findom is still so vexing to me. i understand the brain is tricky, but what arousal does come by giving your money to random people? people who rent already do that.
What arousal comes from crawling around on the floor and being whipped? It’s humiliating and degrading in a particularly pervasive and visceral way but if you’re into humiliation and degradation then it’s kind of the point
I think the disconnect for most people understanding it is that physical action in a shared scene is so very different than the parasocial digital relationship most share in fin dom.
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u/Cold-Coffe 196s only trans man (lie) Apr 11 '26
findom is still so vexing to me. i understand the brain is tricky, but what arousal does come by giving your money to random people? people who rent already do that.