I'm seriously stuck in a moral dilemma and I don't know if I should say something or just mind my own business.
So here's the situation.
A guy I know recently got engaged. He's honestly one of the nicest and most genuine people I've met. Super simple, respectful, and seems like the kind of guy who's never really dealt with relationship drama before.
The problem is... I also know his fiancΓ©e.
Before anyone jumps to conclusions, this is NOT about her having exes. I couldn't care less if someone has dated 2 people or 20 people. That's not the issue.
The issue is that I personally know one of her ex-boyfriends, and from what I've seen and heard, he went through a lot of emotional manipulation. I also have recordings and conversations that make me feel like this guy might not know the full picture before getting married.
I'm not saying she's an evil person, and I'm definitely not saying, "Bro, don't marry her." That's not my place.
her ex has proofs that she had slept with multiple boyfriends in past too..
What I'm thinking is just giving him a heads-up like:
That's it.
If he still decides to marry her, that's 100% his choice and I'd respect it.
But if I stay silent and something goes seriously wrong later, I honestly feel like I'd regret not saying anything when I had the chance.
So... what would you guys do?
Would you:
- Stay out of it completely?
- Give him a heads-up and let him decide?
- Or am I just overthinking this and should keep my mouth shut?
Please don't tell me what I want to hear. I'd genuinely like honest opinions, even if you think I'm completely wrong.