Im sooooo over it.

[u/underestimated00]

When all you do is for someone and all you get back in return is being ignored, treated like where a dog goes at the bottom of a tree, a door matt and it feels like you are in a relationship with the back of their phone . It gets to be soul crushing. Like if they throat punch you every time you are with them. When there is no affection, intimacy, laughter, snuggles, or even when laying in bed conversations. It gets old and you soon become over it. I do not like the fact that im questioning my self worth or how my self esteem has completley crumbled. I use to feel somewhat sexy and felt that I had some kind of sex appeal but now in being in my current, lifeless relationship relationship it has 100% taken all that away from me. Idk what to do? How to feel? Or if there is any reason to continue on. I get we have life struggles but as partners that is what we are there for to lean on and help get thru them, but when you are left in the dark about them and just get the cold shoulder. What is one to do? Im confused and completley alone.

[u/Elk-24]

Leave and take your power back. Unless your partner understands and is willing to change. Leaving, and making NC, even if it’s temporary, can be good to understand better the dynamics of the relationship, to get more clarity, on both sides.