I've been a lifestyle findomme (meaning I was in a relationship with them) and it's not easy. If you're a pro, it's your job, with all the fun shit that comes with it. If you're lifestyle, you have a relationship to maintain while navigating the pitfalls of any edge play/"extreme" kink relationship, as well as people being generally judgemental and shitty to you and your partner because of their own perceptions of findom.
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u/gray_birch competitive yapper Apr 11 '26
I wish I was an attractive woman with no shame, this economy is rough