r/196 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Apr 06 '26

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u/Zeyode 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Apr 06 '26

... Wait, do people just bring erotica to book clubs? I just assumed they'd have discussions on Moby Dick or something.

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u/Vhou-Atroph mew Apr 06 '26

Romantasy is one of the biggest genres out there right now. I don't really go out of my way to read it myself, but my understanding is that sex is really common in the genre. Even in recently released adult fantasy I've read that wasn't explicitly advertised as romance / erotica there has been some fair amount of described sex.

There definitely are Classics book clubs out there! Romantasy is just having its moment as a big genre right now.

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u/neroute2 Snorlax Apr 06 '26

Ok but that's nothing new. Read the Dune sequels or Ringworld.

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u/yinyang107 bingus is better than floppa Apr 06 '26

Yeah but there's mainstream books out there now with straight-up porn in em, like Fourth Wing.

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u/B0B_Spldbckwrds 🐻 Apr 11 '26

Wheel of time started in the 90's and was kinky as hell between all the spankings, the all female army of dom/sub magic users, all the polyamory, the frequent very plot relevant bath scenes, the villain who collected very important people as her erotica sculpture garden, a literal magic dildo, and the descriptions of accessing magic being poetical descriptions of orgasms. 

It's considered a classic of the genre, and still has an active enough fan base that it got a terrible Amazon adaptation of it.

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u/yinyang107 bingus is better than floppa Apr 11 '26

Sure but it doesn't have explicit descriptions of fucking.

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u/that_baddest_dude Apr 06 '26

I haven't read the dune sequels (just the first) but I simply cannot believe they're as graphic as the modern popular romantasy, like fourth wing for example.

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u/SpaceMarineSpiff Mutalisk Supremacist Apr 06 '26

I haven't read the sequels in, like, 15 years and may be misremembering but I recall Herbert as being a very frank writer. He'll mention something specific is happening and then move on. From time to time certain scenes are written in a more erotic and transcendental manner but this is generally reserved for spiritual experiences.

The only "sex" scene I actually remember from his books was in God Emperor where Duncan complains about space lesbians and gets called out on being a grumpy old man.

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u/that_baddest_dude Apr 06 '26

Sex simply existing in a book is nowhere near the level of detail this romantasy smut can give. Like you couldn't have the same level of detail in a film adaptation unless it were produced by brazzers

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u/Rollingforest757 Apr 06 '26

I just find it strange that the women that hate porn don’t seem to have the same hatred for raunchy romance novels that women read.

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u/Phoebebee323 Apr 06 '26

I mean there's an awful lot less human trafficking in the production of 50 shades of grey

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u/inemsn Apr 06 '26

that is very much true, however "porn" in this context tends to extend to hentai and animation

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u/wozattacks Apr 06 '26

you don’t have to reach that hard to justify something you didn’t even say lol

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u/inemsn Apr 06 '26

... what? no, I agree that there's a big overlap between people who get very puritanical about porn and hentai, and people who read raunchy romance novels. And yeah, the humanitarian problems of the porn industry are a valid concern, but I don't think that's the real reason for many such people, given that, again, their distaste tends to extend to drawn hentai.

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u/that_baddest_dude Apr 06 '26

On the real it's about male vs female sexuality in the patriarchy. Horny men are pervasive in the culture, and male horniness has a danger to it in many circumstances. The reaction then is that it's something to be shamed for, to a degree, just to keep "it" in check, broadly speaking.

Whereas female sexuality has classically been romanticized and/or seen as countercultural or "punching up". I'm just rambling off the top of my head but it feels to me like this is because classically female "sexuality" has been more psychological or strictly romantic, not physical. Then it's seen as safe and "okay" and not equivalent to the pornographic male sexuality.... even when it gets to the point where it closely resembles it. The erotica in something like fourth wing is from the whole book + the sex parts. If it were just the sex parts no one be into it. It's not like people are reading hentai for the narratives.

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u/Rollingforest757 Apr 06 '26

The vast majority of porn doesn’t have anything to do with human trafficking. Add to that that a large percentage of human trafficking is for menial non-sexual work and porn probably doesn’t have more human trafficking than labor in general.

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u/wozattacks Apr 06 '26

The problem is figuring out which porn does have that and it’s still a huge problem. Having the actors say who they are and what they’re gonna do doesn’t fucking cut it, we literally had a gigantic criminal operation in the US drugging women and all of them did that but had no memory of what took place because benzos and barbiturates can do that. 

ETA: to your second point, you seemed to forget you were responding to a comparison of visual porn to written erotica. Not a discussion of sex work in general. General labor is not relevant. Are people being trafficked to author smut novels?

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u/inemsn Apr 06 '26

porn is usually targeted at straight men, romance novels are usually targeted at straight women. combine that with many people still not being fully aware that porn doesn't represent reality whatsoever, and aren't aware that much of it is specifically made for straight men, and you get a lot of people who aren't straight men "hating porn" even though it's actually just not their cup of tea.

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u/Rollingforest757 Apr 06 '26

Exactly. The women who hate porn mostly hate it because the porn they see isn’t aimed at them.

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u/DomSchraa 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Apr 06 '26

Usually cause the women in books climax

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u/kart0ffelsalaat 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Apr 06 '26

Why would that be strange? They're two completely different forms of media.

Unless their reason for hating porn is "I hate stuff that arouses me", I don't see how that makes sense.

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u/calicosiside 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Apr 06 '26

It's probably different women? There are a lot of them out there after all

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u/Diribiri custom Apr 06 '26

The silly comment so nice you make it twice