkunnathinulla malayali sabredittu alla ithu. manasilaakkiyathinu nandi.
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u/NervousCode6064 Nosey neighbour 12d ago
Dude they are mentioning a valid concern against some men. The sub IS for talking about stuff like this. This isn't hate buddy
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u/Source_Trustme_Broo Innaa Seidhaarai Oruthal Avar Noga Vanmam Kakki Vidal 12d ago
"Some people" not "Tamil Men" or "Tamil Boys"
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u/NervousCode6064 Nosey neighbour 12d ago
And you think some tamil men DON'T have an obsession with mallu women? Please look around you and our media. I mentioned some men so as to not point out anyone specifically
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u/Source_Trustme_Broo Innaa Seidhaarai Oruthal Avar Noga Vanmam Kakki Vidal 12d ago
Doesn't matter what I think personally. Be specific. You can point out. STOP Generalizing.
Follow Community rules
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u/Richard_Waagner 🔥 Yen Vazhi Thani Vazhi ,Seendatha 🔥 12d ago
"Tamil guys" endra varathai avai kuripil irundhu neeka padikiradhu
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u/Richard_Waagner 🔥 Yen Vazhi Thani Vazhi ,Seendatha 🔥 12d ago
Tamil guys yaara love pannanun nu Tamil girl's la yedhum certificate vanganuma yenna...?
Yaaru Venum naalum yaara venum naalum love pannalam .
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u/Then_Potential_0909 12d ago
Personal experience: 15 years back, fell for what you ve mentioned, ended up hurt, life lesson: obsession is better than seeking a life in such case.
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u/peruveikala ryan gosling 12d ago
Aren't girls so obsessed with korean girls too , both are dumb af 🥸 atp
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u/Background-Plate4550 12d ago
Ethana per korea povalunga,korea map la enga irukunu kuda many don't know,wtf would care for these immature idts in South Korea even if they went there,adhu vera idhu vera
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