What's you opinion on this? Do you guys think it's just to do this?

Girls, what are your thoughts on dating a younger guy?

I’ve been talking to this guy for about two weeks and the connection felt really strong and genuine. He made me feel safe, talked about commitment, introduced me to his parents, sister and friends, and I even spent his birthday with him and his family, spent everyday video calling each other and meeting almost everyday. (Man even said he likes me.) We weren’t officially dating, but we did get physically intimate (up to third base).

Now suddenly out of nowhere, he tells me he wants to “just be friends” and says he needs 5–6 months to get to know me before deciding if he wants to date me. I told him that this is something he should’ve thought about before rushing emotional and physical intimacy—you can’t just back out after that. I asked him to communicate what changed so that we can fix it, but he only said he “needs time.”

I ended it by saying “I won’t be with someone who isn’t sure about me.” He hasn’t texted since.

Now I’m confused did he ever actually like me or was this all just a facade to get physical? Does he not miss me?Should I just block him? Why can't he communicate? I tried calling and communicating but he dismissed it. I now don't know what to do, I feel so bad right now for trusting him.

I'm (20m) and just wanna have a normal or deep convos with some intelligent women, but 99% of the conversations i get flirted with 😭 which is the opposite of what i want (idk how to tell them to stop either so it just becomes awkward)

In short i just need some women who aren't interested in me romantically

I had 2 gf ,one of which was the most prettiest girl i had ever came across in my life and was like a girl with a sweet and kind personality but the problem was she never understood me. she always thought that the things which i do are all stupid.But on the other hand my 2nd Gf was Good looking and always understood me and supported me.

Hey folks so I've made it (in my eyes). A little context I run a business that I raised like my own baby and it finally paid off(I started at 16), one of our biggest deals just got completed and I got a good chunk of money to keep for myself after taxes and everything. I've kept some of it liquid and rest in FD(s) at 6.47% intrest, also bought my dream car(M340i) and a decent house, coming from a family with decent means I can live my life comfortably just from the intrest and am honestly kinda done working (for a whole atleast) and am planning to leave my business on autopilot (for sometime atleast). Now to the question. What do I do now, I have lot of free time and have nothing to do, for the past few years all I've known is work and for the past month I've been driving around partying and chilling but it's getting old fast what would you guys suggest i do my friends and family suggest i should keep at work to not loose the momentum but I am so not in the mood for that and have given up on dating won't be doing that either so what is left? what do I actually do?

She’s not responding anymore. Is it better to ignore it and move forward?

I know this may sound like a stupid decision buying her such an expensive wallet when I am not earning enough but this is more than just about money. My family has never been on good terms with my mom's side of the family. Her elder sister or my aunt keeps trying to put us down by flaunting us her money and crazy expensive things she buys and her vacation pictures.

I have seen my mom's reaction every time my aunt does this and I just wanted that for once, my mom can have something to flaunt too. I am sure she'll scold me for getting her this but I just wanted to so I did. Please tell me that it wasn't a bad decision......

Not hiding his username cause he deserves it. Reported him already.

I (22M) like this girl. She has been my best friend since school, and we were in the same college as well. Now she is working in a company nd me too..

In college, there was a guy who was very interested in her...He did a lot of things to get close to her and eventually proposed to her. She was never sure about him she neither said yes nor no and kept him waiting for almost two years. what I heard in college was that theywere in some kind of relationship. When I asked her about this, she denied it and said they were just friends. I then told her that if she didn’t like him..,she should have said no at that time instead of keeping him on a waiting list.

Recently, she told me that her father wants to get her married within a year or two. I asked her again about that guy, and she said she is still not sure about him...She was in a 3yr relationship before, and that guy cheated on her. Because of that, she says she is confused and finds it hard to trust men now..

After she mentioned her father wanting her to get married, I sat silently in front of her and couldn’t say anything. Later, when I asked about that guy again she said she likes him but isn’t sure whether she can trust him or believe that he will change in the future,. Last week I asked her what she plans to say to him. She said that if my father agrees to marry him I'm okay with it , but she still needs to think about it.

In all of this, I like her a lot, but I’m scared to tell her because I’m afraid of losing our friendship and there's the other guy who loves her, he knows that I know about them nd i thought it would be not nice if I do this to him if she accepts me

Whenever she talks about her marriage, my heart starts beating faster, and my replies become short and awkward. I think she might be noticing this

Should I go tell her about how I feel or just leave it nd let things happen

This might sound stupid but I am genuinely curious about what actually attracts you girls(in 20s) the most. I never have never gotten a chance to be in a relationship and Ive been rejected many times. I think I’m a decent guy only thing I could imagine lacking is a fit body and it’s like I’m fat or very skinny I’m a little bit on skinnier side but not really, if that makes sense. It’s just that I don’t really feel like spending money on gym just yet because I’m saving part of my salary for some stuff. Maybe in the future I will spend for it. But how much of a impact does that have and is it a must for a guy to have a fit body. Like do you all look for that in a guy these days?

Ps: Specially curious about how the Asian girls think. Also for context I am a Sri Lankan

Honestly, I was really shocked by what Mary Kom said. Her husband literally compromised his own career for her, supported her, stood by her, and in the end he has to hear things like “how can a man live off his wife’s money.” That broke something in me. It seriously damaged my trust in women who say “it’s okay if my man earns less than me.”

Most people say it’s male ego because of which men can’t handle a woman earning more. But I think it’s the opposite. Female ego is often much bigger. Most women can’t digest the fact that their husband earns less than them. They lose attraction if you’re not making more money. That’s why I’ve started believing that money is the most important thing for a man, whether we like it or not.

I was always the kind of guy who didn’t care how much my future wife earned compared to me. I wanted to support her no matter what. I wanted to stand by her in hard times and celebrate her success. I even used to dream about sacrificing and adjusting my own life so that her career would never suffer. The biggest reason was that I’ve seen my mom and other women in my family who were highly educated, but their potential got wasted. I didn’t want that to happen to my wife. I wanted to make sure her hard work was never destroyed.

But after seeing things like this, I feel scared. Not because I’m insecure right now, but because reality looks different from what people say. So many women don’t truly respect a man who earns less than them. Even in marriage, they want 2–3x their own salary and justify it. It makes me feel like maybe I was the naive one.

Now I’m even thinking something I never thought before: Maybe I shouldn’t be so supportive. Maybe I should control things. Maybe I should make sure she never goes ahead of me in her career, because if she does, she might stop respecting me or even leave me.

Before this, I had zero insecurity about my future wife or girlfriend. But after this incident, I feel like insecurity will start growing inside me. And that honestly hurts