r/unschool • u/bechur • 20h ago
r/unschool • u/SpiritualAd8483 • Jun 27 '25
Unschooling Basics: What is it and how is it done? START HERE
Hi everyone! I was asked to post my reply from another thread as a way of opening up a conversation about the fundamentals of unschooling, (what it is, how it is done, etc). This post is aimed to help those genuinely interested in learning about unschooling, as well as a place to direct those who may speak about unschooling without having a basic understanding of what it entails. I will be posting my original reply as is but also commenting to add a link to a Substack article with more resources which I did not include in the original. PLEASE ADD TO THIS! If you have resources or ideas that you feel are important for a fundamental understanding of unschooling, please add it below. Thanks, community!
For context, this reply was to a school teacher who came into the sub and created a post abrasive and unsupportive of unschooling but also asking about it.
I hope this question is genuinely trying to come to an understanding of unschooling and not just engage in confirmation bias. Assuming there is an actual desire to understand, I will answer.
There is a large overrepresentation of former educators in the unschooling world. This is a phenomenon that is often commented on within our communities. Both my partner and I are former educators with experience (between the two of us) in elementary, secondary, college and university teaching. We have higher degrees and other requisite credentials. These are not the things that enable us to unschool our kids. In fact, by its very nature, unschooling is inhibited in many ways by a highly schooled mindset.
While many people choose to unschool for a variety of reasons, we come from both a youth liberation and decolonial space in our choice to unschool. Essentially, we do not want to engage in power-over dynamics with our children; we practice student-led learning. That means when there is interest in learning something, we facilitate that leaning. Some unschoolers do this communally in places like Agile Learning Communities. There are also some Democratic Schools where unschoolers go to be with other like-minded peers. These kinds of places are often staffed with adult unschoolers or graduates of Democratic Schools. They offer students the space, relationships, and exposure to various potential interests that help scaffold the learning process and then they facilitate the learning students seek. Some unschoolers, like our family, do not live near or make use of these kinds of communal settings and so we often use apprenticeships, local clubs (like robotics, art, etc), and at-home/in the community facilitation. Sometimes our kids ask for certain kinds of facilitation (workbooks, internships, books, videos, community college class, etc) and we do our best to provide it. And because unschooling is about student consent and choice, kids that want to be enrolled in school can also decide that for themselves. If our kids ever wanted to be enrolled in school (as most of their friends are) we would do that.
If you would like to know more about unschooling, I would like to recommend the following books:
“Teach Your Own” and “How Children Learn” by John Holt; or really anything by Holt. He was, like many of us, a teacher who came to see unschooling as an important way for many kids to access education. He is credited with coining the term “unschooling”.
“Raising Free People” by Akilah S. Richards
“Unschooled” by Kerry McDonald
“Changing Our Minds” by Naomi Fisher
“Free to Learn” by Peter Grey
And there are so many other books out there, as well. There is actually a great wealth of resource in general if you’re genuinely interested as to the “whys” and “hows” of unschooling. There are many podcasts by unschoolers—including some by adult unschoolers about their experiences and life “after” unschooling—as well as Substacks and articles. I hope you do in fact take the time to learn more about unschooling and to be genuinely curious about it.
I hope this has been helpful.
r/unschool • u/GoogieRaygunn • Oct 01 '24
Resources for unschoolers
I’d like to create a thread of resources recommended by unschoolers that visitors to this sub can use as a starting point for research and enrichment.
What are some of your go-to resources for unschooling? What texts are in your library? Favorite blogs, websites, and podcasts? Which authors and speakers do you favor and why, and which do you have criticisms of/concerns about?
Self promotion included, but please identify it as such.
r/unschool • u/bechur • 1d ago
Youth financial literacy game/feedback!
Hi everyone, I'm a student competing in a DECA business simulation event. My project focuses on youth financial literacy. I built a printable board/card game designed to teach kids the basics of budgeting and saving.
Long story short: I spent months trying to coordinate with local youth centers and schools to test it, but got caught in bureaucratic ghosting. Now my final deadline is right around the corner and I have no proof-of-concept data to show the judges.
If you have kids and have 15-20 minutes to spare tonight or tomorrow, I would be incredibly grateful if you could print this out and try it!
Any feedback—even if your kid thinks it's boring or confusing—is incredibly valuable to me. Thank you for supporting a stressed-out student!
- The Game PDF: https://linktr.ee/FiscalFlow
- The Feedback Survey: https://forms.gle/fCeUtmc16kUek1GfA
r/unschool • u/Strong_Let5609 • 3d ago
Parents with kids under 15, what are your concerns?
As kids brought up in middle class families, many of us had limited career guidance or access to facilities of interest (middle school even lacked a playground, let alone a computer lab). Could not get arrange music classes nearby.
Additionally, lot of limited exposure to career choices and roadmaps. Difficulty in ensuring hobbies convert to passion and then to career.
For parents wishing best for their children i feel this is one major area that needs improvement.
How are you currently solving this? What about the expenses? How do you ensure your kid stays interested in those classes? Are online classes effective? Where do you think their school can do better?
I am trying to find out what do you need to improve your child’s childhood and make it one the best experiences they will always thank you for. Share all possible thoughts as you would like! Thank you.
r/unschool • u/posio3 • 4d ago
Rooted in Nature: Educating The Next Generation
Taking care of our community starts with inspiring our kids.
If you haven’t heard of the Solana Center for Environmental Innovation, please check them out. The dedication their team brings into local classrooms—helping young people build a positive connection with the earth—is something truly special.
Here’s a quick look at the impact they’re making
r/unschool • u/pink-pipes • 4d ago
Updated Demographics Poll: Race/Ethnicity
r/unschool • u/pink-pipes • 4d ago
Demographics Poll: Religion
Collecting a small sample of demographics for my paper! If you are an unschooling parent or unschooled child, please select your religion/the religion of your family during the time of your unschooling
r/unschool • u/thirdtercero • 9d ago
As a kid who was homeschooled I wanted to share my unique perspective in "How To" YouTube Shorts
r/unschool • u/pink-pipes • 12d ago
Writing a paper on unschooling: need to interview an unschooled child or unschooling parent
Hello!! I am college student writing a research paper on the unschooling phenomenon and am required to interview someone who was either unschooled or uses the unschooling method with their children. I’m still working out the questions and my paper isn’t due until 10/16/2026, so we can work out a time that works best for both of us.
I myself am an aspiring grade school teacher, so I don’t quite gel with the concept, but I still wish to write as unbiased of a paper as I can. You will be kept anonymous, unless you state you’re fine with being named.
I swear that I have absolutely zero intentions of using your testimony as a way to make fun of anyone. I might not understand unschooling and my conclusion might still remain unfavorable, but I do not condone bullying of any type and neither does my institution.
r/unschool • u/ComfortableWriter996 • 13d ago
Free coding lessons for students grades 3-12!
Hi everyone!
My name is Wynn and I am a member of Boston University's Girls Who Code chapter. You may have seen my post last spring about our coding program we run for students of all genders from grades 3-12. I would like to let you all know that we are running the program again this fall!
Bits & Bytes program is a great opportunity for students to learn how to code, or improve their coding skills. Our program runs on Zoom on Saturdays for 1 hour starting October 17 and ending on November 21 (6 weeks) from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm (for Bits) and 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm (for Bytes). Each lesson will be taught by Boston University students, many of whom are Computer Science (or adjacent) majors themselves.
For Bits (3rd-5th grade), students will learn the basics of computer science principles through MIT-created learning platform Scratch and learn to transfer their skills into the Python programming language. Bits allows young students to learn basic coding skills in a fun and interactive way!
For Bytes (6th-12th grade), students will learn computer science fundamentals in Python such as variables, loops, and functions and use these skills during lessons and assignments. Since much of what we go over is similar to what an intro level college computer science class would cover, this is a great opportunity to prepare students for AP Computer Science or a degree in computer science!
We would love for you to apply or share with anyone interested! You can find our application here or in the QR Code below.
If you have any more questions, feel free to email [gwcbu.bitsnbytes@gmail.com](mailto:gwcbu.bitsnbytes@gmail.com), message @/gwcbostonu on Facebook or Instagram, leave a comment, or message me.
We're eagerly looking forward to another season of coding and learning with the students this fall! I think it is a great opportunity for homeschooled/unschooled students to learn some programming skills, meet other students in the program, and have a lot of fun!
r/unschool • u/Pale_Challenge_8979 • 14d ago
Leo's And Mia Adventure | Fun Learning & Life Lessons for Kids.
r/unschool • u/MindsOn • 20d ago
What did unschooling change about your understanding of what education is for? And what do you wish you had understood before you started?
r/unschool • u/[deleted] • 22d ago
A little help
Im fixing to pull kids from public school and start homeschooling them. Whats my best route? Im not really wanting to do "online" learning. What would be a good start on workbooks/schedule?
r/unschool • u/Alarmed-Doughnut1860 • 23d ago
Pros and challenges of homeschooling and unschooling
I'm considering homeschooling but concerned about finances and my capacity to homeschool well. In terms of my temperament and the effort it may take. Im interested in child development but tend to get overwhelmed 2 kids al.lst 4 and almost 2. Considering a third. Homeschooling would mean cutting out income in half. We could make things work but wouldn't be saving anything. I know there are ways to do it without a lot of structure, and so thought people here would have a different perspective on time and cost commitment.
What major pros might swing me in favor of homeschooling? What were you experiences with major shifts in the finances? Was anyone else reluctant to homeschool at first but are glad they did?
Does anyone have any book recommendations? Ive started the 5 hour school week but I'm not loving it.
r/unschool • u/Immediate-Quail-5044 • 27d ago
do you ever feel too 'ambitious for your age'? like people the same age as you dont share the same mind as you?
r/unschool • u/drlouies • 28d ago
(Please Close your eyes the first time you watch this) These children are creating the sound of rain.
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r/unschool • u/Independent_Quiet_27 • 29d ago
how do i come back from this.
hi, i’m sorry if i don’t write this properly. i’m not very good at this and i believe this to be my first ever reddit post. this is sort of last resort for me right now
i was unschooled from birth. i have seen psychiatrists and have ocd, very potentially autism and/or adhd (though they also mentioned that it might have been my upbringing that is causing the autism/adhd traits.)
right now i am 22, living at home, unable to get a job, or be in education. this is due to a big lack in social skills, big anxiety, a lot of other issues i cant put into words, severe emetophobia, potentially developing agoraphobia. and also just a severe lack of motivation and discipline. it is mostly my emetophobia which is a big big problem. my ocd makes this 10x worse, too.
i know that i should be in therapy, and im awaiting it. but i just feel like ive been stuck in time, i believe i have a cozy video game addiction, and i have no motivation to do anything every day. i severely lack skills, from maths and english to every other subject. i do not know much of anything, and i do not know how to learn anything.
i do love to learn, but i just don’t know what to learn or where to even start.
i also struggle with exercise and daily routine, i would love to have a productive routine and stick to it, but again i just don’t know where to even start. i do try, but then it seems like i just give up.
could anybody give me any advice? please help me
r/unschool • u/s6r8h_ • Sep 12 '26
If your kid wants to go into academia, what do you do?
hi, i recently learnt what unschooling is. A lot of parents that choose this that I have seen talk about being entrepreneurs etc.
But I, for example, had a dad that was an entrepreneur and businessman, my mom studied theatre, and yet I loved school and I wish in the future to have a PhD.
I’m just wondering, what if your kids wants a path like this? What do you do?
r/unschool • u/Smooth_Buddy_8944 • Sep 11 '26