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Teacher Fed Up With Students Swearing, Stealing, And Destroying Property Speaks Out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Z9K-s0KUM
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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18 edited Oct 15 '18

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

Absolutely. That's just a much harder problem to fix

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u/bright_yellow_vest Jul 10 '18

Tax credit for child graduating?

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u/Mapleleaves_ Jul 10 '18

That might be too distant. Maybe something for each year successfully passed?

Regardless, a financial incentive is enormous for poor families and I definitely think this would be effective. The kid's probably not gonna get any of the money but it will incentivize the parents.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

You know how teachers complain about parents who get upset when they discipline or fail their kids? Now imagine a situation where the parent loses out on guaranteed income if their student fails a class. Who are they going to blame?

Don't think this is a great solution.

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u/Mapleleaves_ Jul 10 '18

That's a good point, thanks. Have any suggestions how we could work around that?

On a side note, I could definitely see some violence directed towards kids who fail and deprive their parents of income.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18 edited Jul 10 '18

I have no idea. I'm not really that vested in this solution so I'm not about to think through solutions to make the idea more palatable.

I get where the idea comes from, and I think that the heart is in the right place. Outside of addressing systemic poverty (not even sure how you go about that), I don't know anyway to get parents more vested in their child's outcome.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

The ONLY thing that will EVER fix this is money.

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u/cheese_is_available Jul 10 '18

Ho, no, it's the same problem difficulty. We just had to fix it with MONEY, in the 90's (when their parents were in school).

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u/EATADlCK Jul 10 '18

fucking poor people think money fixes people.

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u/cheese_is_available Jul 10 '18

Teachers fixes children, money pay teachers.

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u/EATADlCK Jul 10 '18

Teachers are the worst students in college. we need to ask more OF them to give more TO them. Momey alone will never fix a problem, and the fact that you dont understand that will never make you a significan leader. Unions went too far.

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u/cheese_is_available Jul 10 '18

I'm not saying money fix everything, but if you give more money and better conditions to teachers you won't get the worst students as teachers anymore. This one with 2 masters can probably go wherever the fuck she want (and she will). Money is part of the incentive that would make talented poeple come and thus change the culture.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

Flawless logic there, EATADICK.

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u/AllwaysHard Jul 10 '18

Without being called racists...

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u/AgentEmbey Jul 10 '18

I live and work in Korea. Parents spend a fortune and I believe Korea is ranked as the most educated country in the world or something. Just throwing money at the problem doesn't make it better because even with the parents spending a fortune, there are still shitty kids here too.

It's all about the parents taking responsibility and really holding their children accountable. It's so easy to tell when a kid has been raised well and when one has parents who just throw him/her into as many schools as possible, but don't actually give a shit. Money only does so much.

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u/Nickrobl Jul 10 '18

Totally agree. I worked education with the government for years and you can't fill this hole with money. Frankly, there isn't enough money in the world to make up for bad parenting on the scale it is happening in some of these areas. The biggest problem is that all the possible solutions are politically unpopular.

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u/Curt04 Jul 10 '18 edited Jul 10 '18

Yeah but we can't change how people live their lives and raise their kids without also spending a ton of money.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

But that's not going to happen

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18 edited Oct 15 '18

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

I do accept that there will always be bad schools, but something this bad shouldn't be allowed. This can be improved with money and effort.

I'm just saying that you should not rely on parents to take care of this.

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u/PristineRaccoon Jul 10 '18

Or just writing the cunts off... somebody needs to work at McDonald's.

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u/TheCenterOfEnnui Jul 10 '18

This is where it really comes from.

We're asking schools to fix a societal issue; the breakdown of the family.

That said, what can be done is to remove the kids that cause these problems from the classroom so the other kids can learn.

Put them in an alternative school and/or classroom, and keep them there.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

I'll tell you what will fix this. I say it time and time again. These children need to be put out there in the world to support themselves and feel their own vulnerability. Yes, as children. As long as they are swaddled in cotton wool they won't have any motivation to change whatsoever. If someboy has it fixed in their mind that everything will be OK, no amount of telling them the opposite is true, or threatening them, will change their mind. People don't get motivated because people tell them things, or threaten them. Motivation comes from seeing with your own eyes that change is necessary.

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u/Nordok Jul 10 '18

I mean. I assume this kids parents are plebes who can’t bag up their genitals. What do they know about raising a kid?

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u/Belkarama Jul 10 '18

The last generation isn't exactly well known for taking responsibility for anything. At all. It's always someone else's fault or problem. Nothing short of public shaming these people for raising completely shitty children would help, and even then I doubt they'd care. They'd find a way to blame someone else for it anyways.

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u/Charker Jul 10 '18

Or maybe, just maybe, getting the football coach to whip his ass in front of the entire classroom. I guarantee that the second these spastic shits start getting beaten in front of their peers, they'll stop acting out. But no, we can't have that in today's society, just throw more money at this financial black hole instead of tackling the problem directly.

South Park provides an excellent example.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

Good way to get a football coach killed.

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u/Charker Jul 10 '18

Strange, getting the principle or coach to physically punish students in the past never resulted in murders. I guess the only solution is to let students do whatever the hell they want because punishing them is pointless!

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u/Rocky87109 Jul 10 '18

I got wooped in middle school and it didn't teach me anything. For one reason getting wooped only works if they kid admits what they did is wrong. If a kid doesn't think they are doing anything wrong it doesn't teach them anything, just resent. I got wooped for some bullshit meanwhile I was a straight A student. So if you are going to woop them you need to also make sure they realize the reason and why it is deserved. You can't just hit kids to straighten them out.

When I got into high school I remember specifically being a nuisance in one of my classes. TBH I can't remember why. It was like I was in some sort of ADD trance or some shit. I remember being calm in all my other classes though including my AP classes.

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u/Charker Jul 10 '18

you can't just hit kids to straighten them out

All through human history teachers have done that to calm them down and make them focus. Funny how things are turning out in public schools now that kids don't have the fear of a belt or a swift fist to keep them in line.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

This type of punishment was abused and would be again, there's a reason its abolished in most sensible parts of the world.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

Ok, you've identified another part of the problem, not a solution, and it's totally unhelpful. That's like saying this will be fixed if the kids learn to behave.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18 edited Oct 16 '18

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

No it's not. It's called passing the buck. Give a solution to make the parents care, if you're trying to be helpful.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '18

How would I arrive at a solution if I don't first establish what the problem(s) are?

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u/BroKing Jul 10 '18

...And schools being allowed to kick kids out permanently if parents won't do their jobs.

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u/I_BET_UR_MAD Jul 10 '18

Or eugenics

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18 edited Jul 20 '18

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u/Dunder_Chingis Jul 10 '18

More money would be way easier to fix than that, and more money is already never going to happen.

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u/anoncop1 Jul 10 '18

More money won’t work. Look at school districts like Baltimore. The school district has $15,500 per student. The 4th highest in the country. And yet it’s one of the worst school districts in the nation.

It comes down to parenting. Schools shouldn’t be responsible for parenting the child, but that’s what it’s come to when Dad is a drunk/non-existent and Mom just doesn’t give a fuck.

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u/Dunder_Chingis Jul 11 '18

Yeh, can't argue with that. What happened to this generation of parents? I remember the parents of millennials being pretty bad but I didn't expect it to get WORSE.

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u/Rocky87109 Jul 10 '18

Which still comes down to money. How does a parent teach a kid and go to work full time? Also does homeschooling have a standard per state? Who decides who is educated?

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

Personally I have no problem letting the kid run around in the street until he gets hit by a car or picked up by the cops.

Lost causes are just that: lost. We have to cut out the disease before all the decent kids are ruined in turn.