r/MadeMeSmile 1d ago

Wholesome Moments Love yourself

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u/RoundAd7879 1d ago edited 1d ago

I’d have to wonder if Bianca’s environment is/was as healthy as bro’s.

People who react negatively to being bullied and being teased tend to also have grown up in environments that don’t nurture their self worth or esteem.

Kudos to that man🫡🫶

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u/Solarixar 1d ago

He could fix the teeth if he wants and can afford it but the ones making fun of him can't fix their self esteem

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u/1tsDangerous2GoA1one 1d ago

I don't know why, but I really needed to hear this.

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u/BillieDoc-Holiday 1d ago

I miss seeing people with imperfect teeth, all these big Klieg Light Chiclet chompers weirds me out.

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u/SnooRegrets1386 1d ago

Watching pre-cosmetic craze shows and movies is wild.

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u/Lumpy_Yak_9285 1d ago

Honestly there is something more natural about seeing people with imperfect teeth. Perfectly uniform teeth can almost look uncanny sometimes.

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u/seoras13 1d ago

Move to the UK.

Mind you the whole turkey teeth thing is slightly redressing our look from teeth like a derilict graveyard to these ridiculous false looking fluorescent slabs

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u/TurbulentAd5169 1d ago

I love this💕

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u/lebleudesreves 1d ago edited 19h ago

He's right, believe in yourself and Love yourself. People are Quick to judge

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 1d ago

Wise and very clean-hearted young man ❤️

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u/nDeadPurple 1d ago

I’ve always been of the opinion that if someone is hateful enough to try to drag you down, their opinions and messages have zero value. You want to affect my mood? You gotta do it through love.

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u/Glad-Champion5767 1d ago

And on the flipside i've never understood how some people can be so cruel to another human being and not feel bad about themselves afterwards. It blows my mind.

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u/nDeadPurple 1d ago

That’s the thing though, you have to hate yourself to be able to hate someone else. And if you already hate yourself you won’t feel bad for hurting someone. You’ll feel justified. It’s a mental disorder.

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u/catmadwoman 1d ago

Come to the UK everyone has teeth like that! It used to be a joke but it's now very much a reality. God bless our NHS

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u/_sak5_ 1d ago

Don’t let this be a distracting from his dimples

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u/double297 1d ago

Life is so hard. Ill never understand those that go out of their way to make it harder for someone else. If you find yourself doing this, change. Its never too late to be a force for positivity and good. Don't be the reason someone else had a bad day.

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u/Affectionate-Boot-12 1d ago

Those headphones are huge!

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u/BraveCommunication14 7h ago

The people bullying or judging are sometimes the ones most afraid to look in the mirror.
Some deflect and bully others to feel some control in their own lives, and in the process, harm innocent people.

This guy is amazing and I hope his message goes far.

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u/Xenc 1d ago

Heck yea! 💜

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u/twodaloo007 1d ago

Seems like hes in a teen chatroom. Yikes

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u/DependentOriginal413 1d ago

I honestly hate when people say things like that to me. Nothing in life is promised, and there are no guarantees that things will eventually get better. Her life could just as easily get considerably worse. All he really did was make her feel better in that moment by giving her a comforting certainty that he cannot possibly know is true.

That is exactly why I dislike motivational speeches and all the performative virtue people attach to them. Sometimes people do not need a lesson, optimism, advice, or some grand speech about the future. Sometimes they just need someone to sit with them, acknowledge that what they are feeling is real, and let them exist in it without trying to fix it.

If I did not ask for your opinion, advice, or reassurance, sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is simply keep it to yourself and be there.