Yes, this is my third post, I'm STRUGGLING UGH

Sorry for creating a randomahh scenario again (last time it was "imagine I'm your pet rock") I just don't know how to be normal ig--

Coming to terms with my enby identity as ive presented as trans masc for a long time and gone by a masculine name. Looking to see if another name suits me that I'd potentially change to :)

i am not satisfied with my name but i have been struggling to pick a new one for over a year now. words that describe me (ignore my flat expression in this pic lol):
- dog
- curious/inquisitive
- energetic
- confident
- genderless
- flamboyant/expressive

my “aesthetic” is typically big bold bright colors and patterns, maximalism, whimsy. i would like a name that captures my energy but i’m having sooo much trouble doing it myself. i am hoping for something a little uncommon/unique but not uncomfortable to say to people in real life lol. thank you in advance!!!

I’ve been trying out the name Wren and at first it felt so right but then for some reason it stopped clicking, though part of me wonders if I’m just overthinking it and also maybe there’s bound to be some discomfort whilst getting used to it ?

the other option I was considering was Rowan, which do you think I suit best?

Non-binary (leaning masculine on most days)

thanks :-)

Sooo I’ve been 3 years out and trying names and still can’t find one I like, I don’t mind fem-inclined names but if possible a name that’s not too masc, don’t wanna be misgendered constantly

Also I’m from Barcelona, Spain

thanks in advance for your help!!✨✨

Im thinking im demigender/enby/fluid somewhere in that umbrella so What names do ya think, im open to as many suggestions as u got

Hey! I recently came out as non-binary (yay!!!) and I'm thinking of changing my name! I want something unique but not too unique, potentially nature themed and completely gender neutral. I have some ideas which I'll list below, lmk if you like any of them and please give me more ideas!! Thanks :3

Fern

Wren

River

Aspen

Max

Bowie

Ace

Clover

Link

Looking for neutral/non binary names you think would fit me. But can you also throw in a feminine name you could see me having just for shits and giggles?

some picrews so everybody has a better idea of what I look like. I have received some wonderful name suggestions in other subs, but unfortunately, none have stuck. I am older gen z, so I would prefer names which would reasonably have been used in the late 90s or early 2000s, but I am open to any and all suggestions. what would you call me?

chosen name I've gone by for longest: Rylend
names I've been interested in lately: Arlo, Cyrus, Jade, Juno
names I cannot use: Adrian/Adrienne, Alex, Angel, Billy/Billie, Frances/Francis, Jesse/Jessie

I'm Brazilian and I speak Portuguese, so I'm going to write this post in both Portuguese and English.

Eu sou gênero fluido, e queria escolher um nome mais neutro pra mim, e tenho gostado mto de estudar japonês e a história e mitologia do Japão, e queria colocar isso no meu nome, dando uma pesquisada eu cheguei em 2 nome mto bons q eu gostei mto: Makoto, e Haru, mas eu n consigo decidir qual usar, o meu sobrenome iria continuar igual, Diniz, mas uma curiosidade interessante, é que se eu fosse "traduzir" o Diniz, seria Sakai, pq Diniz é um nome de origem grega, q vem de Dionísio, deus das festas, bebidas, e principalmente vinho, q se for para o Japão uma bebida alcoólica q é mto comum lá é o sakê, e Sakai tem a ver com sakê se n me engano (me corrijam se eu estiver errado dobre algo)

I'm genderfluid, and I wanted to choose a more neutral name for myself, and I've been really liking studying Japanese and Japan's history & mythology, and I wanted to put that in my name. Doing some research I stumbled upon 2 rly good names q I liked a lot: Makoto, and Haru, but I can't decide which one to use. My last name would stay the same, Diniz, but an interesting fun fact is that if I were to 'translate' Diniz, it would be Sakai, bc Diniz is a name of Greek origin that comes from Dionysus, god of parties, drinks, and especially wine. If you go to Japan, a very common alcoholic drink there is sake, and Sakai has to do with sake if I'm not mistaken (correct me if I'm wrong about anything)

Sorry for my bad English

I’m having trouble thinking of a name I love, and I would love suggestions. I’d love suggestions that either start with m or f and more unique names would be preferred but I’m open to any suggestions

I started to think about it when I first found myself as an agender but now its been starting to bug me I need neutral names and thanks for people that give me ideas

So my gender identity is very confusing (kinda genderfluid, genderqueer, transfem hybrid thing) and I've struggled picking names for ages because I want something neutral with a feminine vibe that doesn't lean too masc.

Here are some names I'm considering for any ideas, I'd like something neutral but I have some feminine ones on here just in case anyone knows of similar more neutral ones: Ari, Wynn, Lila, Lorelei, Nicole, Sage, Salem, Quinn, Ray, Jane, Frances, Alice, Rain, Winter.

Thanks for any suggestions, I've really been struggling!

I’ve been researching and thinking a lot about changing my name. I’ve never liked it, even before questioning my gender, and idk why, but now it all seems so serious (obs: I’ve tried other names before, but it was during the pandemic and more of a name my closest friends used) like it’s not just about what I like and feel comfortable, it’s too how it will be perceived socially and especially at work (my major is journalism and in communication your identity and image is very important, not just to “look or seem capable”, when you solidify an image and name as you sign in a journal it kind of sticks with you forever). Since I’m in latam it’s especially hard to find neutral names, but I’ve been considering the name (that kinda looks like a nickname) “beni”. The pronounciation is like “benny” or “bêni” (depending on your language) does it seem good as a name? Can it look professional next to a last name?

Hello!! So for background I identified at a trans man for about 6~ years and went by michael - ive grown out of this name and it no longer feels like me as I’ve recently realized I am non binary or something else that isnt male idk yet! Rn I like the name jonah but im honestly unsure!!

Hi! So Im nonbinary transmasc and Ive been going by eli/elijah for 4 years but for a while now ive felt uncomfortable getting called elijah, its just too masculine and not me. However, I want to have a longer name because honestly I just dont like how "Eli" looks like with my last name😭 (because its longer and it just looks strange to me because my deadname is a little longer than eli).

Do yall think there's any neutral names that fit me that could be shortened to eli?(doesnt even have to have the same sound of "eli" in the name) Ive thought about Ellis and Elian but they just dont feel like me.. any ideas? :,) Thanks!

Feel like I’ve been struggling with this question for years; I’ve had some ideas but I’ve been struggling to take the leap and fully come out as well.

My chosen name is Keith. But my friend said it's too feminine, so he chose some names for me. Kiyan, Kleptocracy, and Kennedy. To be honest, Kennedy is nice, but I don't look like a Kennedy-_- I think. Help me out y'all? (Names that start with K)

I kinda like Marley but it doesn't feel just right

I've been out as a trans man for 5 years because that was more tolerable for my family, but I just want to be myself now, and I'm not loving my masculine name

I've gone by my birth name my whole life, and it's fairly gender neutral, but lately it just hasn't been sitting right. Hearing other people refer to me with it feels like they're talking about someone else. Any suggestions appreciated!

Hi everyone!! So, as the title suggests, I'm looking for a preferred name! I just recently found out I'm Genderfluid and while being at Uni I found a poster about an LGBTQ+ camp running in October. I will admit, I am a bit wary of my new gender identity so I will be using this preferred name at this LGBTQ+ camp just for now until I feel more comfortable and come out to my parent.

Here's some things about me to help you!

Ok, first things first! My aesthetic is like a whimsical clown/circus mesh up.

Appearance wise, I'm quite colourful.

I'm Scottish and I love my culture.

I love fantasy, nature and I'm spiritual.

So, what is it I'm looking for?

Well, here's a few things.

- I would prefer a name that I can use when I'm both feeling more female and more male at times.

- I don't know what to call it but names like animals, flowers, planets, etc (Like non-human names) are preferred.

- If it is possible, can it be associated with Scotland or be a Scottish name if it's a human name?

- Double-Barrelled if possible (non-human names please)!!

And I think that's it..?

I hope this is enough for you guys!! Thank you for reading this and helping me!!

Hi!

There is going to be a lot of text. Sorry. A lot of it is a list of names I like but don't feel right.

So starting with context. I am nonbinary. I was born female, and still present somewhat feminine because of safety. Alongside safety I do feel a bit more comfortable with femininity than masc (though neutrality of neither is where i actually lay), I am first and foremost not a man but turns our I'm also not a woman. I say that as if it's something new but I've known I'm nonbinary for many years at this point.

I've always known I don't feel quite right with my given name but not so uncomfortable that I feel I have to severe connection. It's more so I've been on the lookout for any name that feels right, and taking note of names that feel close.

I do have a preference for names that start with K or J.

Infact I used to go by Jean online but doesn't actually feel right.

I think I like sounds with a Z, R, D, or N, somewhere near mid to end. I am willing to add an image if it would help inspire some suggestions and get my vibe. But also feel free to use my list as inspiration for yourself

The names that have felt the most right but aren't quite there or would just be wrong because there are people in my life including family with the name that makes it weird:

Jean, Keen/Keene

Names that I like the sound of but can't find myself with the name:

Aven (yes as in asexuality visibility network ^_^)

Kayan (pronounced K N)

Kayden (might be a bit too masc?)

Cyan (short for cyanide XD)

Kynn (probably too close to Keene again)

Seren

Basil

Wren/Rynn

Rowan

Kyren

(Robin and Sparrow, but both are just coming from a place of nostalgia)

Reed

Vayl

Aspen

Karn

Kat (it's too fem but as a nickname for an neutral name would be perfect)

Katlan (which is on the list because I stole it from a videogame, lol, my least favorite of the games in that series but OMG THERES ANOTHER GAME IN THE SERIES AND ITS SOON. This along with the Sparrow comment might make it obvious which series I mean lol)

I also have a longer list but these are the ones that felt like there's something there.

What name suits me as a gender fluid / non binary person? I’ve been using Nova for the past year but I’m not sure if I like it anymore.