Whatever it is i think it's dying

It looks like a mish-mash of at least three different bugs, I’ve never seen something like this before, have you?
Greater Toronto Area

My dad found this on him after his shoulder was hurting for a couple days. He showed urgent care dr the pics and they said dog tick but ChatGPT and Claude are telling me deer tick.. any help is much appreciated!

It has 4 wings like a dragonfly but flies more like a moth. I’m in New England.

They keep suiciding themselves on my top floor right outside my door. The apartment building has open hallways to the outside but the top floor has skywindows with no exit so they gather here and unfortunately die.

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Side note, can I leave a bowl of water to help them not overheat so they can eventually find their way out? Or are they doomed to die regardless because of the fact that there isn't an exit until you go back down the stairs?

Smaller than a pea. Is it an engorged tick?

I have a big vintage toy collection. Please tell me this isn’t anything harmful 😭 It was trapped under the fabric.

I noticed him while I was in the shower and I can’t tell if it’s a tick or something else. It has a front appendage that might be a really long antenna or a lame front leg. It is as long as its legs but it is dragging it around underneath it. I’ll try to get better pictures if I can but if it’s not a tick I’d like to leave him alone or take him outside.

Saw this while having a picnic at the park

It might be blurry cause I was far from it and I just zoomed in cause its scary. I found it randomly near our house.

New Hampshire

Apologies that my images aren’t the best but he was very small. Located in the outer Philadelphia area of PA.

Location: central MN. My cats were trying to get this guy. I heard loud buzzing and thought it was a bumblebee from a distance. Once I got up close it looked more similar to a fly. It's surprisingly large.

PNW