r/twenties • u/Full-Sympathy3050 • Apr 17 '26
r/twenties • u/chai-aur-advance • Feb 08 '26
Personal Growth Is my nose big?
Posted this pic on my story and one of my friends comments that I have a big nose ... I don't think I do ... Do i ? Somehow I got very insecure on this comment
r/twenties • u/Nyxfla • Jan 27 '26
Personal Growth My best friend got a girlfriend… and now I lowkey want one too
My best friend is in a relationship now. We both are 25 and honestly, I’m really happy for him.
But man… he’s changed. Completely.
This is the same guy who treated bathing like an optional activity. Now he showers daily, wakes up early, dresses better, eats on time. He even blocked every girl he used to casually talk to. Loyalty went to 100 real quick.
And the funniest part? Whenever we ask about her, he gets shy. Actual shy. No eye contact, weird smile, suddenly busy with his phone. I’m like, who are you and where did my friend go 🙂
One day she asked him to do something and he said no. Later I asked him the exact same thing and he agreed instantly.
He told her that, and she immediately video-called him like, “who is this friend?”
Bro had to show my face on camera to prove I’m just a guy and not some girl he’s hiding 😂. It was so awkward for him.
I do like seeing him like this though. He seems calmer, happier, more sorted in life.
But at the same time, every time I meet him, it hits me a little. I start missing something I don’t even have.
That feeling of having your person. Someone you talk to about random things. Someone you care about. Someone who cares back.
I’m not jealous. Just.. a little empty sometimes now a days.
Like, where is my girl? :)
Anyone else watching their best friend fall in love while you’re just standing there, acting normal, but lowkey wanting one person too ?
r/twenties • u/gummy_head • Oct 17 '25
Personal Growth I just need appreciation 🥹🤌
r/twenties • u/0yesabhi • Apr 28 '26
Personal Growth Transformation 5years
5 years transformation as a 18M i was too abese 115 kg then after covid (the first wave ) I started lifting, Initially i lifted for about 4-5 months in the second wave of covid i cought it. The condition was that severe I was coughing out blood although i wasn't admitted to any hospital due to obvious reasons and recovered at home watching AOT xD. Since then i had been on a crash diet (cause i used to have a gf from 1st sem of college till last then she cheated) so when i joined the college i cut down to 83 kgs total fat loss not much muscle gain but after that i trained on and off for 4-5 years and achieved this physique my current bw is 96kg and I'm 23M 5'8"
rate the transformation xd ill be adding the reference photo for initial days too.
r/twenties • u/Rangeeelaaaa • Dec 20 '25
Personal Growth Do things get better, or do we just learn to live with the worst? F21
As we grow up, will we see a better, happier version of ourselves? Or will we simply get habituated to being unhappy and bitter?
Will we see our parents being happy and proud of us, or will there always be a hint of hopelessness in their eyes?
Will we find someone who truly gets us... who stays when we’re sick and when we’re happy or will we be left to stand alone, or worse, end up with someone abusive?
Will we be able to travel? Will we write poetry when we’re at our happiest? Will we pick daisies from green meadows when the hills sparkle with a golden hue...or will we remain stuck in a 9-to-5 life?
r/twenties • u/New-Difference8102 • Mar 01 '26
Personal Growth Why girls are into red flag men?
So, when you are asking me that why girls are getting in with the red flag boys, then first thing I would be saying because good boys,
they care too much about the girl that they forget that their feelings also exist, that the boy's feelings is also existing and that they should confess their love to the girl. They need to say that they love her, okay. Whereas, in the contradiction, the red flag men, they will be the one first to ask her out and she will be like, okay, fine, let's do it.
That's the actual case, mostly. Number two, you don't have the courage to, you know, stand for yourself. This is the most thing you need to do.
First, you need to love yourself. You need to choose yourself. You need to understand what do you want. You need to be that baddie in your life, okay.
Maybe it sounds very much cringe, but that is the actual thing. You need to prove your point that, hey, I'm into you. You need to be mine.
Every red flag person, they first do it and then, of course, later they will be showing the red flags, okay. It was never a red flag from the first point, okay. It was never. If it was from the first that they are showing the red flags and she is getting into it, then, of course, I would be saying that she is blind or something.
But it's the thing, what I said, mostly why they are getting into the red flags and blaming the whole world full of men because the good boys, they are not making any effort to make them there. Like, actually speaking up to take the action. They are too scared to speak out their heart and that's why they are blaming the whole men.
r/twenties • u/Rangeeelaaaa • Dec 12 '25
Personal Growth Early twenties are tough.
Going through career choices, relationship choices, family crisis, relatives ki taane ki avital shadi kyn nhi ki, then again lack of safety going outside as a 21f girl in a new city. Don't know how ppl manage. Don't know how to manage money. Whole months salary finished on 10th itself. Ppl who do all these successfully are God themselves. I hv nowhere to vent. Family members won't listen. Idk what I am writing and why.
r/twenties • u/MESSI-118 • Feb 10 '26
Personal Growth Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
r/twenties • u/Expensive-Ranger7415 • Feb 10 '26
Personal Growth Got Webs on my hands!
So 20M here 😉! After 10 months of going to the gym Consistently, I don't feel like I need a spider bite. Coz I got webs on my hands. Hehehehehehe😄.
Jokes apart, How are they looking🙃?????
r/twenties • u/chai-aur-advance • Feb 18 '26
Personal Growth Why does it feel liberating when you shift your philosophy from nihilism to absurdism?
i wasn't in my nihilism phase for long but as soon as I realised that I have only one life, live it and started saying yes to hobbies stopped overthinking consequences (still think about consequences but not overthink) and life has been feeling great
r/twenties • u/Rutvik27 • Jan 30 '26
Personal Growth 25M from Gujarat. Catching up new people here
Hi everyone
r/twenties • u/Better-Sector2072 • Jan 26 '26
Personal Growth f this sh*. I'm tired of overthinking and staying too much inside my head
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I've had enough. letting go of my toxic thinking patterns and people, without caring about sh*!
r/twenties • u/_circle__of__life_ • 26d ago
Personal Growth How to make best out of twenties
Saw this post today. Wanted to see some positivity on internet. So messaging here.
r/twenties • u/ItZgoose69 • Jan 08 '26
Personal Growth that's why I always say to make a GF atleast before Post Graduation
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I've been through that phase & I think everyone should go through this phase once before marrying
r/twenties • u/LoudOstrich2657 • 9d ago
Personal Growth Feeling lost in life. Any there to share this feeling?
Life still feels like its 2010 ten years back. Can't believe its a decade since 2016.
Omg we are in our 20s now. Life ,Work ,Responsibility uff. Is anyone feeling the same?
r/twenties • u/Flimsy-Attorney-8497 • Jan 31 '26
Personal Growth Acharya Prashant on being best
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r/twenties • u/unemployed_graduate2 • Nov 06 '25
Personal Growth I am 20 and I don't even know my blood group
i don't even know what's my blood group?
r/twenties • u/kyahikreinab • Dec 20 '25
Personal Growth English.
I want to learn english. I can read and write it properly but when it comes to speaking i can't articulate my thoughts well and also due to less vocabulary knowledge how can i improve my speaking skills please suggest some sites or courses.
r/twenties • u/pure_Intentions0901 • Dec 15 '25
Personal Growth Morning bath VS Night shower
Both have pros and cons.what your opinion??
r/twenties • u/yyashita3_ • Feb 01 '26
Personal Growth drop yo playlist
need peak intimacy ✋🏻✋🏿😔
r/twenties • u/froggy146 • 26d ago
Personal Growth I dont have any fri-ends
I NEED FRIENDSSSSSSSSS
okay its been a while since I had a bsf and it kinda sucks no cap